Chatting online is very high, but what if there are communication obstacles in reality?

Have you ever found that when some friends chat with you online, they really feel that they have nothing to say and meet each other late? However, once offline, it is like a different person, and chatting is always full of embarrassment.

Because online chatting is basically expressed in words, at this time, a person's true character can be reflected. And any exaggerated expression can be carried by words, so there is no pressure, and chatting is certainly speculative.

Because offline is a face-to-face chat, unscrupulous expression on the Internet will become nervous with personal inner depression. In reality, such people usually appear more introverted and taciturn. In fact, it's not you he's embarrassed about, but everyone.

Method 1: First of all, you can't dislike his introverted performance in reality, otherwise, he will be more nervous and at a loss. At this time, you can give full play to your eloquence, and when you are talking, he can relax and chat with you.

Method 2: If you can accept him in reality, then you need to give him more tolerance, don't give him embarrassing and embarrassing scenes, let him stay where he feels comfortable, or even, you can watch the stars with him, just watching, without too many languages.

Method 3: If you can't accept him in reality, leave him as soon as possible, and if possible, give him a little stimulation to wake him up and change himself.

Method 1: For people who are completely different online and offline, it is first necessary to find out why they hide their true feelings in real life and become bad at expressing their true feelings. Find out what you're really afraid of. Are you afraid of saying the wrong thing, exaggerating your expression and being laughed at? I suggest listening to Eason Chan's magnificent song more often. In reality, your poor expression hinders your development. You must change yourself.

Method 2: Find out what you are afraid of and experience it in real life. For example, if you are afraid of being laughed at for saying something wrong, communicate with people in real life more, deliberately say something wrong, learn to appreciate that sometimes mistakes are also a kind of beauty, learn to appreciate yourself, and don't blindly deny yourself.