Why is the first night of marriage the most painful?

How to spend a wonderful first night is a concern of every girl who is going to get married. Some people say that it is very important to have sex for the first time and the first few times on the wedding night. If it is not good, it will affect the sexual life between husband and wife in the future and affect feelings. Of course, it is good to be satisfied with sex for the first time and several times before. However, some people are not very satisfied, because newlyweds often lack sexual knowledge. Because they have just come into contact, it is normal to be nervous, shy and afraid. However, it is better to have a wedding night. Please note the following points:

1, pay attention to external genital hygiene.

On your wedding night, you and your husband should wash their genitals with warm water and neutral soap. Because of shopping and entertaining relatives and friends, newlyweds are busy and tired, men's skin scales increase and women's vaginal secretions increase. If it is not cleaned, it is very unsanitary and will affect the sexual desire and health of both men and women.

2. Take contraceptive measures.

If both men and women don't want to have children immediately and don't take birth control pills, both husband and wife have concerns, and the woman is more afraid of pregnancy, and her thoughts can't be highly concentrated, which will affect her sexual life. If the woman takes birth control pills in time, or the man wears condoms, both sides have no worries, concentrate and have satisfied sex life.

3. Close cooperation and mutual understanding

At the beginning of sexual life, both parties will feel shy, especially the woman, whose psychological state is complicated and her spirit is a little nervous. You have to let your husband move gently, and you can try several times at a time. The woman should also take the initiative to cooperate, overcome tension and fear, take the initiative to relax, quickly cause sexual excitement, and have more vaginal secretions and good lubrication, which can reduce the pain caused by sexual intercourse and hymen abrasion.

4. Prevent inflammation of damaged hymen.

After the hymen was broken, there was some slight pain and a little bleeding. You should try using sterile gauze or absorbent cotton, preferably once every 2-3 days to prevent the wound from becoming inflamed. If the hymen breaks and there is a lot of bleeding and the pain is unbearable, you should see a doctor.

5. Treat premature ejaculation correctly.

In the first sexual intercourse, the man may have premature ejaculation due to lack of sexual knowledge or excessive excitement, leading to sexual intercourse failure. You should forgive this situation. It's not premature ejaculation After marriage, with the growth of sexual knowledge and the accumulation of sexual experience, the two sides will cooperate tacitly and will soon return to normal.