What are the sad details in "A Dream of Red Mansions"?

The first thing I want to talk about is Xi Ren. After all, it has a lot of ink and is representative.

1. Daiyu’s attitude towards Xiren. Almost everyone knows about Xiren and Baoyu. ?When Mrs. Wang gave Xi Ren a moon silver upgrade (which is equivalent to having a horoscope for the aunt), it was nothing to congratulate Xi Ren. After all, it was a peony flower that was touching even if it was ruthless. ?But Daiyu smiled and made a joke about Xiren, calling Xiren sister-in-law, which was worth pondering. Sister Lin, who was so jealous, was not jealous at all. Because this kind of intercourse girl, even if she becomes an aunt in the future, is not a "person", she is just a tool for her master to vent her desires. The ladies were not surprised, so they ignored it. No matter how much Xiren's heart is devoted to Baoyu, no matter how gentle and courteous he is, in Daiyu's eyes, he is not qualified to be called a competitor. Without threat, Baoyu cannot have a heart-to-heart relationship with her, so he is so tolerant.

2. Xiren’s mother is seriously ill. Xiren's mother was seriously ill, so she went to ask for leave from Mistress Lian. Second Mistress Lian’s reaction was to tell Xiren to dress up and put it on properly, and not to lose the pomp and make others laugh. If the mother is really seriously ill and cannot come back, her clothes and quilts will be sent away, and she is not allowed to use her own things. ?After all, the attacker has to enter the inner courtyard to serve others, so he cannot get dirty. ?Then the attacker came: he had a few gold hairpins on his head and silver rat armor on his body, which looked pretty gorgeous. Mistress Lian didn't think it was good, so she gave her more clothes and packages. Xiren smiled and humbly thanked her. ?The scene of being polite and smiling at this time is reflected in many novels, and then it is said that the little person has no emotions and cannot be sad. ? Xiren dressed up carefully like this, took some girls and wives, and went home to see his seriously ill mother.

The second person I want to talk about is Caiyun, the Caiyun who is close to Jia Huan. Someone once said: Anyone who doesn't like Jia Baoyu in Dream of Red Mansions, I will look down upon. I deeply agree. ?Caiyun is a person who doesn't like Baoyu. She is smart, she is the maid who was counted on her fingers at the crab feast, she is infatuated with Jia Huan, when Baoyu is scolded by Jia Zheng (that is, Yoyo Luming, Lotus Leaf Duckweed Duan) she comforts Baoyu instead of teasing her, she knows very well Regardless of the seriousness, I persuaded Aunt Zhao not to take any time off regarding the Jasmine powder. ? But it was such a person who was rejected by Jia Zheng when he said, "I have already chosen two people for Baoyu and Huan'er." Jia Huan refused to ask Jia Zheng for someone for her, and ended up marrying a bastard who was a prostitute and a gambler.

Thirdly, I want to talk about Xiangling’s situation after marriage, if this can be considered a marriage. I don't know where the remarks came from, but they vividly described Xue Pan as a man who knows both cold and hot, and manages the family at a young age. ?What I saw was that when I first asked for help to fight the famine, Aunt Xue thought Xiangling was really a good person, so she invited relatives and friends to become a house guest. After getting tired of it, she doesn't cherish it and treats it like a stable (original metaphor). Such a girl treats it as a stable. ?You can chase and kick Xiangling naked (after breaking Baochan's good deeds). ?Even Aunt Xue thought she was at odds with Jin Gui, causing Jin Gui to quarrel, and she was so angry that she wanted to sell her. ?Xiang Ling was studying poetry. After being taught by everyone, he would say, "Who takes this seriously? It's just a fun thing." to prove that he was virtuous. ?