What do boys mean by joking?

What have you ever said to the people closest to you in a joking tone?

1. I have no feelings for you.

I think you are too ugly for me.

3. Do you think we are suitable?

4. What kind of girl do you like?

Behind these jokes, there are actually some small thoughts hidden.

Some boys are insensitive and not good at expressing their love, so they often test each other in a joking way.

If the girl likes him, then he will be more sure of his heart and take the initiative to confess.

But if he doesn't like her, he will definitely refuse to avoid embarrassment.

However, sometimes, boys will take jokes as truth, such as the following two sentences:

"I will take good care of you."

This sentence is a sentence that many boys like to say, because they think that as long as they say it, it means they are serious.

But actually this sentence is not sincere.

Many times, he just said it casually and didn't take it seriously.

Moreover, even if he really likes you, he may not say this sentence.

After all, liking someone and promising someone are two different things. The former is instinct, the latter is choice.