Why do some girls especially dislike sister-in-law falling in love?

In life, we will find that, generally speaking, both husband and wife are older men and girls are younger. For those couples of different sizes, we all call it "brother-sister love".

Sister-in-law love is not common in life, and many women will say that they can't accept boys younger than themselves! So why is it so difficult for women to accept brothers and sisters? In fact, for these three reasons, they will seriously consider it!

Why is it difficult for women to accept brothers and sisters? It must be carefully considered for three reasons.

Reason 1: Boys younger than themselves tend to rely on themselves.

According to common sense, whether in love or marriage, men should bear the main responsibility, while girls are easily dependent. Because girls are naturally more dependent than boys, they all want to be protected and dependent.

But if a boy is younger than himself, he will feel that he has to bear not only the responsibility of the object, but also the responsibility of "fuck". Because boys mature more slowly than girls. If you add the age gap between boys and girls, then this boy will easily become a "silly boy", that is to say, to fall in love with him, you need to teach him to grow up. Accommodating his relationship will make you very tired and hard. All women are unwilling to accept sister-brother relationship!

Reason two: it's easy to waste time, and love has no result.

Girls fall in love, girls and boys are different. The girl is in love, hoping for a result. But boys don't care, they can get married. You can also look at it with a "play" mentality!

If they are brothers and sisters, there are more problems. Boys get married late and girls don't get married. If you are too old, your parents will be anxious and worried about this unfulfilled love.

Because of this situation, Ms. Wan and her boyfriend are in trouble. Ms. Wan is 34 years old and her boyfriend is eight years younger than her. The reason why we are together is that when Ms. Wan went to Shenzhen alone, she was helpless and lonely. Soon, a boyfriend who was eight years younger than her appeared. In the arduous pursuit, Ms. Wan finally compromised.

They have been together for less than two years, and after all, they broke up! Ms. Wan's family has been urging her to get married. She thinks she is really too old and wants to get married! But her boyfriend has no intention of doing so, thinking that he is too young and has been married for seven or eight years. So the two had no choice but to break up.

Reason 3: Being younger than yourself makes you feel insecure.

Compared with boys, women's aging cycle is much shorter than men of the same age, so women must be older than men. Women can see signs of aging at the age of 30, but men are different. She said, "A man in his forties has a flower". If the relationship between "girls and boys" is a few years later, then women will grow old and men will be in full swing. How to maintain our relationship? So, for your brother's sake, you will put a lot of pressure on women, fearing that you will get old and your man will change, and give up looking for young women. Therefore, my brother is particularly boring.