What do you think of "adults should understand: don't tell others what's on your mind when socializing"?

Don't tell others what you think easily. It's not that I can't say it. It depends on who you talk to. In these decades, people have more or less several brothers who can dig out their own hearts and lungs. Without them, it's their own problem. There must be something hateful about the poor man. There is no need to tell others what's on your mind, and others don't want to hear it.

The life of adults is similar to that of others. There is no need to envy this and that. What you see is what they want you to see. Just like your chicken feather life, you should decorate it beautifully in front of outsiders. It is necessary for brothers to have dinner and drink occasionally, and it is also necessary for everyone to talk about life together, which can not only relieve the pressure brought by life, but also enhance the friendship between brothers. At this time, some people will say that you are a fair-weather friend. Such friends can't tell them what's on their minds. At this time, it is necessary for you to polish your eyes and see clearly. The people around you are your true friends. First of all, you should distinguish between "true friends" and "false friends". You can't confuse truth with falsehood. False friends will only regard your worries as their jokes after dinner, and even tell others your worries as jokes. A true friend will understand your difficulties, try his best to enlighten you and make you full of hope for life. In ancient times, some scholars died for confidants, and all the ancients died for confidants. Why can't we tell our friends what we are thinking?

In fact, it is ok to talk about it occasionally. It's boring to talk from the heart all day. Every family has a difficult experience, so you should learn to digest your thoughts slowly. After all, everyone has a family, and no one has the obligation to care about and understand you. Do what children know!

The most important thing is to choose the right person to talk to.

Serious psychological problems, if you are not sincere to others, how can others be sincere to you? Isn't that living in a false world?