Have you ever had any exciting experiences with your sister-in-law?

This is the experience of helping my sister-in-law deal with my mother. Before my brother found someone, my mother was very anxious. No matter whether the person she introduced was Bai Fumei or Wai Gua Pi Zao, she would force my brother to pursue her. After all, the family conditions were very average, and my mother was afraid that my brother would become a leftover man. Later, my brother got married and started a family. Later, my mother and my sister-in-law had a bad fight, and she began to have a lot of prejudice against my sister-in-law, mainly on the following points:

My sister-in-law is one year older than my brother, and she said that if it weren’t for the poor conditions at home, It's her turn to marry my brother. I yelled at my mother: It’s none of your business. I’m two days older than your son-in-law. Why didn’t you say anything? My sister-in-law spends money lavishly, but she is not a lavish spender. My sister-in-law is not greedy about food or clothing.

But when shopping, she will choose better quality products, and the price will naturally be more expensive. But in my mother’s eyes, I My sister-in-law is a prodigal and doesn’t care about money! I quarreled with my mother: Just take it, your daughter-in-law doesn’t care how she spends the money she earns! Besides, she’s pretty good even if she doesn’t play mahjong! If my brother marries someone who doesn't make any money and spends all day lying around the card table, you'll still have to suffer!

My sister-in-law’s education is not high enough, she got married without a dowry, and she was already an older leftover girl when she got married... My brother is really at a huge loss by marrying my sister-in-law! I was really annoyed by this, and I started to retaliate: Before we got married, you were worried that your son wouldn’t be able to find a wife, but he finally found one by himself, but you don’t think he’s worthy of her! Where is it not worthy?

I have an iron rice bowl, seven or eight thousand a month, and a pension when I get old, which is very good in this city. There was no dowry when we got married, but when we got married, my brother owed a lot of debt. Before we got married, my sister-in-law paid off a debt of 10,000 yuan for my brother! I didn’t even buy three gold coins when I got married. My sister-in-law added 20,000 yuan to the bride price herself. She was just pretentious when it came to her parents’ family. What else do you want?

My sister-in-law likes to be clean very much, and she is very particular about what she eats, with less salt and no signs of scorching on the vegetables. My mother has the biggest objection to this. To be honest, I think it is an exaggeration, but everyone’s living habits are different. Just because she married into my family, we can't force her to change her living habits! So I persuaded my mother in this regard for a long time! Why would I favor my sister-in-law? Normal men will favor their wives, and she is the one who lives their whole life. Even if the sister-in-law does something wrong, some husbands will say, I don’t understand why you, a sister-in-law, have such a big face

Because I am also someone else’s family Daughter-in-law, I have been married for four years and I have never felt that my husband’s family treats me as a family member. Every time I am at my husband’s family, I feel a sense of loneliness and helplessness! My mother-in-law also expressed her dissatisfaction with me several times. In the eyes of all mothers, their sons are the best. If other people's daughters marry their sons, they will make a lot of money, but their own sons will lose a lot!