Did you work hard and put a lot of effort into it, and finally you didn't even get a word of praise?

Compared with caring about the result, we often ignore the process, and sometimes the process is also very important.

The reason why I care so much about the result is because my gains and losses are too heavy and my expectations are too high, which forms a huge contrast and makes me feel lost.

Try to lower your expectations of everyone and everything. Enjoy the process. Grow in the process, sharpen in the process, learn in the process, and work hard in the process.

One day you will look at yourself differently. You will live like your own light of life.

If you get Dont Ask For Help's approval, you can feel at ease.

Dont Ask For Help responded with a clear conscience.

In the world of adults, everyone is not trying and sad at the same time. It doesn't matter. It really doesn't matter. Hold on!

You are the best! It is also the best! This little setback in life is not enough to beat you.

Take a rest when you are tired, settle yourself, sum up your experience, and clean up your mood before you start. [Come on]

Kazuo inamori has a classic saying, the heart can be broken, and the hand can't stop, so you should do what you want. Moving forward in the collapse is what adults should have.

Just lost, it doesn't matter, despise it, you will be the best yourself next time.

Come on (ω)

I have such a personal experience. My husband has nine brothers, and he is the boss. The age difference between him and Jiu Ge is 24 years. Because there are too many children, his family's financial situation is very poor. Therefore, the work and marriage of the following brothers are my business, and I will spend money to do their things well. They didn't even say a word of courtesy when I was in trouble. My daughter was admitted to graduate school, and my in-laws didn't give me a penny. She also said that I gave birth to two teenage films. Why should I give them money? I was depressed and my heart was cold.

Yes, when you are depressed and hard to let go, you can look back at yourself. You didn't love yourself before. Love yourself from now on. Only when you are great will she have you in her heart.

I've had this kind of loss, but not much. I'm lucky.

People with this sense of loss can be said to have a certain degree of emotional intelligence, and people with low emotional intelligence will not feel this way. Why do you say that? Being recognized by others shows that you care about your own efforts, your external image, and the recognition of your abilities by the outside world. You care about other people's opinions, and in turn, you will put yourself in others' shoes, which is what we often call "emotional intelligence".

It's not a bad thing to expect others' approval. Don't complain if you can't get it. I just hope that everyone can see the strengths or contributions of others from small things, whether it is about themselves or not, and learn to express "recognition" to others. This is the basic quality of people.

Who doesn't suffer? Unless he is neither a man nor an animal. It is normal to be rewarded or recognized, but not recognized. First, the other party is not good, or your contribution is useless to the place.

After careful memory for a long time, it seems that I have never encountered such a situation! I think it has something to do with my personality and experience.

Stubborn, close to paranoia, I believe that ten cows can't be pulled back. Unless I don't do it, I will try my best to do what I want to do. Be a man and do things in a way. Leaders should look at the results and think before doing things. So once you decide to do something, you must think about everything you have to bear.

If something goes wrong, we must try to solve it. I believe that as long as it is a work problem, it can be solved. If one method doesn't work, there must be another. There is always a proper way to solve this problem.

Being criticized is also part of the job, so get used to it. It is necessary to realize this.

The above is my opinion, not necessarily right, I hope I can help you. You are also welcome to continue to express your views! Yo-yo, let's cheer together!

I have always regarded my sister-in-law as a family. I never meant to be divided into two families. Until we installed surveillance, I heard what they said under surveillance, which completely changed my previous thoughts.

My family has three brothers, eldest brother, who went out to work in Guangdong when I was very young and didn't come back until I grew up and married my wife.

And my brother, who is 12 years older than me, can be said to be my parents. My mother died of a cerebral hemorrhage not long after giving birth to me, leaving only a few bachelors at home and two older sisters married.

There were no women at home, and my brother was furious and wanted to force him to go out to work. Then he immediately found a wife, because at that time, our family was often laughed at by others, saying that there were no women at home.

When my brother/kloc-was 0/8 years old, he set up a stall in the street to do business. Later, he was attracted by his mother-in-law. His mother-in-law took the initiative to introduce her daughter to my brother. My brother has never been in love, so it's good to be seen. Although her daughter is several years older than my brother, my brother is also very willing.

