How can I have such a father-in-law My husband and I are going to collapse.

treat it with a normal heart. Bitterness doesn't change the problem. Be tolerant to your husband's family, especially the old man. At least show your tolerance in front of your husband and people around you. You can think for yourself, even if you finally get married with the simplest etiquette, you will lose a lot of shame, and whose joke your friends and relatives will see at last. The man's relatives and friends probably know the old man's character, so will they laugh at you? Not to mention the family side, I will only sympathize with you. Will the neighbors laugh at you? No, they will only praise you and sympathize with you. The old man doesn't make the wedding grand, you can make it exquisite yourself, even if you borrow money for it. Of course, don't go too far. In this way, everyone will be on your side, the popularity is in your hands, and nothing can be changed. It's fair to use an open plan, so that you can make sense if your husband's family is not good to you in the future, and if you are against you, you won't be a tutor.