My daughter-in-law quarreled and asked me to kneel down and rub the washboard for her. What should I do? The child is partial to his mother, thank you.

If you don't want to accept the punishment your wife said, you can make fun of her first and act like a spoiled brat. The second point is ok. Let him understand himself and discuss another punishment with the other party. Finally, if the first two steps fail, try to reason with him seriously and make sure not to make the same mistake again. Men's self-esteem is often very strong, although kneeling on the washboard now seems to be a common way for wives to punish their husbands. But in fact, many boys with traditional inner feelings and strong self-esteem are unwilling to accept this way. You can beat and scold, but you can't kneel. A wife should also be considerate of her husband. Although he makes you angry, we must pay attention to other people's emotions when expressing our own emotions. Don't let both husband and wife lose, after all, family harmony is the most important thing. A husband can express his wishes, but his attitude should not be too tough. He should express it euphemistically and let his wife know that you made a mistake.

Joke and coquetry

Many male chauvinists think that coquetry is a thing that hurts men's self-esteem. But where are so many principles in marriage? If such a principle makes both husband and wife embarrassed and unhappy, what's the harm in abandoning it? It is understandable that a man has gold under his knee, but it is not advisable to let the other person down because of his own face. You can tease your wife like a joke. I believe your wife wants you to kneel on the washboard. This is not the way to hate you. It's just a joke. It's not good for you to solve it in a joking way.

Discuss with each other for understanding.

If you really don't want to accept such punishment, you can discuss letting your wife change. After all, the wife only proposed this punishment to let her husband understand this lesson and ensure that it will not be repeated next time. You can solemnly explain to your wife that you have realized the mistake you made this time and promise not to make it again next time. In addition, you can buy her some small gifts on the way and make her happy with small surprises. After all, what a woman wants is not your kneeling down to rub the washboard, but your attitude.

Be patient and reasonable.

Don't think it's useless to argue well. Everyone thinks that women are unreasonable. In fact, women are just embarrassed to express themselves and their changed attitudes. If what you say is true and reasonable, then their hearts will certainly realize their mistakes and make changes. You can explain to her that this crime is very small, not a big mistake, and there is no need to make men kneel. A man can promise not to make him angry next time, give her a promise and give her an attitude that you are wrong and will change when you know it. I believe your wife will not embarrass you.