What do you think of Nanjing 15-year-old girls who left home for more than ten days and went to the Northeast to meet netizens, but their parents didn't know?

Reminds me of a recent news that a freshman girl and a tattooed male netizen sent nude photos to each other, and the girl was threatened, and then they met by playing games. This girl, perhaps a male netizen from Northeast China who met through online dating, spent more than 1000 yuan before going to Northeast China, indicating that this girl has no preliminary plans and plans for the concept of money, and it is unknown whether she will go to Northeast China from Jiangsu just because she likes it.

However, it is worth mentioning that a man is in the northeast, waiting for a girl to come to him without moving a distance. This routine is likely to meet love rat. Just for fun. I didn't think this girl was serious.

It can only be said that girls who have just fallen in love are stupid and simple, and men are easy to get started. You can look at the girls in the first year. Some smile with light in their eyes, like stars, and they are very immature, so the chances of being succeeded by the master elder brother are particularly high. Girls have to go through two or three relationships, their academic qualifications continue to improve, their income continues to increase, and the standards for men will become higher and higher. In her eyes, everything is different.

Look at this girl, with yellow hair and dressed like a minor. The funniest thing is that she went to the northeast in a thin down jacket. Such a girl who doesn't even have some common sense deserves to be cheated. She doesn't even have the basic common sense of life, and she expects to love another person.

And the girl's parents don't know that the girl is gone. Such parents also lack discipline for their children. However, the girl's mind is all about throwing herself at a man thousands of miles away. Can she be counted on to study hard? Fortunately, the child has no money to be found by the relevant staff this time, which in turn may lead to a farce.

The income of minors is a problem, and there are not many sources of income for the last bed. Even if there is, this feeling is only a young and ignorant play, and only a few people can walk together.

A person who doesn't even love himself, can't even love himself, and expects others to love you well? This girl really needs to wake up. The network is virtual, and friendship is also false to a great extent. Only desire is real, and playing for a while is real.

However, some of them are underage, that is, they don't study well. Their minds are still unclear, their interests are unclear, and their parents don't care enough. It's pathetic. Such a girl is uncontrollable, and the later period is unimaginable. After this man is finished, she can talk about the next man. After all, the internet is so developed, and there are more men than women. It may not be the groom who found it, but it is more likely that she is a love rat pervert who has been playing for a while. So girls should read more books, not long hair and short knowledge, and long snacks!

Combined with relevant information, let me talk about my views on this incident:

The biggest person responsible for this incident is not the girl of 15 years old, but the parents of the child. My underage girl left home with 1000 yuan and went to the northeast for more than ten days. The child's parents knew nothing about it until the local police informed them that they knew the child's specific situation.

Judging from the relevant information, the parents of children lack the most basic attention to their children. They can run away from home for more than ten days, don't know what their children have done, and haven't even contacted their children once. 15-year-old children should still be in junior high school, and I don't know why the children didn't continue their studies.

In this incident, parents also have obvious problems in their daily education. They are very inadequate in shaping the three views of children's adolescence and self-protection education.

15-year-old children have reached the age of semi-sensible, many people have reached the level of adults physically, and because they are in adolescence, they may do some rebellious things. For example, in this incident, if the child goes out alone and accidentally meets some lawless elements, it is very likely that his personal safety will be threatened. Bitterness and hunger are trivial matters, and he may really regret any crime he encounters.

This stage is extremely important for children's future growth path. If there are some problems in family education at this stage, it is likely to have a major impact on children's life.

From all aspects, there are obvious problems in children's cognitive ability. She only took 1000 yuan, wore thin clothes and went out to a strange place, thousands of kilometers away from her hometown. Obviously, she didn't think it through before doing it, and she didn't consider the plan after the money was spent, let alone the possible consequences.

I think school education is still very important for teenagers. School is also a small society. To some extent, the school teaches not only the knowledge in books, but also the knowledge about growth and social interaction. In the current social environment, it is not good for teenagers to drop out of school at home prematurely.