I later learned why my brother's mother-in-law introduced her daughter to my brother, because her daughter was working outside and met a Jiangxi native, and her daughter was going to another home. Later, his two sons went to pull him back, and this scene was introduced to my brother, because she wanted her daughter to marry home, and she already had an eldest daughter, who married outside and never came back for many years.

My sister-in-law was a little reluctant at first after marrying me, but later she came to see my brother, who was young, honest, capable and able to do business, and finally accepted it slowly. A year later, they gave birth to a child. I was very young when he got married, and she was very kind to me.

In my eyes, I regard her as my mother. I brought up almost all the children after she gave birth. I have been holding her since her full moon, because there is no other one in our family except her.

During confinement, although her mother came to help for a while, she was always married, and her daughter could not call her mother for a long time because her mother still had family at home.

Since my sister-in-law's two children were born, I have been taking care of them as family, and then I went out to work. They study at home. Every year, I go home to buy them clothes, food and clothes, and take them out for shopping and traveling.

Especially at one time, my brother had a hole in his stomach. At that time, going to a big hospital for treatment seemed to have no effect. When he felt particularly desperate, she suddenly said something to me. At that time, I was still in the third grade and had not come out to work in society.

Sister-in-law told me: If anything happens to your brother, will you help take care of your two nephews and me? Although I didn't want to hear this sentence at that time, I replied that I have always regarded you as my family and there is nothing to take care of. As long as I have a mouth to eat, I must bring up my two nephews.

Just last year, things changed a lot, because the eldest nephew had graduated and didn't need to study at home, so he came out to work. At this time, my brother and sister-in-law have been working outside, and both nephews are taken care of by my father.

He was with his parents when he first went out. Because I didn't adapt to my new job, I only worked for two months, and then I resigned and left. He came to me and I have been taking care of him. I not only eat and live well here, but also often give him money.

I haven't found a job for my nephew because he doesn't know much about dealing with people and wants to educate him here. I also told my sister-in-law that he is educating him because he is not sensible. At that time, my sister-in-law didn't say anything. I thought he was approving what I did.

Another nephew is studying at home because his parents bought him a mobile phone. Later, he never went to school again and often asked me for money every week. I thought it was okay to give a little, so I gave it normally.

Until some time ago, I installed a home monitor, and my brother's mother-in-law happened to be ill. They also came back from Guangdong. After dealing with things, I heard their conversation under surveillance. Hearing that conversation, my heart broke down, because I felt that I had paid so much and I had been so kind to their family. I have always regarded them as my family, but I didn't expect him to guard me everywhere.

I have been pointing out my fault and saying that I am hurting his son. When I was in Guangdong, the care and education for his son was hurting his son. And this son at home, because I often give money, he also said that I hurt his son. At that time, when I heard this sentence, my mind collapsed and I began to position my life.

I have worked so hard for their family, but I didn't expect this kind of reward. This kind of kindness, although parents are not sensible, but now the son has grown up and understood some truth. He told me that I didn't have to worry about what his parents said. Anyway, I will always remember his kindness. I don't care about these things. I just need to do my own thing in the future, and I don't care about other people's business.

I worked hard and finally got no recognition. It was really frustrating.

At work, I really want to get the boss's approval when I work overtime, but in their eyes, employees are paid, and it is what employees should do to finish the work, so there is no need to thank them.

But female colleagues like me will show their hard work to the leaders, such as overtime. She will take some photos of herself at work, and then send them to a circle of friends and say, it's worth it to be bitter and tired again! The leader saw it and finally left a message for her. The boss said that she would be reimbursed for dinner.

If you want to be recognized, you might as well use some tips. Even if it is not recognized, it does not have to be lost. After all, your work experience is your own.

Those who work don't earn money, and those who don't work earn a lot of money. Those who have achieved results are excluded, and those who have not achieved results are rewarded with various honors. Isn't that what teacher Yao Yanyan is like? It doesn't matter if you lose it, mainly because if you go on like this, there will be no trust between people, and even hatred has been aroused.

Many, the workplace only recognizes the results. ...