The moment after divorce is difficult, but how to face the dark moment after divorce?

How do disappointed women in marriage spend the most difficult days after divorce? Don't take divorce too seriously If divorce is a relief, it will be a good thing to know you best. Don't celebrate with gongs and drums, at least don't be so sad! How did the divorced woman survive later? Most of them. It seems that everyone should stick to it with tears in their eyes. It doesn't take effort to really let go. The more you force yourself to forget, the more painful it is, and the more you can't let go. Give me a little time, let the process have a process, and some people will naturally feel at ease when they encounter something. As an adult, you should learn to accept it. After Coco divorced, he was locked in his room, and no one wanted to see him or herself.

A very positive and optimistic girl suddenly changed, depressed and threatened her prestige. She also thought about suicide many times and didn't want to live. She also knows that it's not worth it for that kind of man, but she can't get through it. It turns out that a person's heart is really painful. In order to alleviate the pain, she pinched her own flesh with her nails and tried to transfer her inner pain to her body. When she can't sleep at night, she pours wine desperately, looks at the trash can in front, spits, spits and drinks. When I woke up several times the next day, I always found clear tears on my face. She realized that she shed tears reluctantly again in her dream. People who have just lost their feelings cry loudly when they want to cry. Never bear it, never bear it. That will only make you more miserable. Facts have proved that many times, when you cry, you can vent your emotions and feel much better.

Coco thinks he won't trust men anymore. She thinks "I love you" in a man's mouth is a joke. I may have really loved you when I said this to you at that time, but it doesn't mean that he can love you all his life. So love words are only true, not false, and women just listen. It is necessary to use practical actions and time to prove how long and how much you love. Because of her ex-husband's betrayal, Coco lost the most basic trust between people. At the same time, Tian Mi also doubted himself. I really feel like a failure. I don't know if it's myself. It's really too bad. If you just feel pain, maybe you can bear it. Sometimes inexplicable panic and rapid heartbeat. The next second, I suspect that shortness of breath will suffocate. I'm too tired to walk in the room for two steps! I don't go to work because I know my status, I can't work at all, I become rude and reckless, I get easily stimulated without listening to a word, and then my emotions get out of control. Feelings are the saddest. It's really hard to make you sad. In that most difficult day, Coco survived like this, and then nothing happened, and he slowly walked out. (great). There is a line in "33 days of lovelorn love": "Time can cure everything." Although I can't say how long it will take. You think you've lost the world, but what you've lost is your habit. You have his habit. In other words, you have nothing to lose and you are not sad. Just because you are used to living alone.

There is a saying that I want to give it to women who have not been divorced for a long time. "Day and night alternate, clear and round, and life cannot be dark forever. No matter how tired you are in the future, you should stick to it. Don't be stupid, don't be humble, don't hurt yourself, and continue to love life. If you win, you will find that it is really not worth it. You just need to control your feelings. Don't confine yourself to a dead end. The world is very big, and there are many wonderful things waiting for you to discover. Pain is a natural process and one of the experiences of life. Only when the pain has passed can we meet hope and light. Only you, never do anything that hurts yourself. " For women who haven't been divorced for a long time, the fact that they may not accept the fact of divorce seems to be declining, and they feel uncontrollable pain. In this state, extreme behavior is easy to occur, and as people around you, it is the responsibility to give them more love and care. Divorced women should also remember. Heartache is normal, and people are emotional animals. If there is no fluctuation, it is not normal. You should remind yourself as much as possible and convince yourself to accept it. Also, don't be sad, don't feel bad. This process must end. It's over. It's over. Seemingly destroyed, it can also be a rebirth and baptism for you.