Nanjing 15-year-old girl left home for more than ten days to meet netizens in the northeast, and her parents didn't know. I think there is only one possibility. The girl's parents must be divorced.

When parents are divorced, children are definitely the most injured. The girl grew up in a single-parent family, and her parents probably formed a new family alone. She lacks the care of her parents, does not feel the warmth of her family, and can only rely on netizens to find a loving atmosphere.

At this time, the northeast is ice and snow, but the virtual care of netizens touched the girl. She resolutely came to the northeast to pour out her confusion and feel the so-called love.

Her parents gave financial aid, but they didn't solve their children's growing troubles and were indifferent to them. If the child doesn't come back, they may think that the child must have gone to the other person's house and they are not at ease at all. Therefore, it is reasonable that the girl has been away from home for more than ten days and her parents are unaware of it.

Shallow knowledge is conquered by one person in a few words. On the one hand, materially speaking, perhaps this is the so-called girl who has not been enriched, and a loaf of bread or a pepper is sent away; On the other hand, there may be a lack of spiritual enrichment, family affection and care, including lack of companionship, which leads to cognitive short circuit. At this time, the missing part will be used by virtual care. The cognitive short circuit mentioned above makes it impossible to distinguish right from wrong and whether there is risk in behavior. After some words, the netizen was heartbroken and went to see the netizen without telling his family, and it took so long. Worried about home. In fact, it is not uncommon for students to meet netizens and not tell their families.

In the TV series "Emergency Doctor", there is a scene where a little girl goes all the way to meet a net friend. The identity of a man on the Internet is a promising graduate student. On the internet, this graduate student is particularly kind to girls, which can be said to be infinite care. This girl, whose parents are seldom at home, is occasionally cold at home. Compared with his family, this graduate brother is particularly warm. The little girl ran away from home without telling her family to see the graduate student. The graduate student is a wolf in sheep's clothing. He beat the little girl black and blue and was pushed into the lake. Fortunately, a girl's life should not be lost. On her deathbed, she was rescued by good people and sent to the hospital.

The careful doctor asked about the little girl's experience and called the police. Soon, the graduate student was arrested. It turns out that the so-called graduate student is just an ignorant punk who does some fighting all day. Fortunately, if you are caught by the police, you can receive compulsory education and reform. Otherwise such a broken person really has no bright future.

The little girl's mother rushed to the hospital by train all the way, and the girl was afraid to see her mother. It is not as good as a doctor who meets by chance to show a sense of refuge for his mother in the picture.

It is mostly the responsibility of adults for children to run away from home. Children are the flowers and the future of the motherland. I hope every parent will give their children the right care.

In fact, it is correct for parents to treat their children as friends, because friends can communicate and talk on an equal footing and friends can communicate more openly.

Another girl ran away from home at the age of fifteen. Anhui Bozhou 15-year-old girl has just been found, and Nanjing girl has been away from home for more than ten days, and her parents still don't know.

It is said that a girl of 15 years old in Nanjing, with more than 1000 yuan in her pocket, secretly went to meet netizens on the Northeast Memorial Day. Netizens didn't see it, but the money they brought was spent and they didn't have the money to buy a ticket home.

I wanted to sneak into the station and take a bus, but I was found wandering around the station. When I contacted the girl's parents, I didn't even know that the child had left, which was enough for the parents. My view on this matter is:

First, there are certain social reasons. Today's children left their parents at an early age and began to live on campus. They spend too little time with their parents and communicate less. Especially in rural areas, parents go out to work, mostly left-behind children. Some words children would rather open their hearts to strangers of the same age than communicate with their parents.

Second, the reasons of parents. There is little communication between parents and children. Parents only care about their children's grades, but ignore their due concern for their children. They don't know what their children need or what they are thinking.

Third, the child's personal reasons. Children who are in a rebellious period can't listen to their parents, and they are easy to get tired of learning when their academic performance is not ideal. Full of curiosity and yearning for the outside world. They are immature and easy to be fooled and used by bad people.

The above is my personal opinion. I hope I won't see this happen again, and I also remind parents to spend more time with their children. Companionship is the best love.