Why do you dislike talking more and more?

Why do extroverted and lively people sometimes suddenly want to talk?

One of them replied: You are the one who tells jokes happily in front of others, and you are the one who meditates alone behind others. There is no contradiction, but these two things make you feel happy.

Not wanting to talk is a stage of life.

I don't like to talk, and I don't know how to greet people. It seems a bit withdrawn and cold.

But in fact, each of us has intermittent silence, and we don't want to talk to people, and it is getting worse with age.

The invention of mobile phones has greatly narrowed the distance between people and made communication more convenient.

Interestingly, in the reserved British hands, mobile phones have become a tool to avoid talking.

Most British people don't like chatting with strangers, especially in public places such as bus stops, supermarkets and squares.

Authentic Englishmen don't want to gossip unnecessarily with others. They think they should go their own way quietly and not disturb each other.

The relevant departments also broke their hearts and organized a "management?" In the London underground. The activity of "Chatting" aims to encourage people to open their hearts and accept the wishes of strangers.

Unexpectedly, this move had little effect and attracted criticism.

"If I want to talk to a stranger, unless he speaks first."

"This is more embarrassing than my new colleague calling my name by mistake."

"If the other person leaves something behind, I will talk to him."

The British "Guardian" also called it "creating panic".

In view of the British "man show" personality, mobile phones have become a shield for them not to talk. Once an acquaintance doesn't want to talk on the road, he takes out his mobile phone and pretends to make a phone call, so that "gentlemen" can avoid a troublesome chat.

Don't want to talk, to some extent, not only because of the gentleman, but also because of appropriate restrictions.

Your trifles have nothing to do with me.

I don't want to participate in your ups and downs.

Appropriate restrictions remind us to speak according to the time and place, leaving some mystery for the other party, so that we will not speak easily.

In sociology, there is a method called "appropriate alienation principle", which means that people should follow a moderate distance, so as to leave some space for each other and better safeguard their emotions.

In the cold winter, two hedgehogs need to find the best distance, so as to keep each other warm without being stabbed.

Writer Zhou said in his book "Quiet Place": "Sometimes I prefer to be with people who don't like to talk, rather than with people who talk a lot. The feeling of' no need to listen to nonsense, let alone force yourself to talk nonsense' makes people feel very comfortable. "