Why don't introverts fall in love?

What are the introverted performances of introverted girls?

When you look at introverted girls around you, do you find that they don't have boyfriends? Why? What are their introverted performances? Can you effectively avoid introversion?

Why can't introverts find boyfriends?

First, introverted girls tend to feel inferior.

Many girls are not naturally introverted, but because they are not confident enough in some fields and can't get psychological satisfaction. Over time, they will become inferior. This kind of inferiority makes them ashamed to express themselves and always afraid of being despised by others. They avoid group activities, dare not look at others, even dare not participate in the social parties and annual meetings organized by the company, let alone find boyfriends, and even have little chance to find bosom friends.

Second, introverted girls are very vigilant.

Introverted girls like to be alone, whether reading or writing or staring blankly in the sun, as long as they are not allowed to contact the crowd, they will feel very comfortable. But as they grow older, they have to try to get in touch with the opposite sex in the anxious eyes of their elders. They are always wary of contact with the opposite sex. They are worried that the other side has ulterior motives and that the other side looks down on themselves, so they close their own world. Even if the other person wants to open their world, they often can't find a window.

Thirdly, introverted girls are usually insecure.

When having dinner with boys, they will think about the scene of breaking up in advance, so as to find an excuse to escape in extremely embarrassing circumstances; When chatting with boys, they will prepare the topic of silence in advance, so as to keep a somewhat elegant posture when they are accused. These are all manifestations of insecurity. They are good at self-protection and difficult to trust others. It is really difficult to find a patient, caring and tolerant boyfriend.

Why can't introverts find boyfriends?

What are the manifestations of introverts?

1. Show off when no one is around.

Introverts don't like to show their talents deliberately, they want to hide their talents and abilities in their hearts. When there is no one around, they will become unrestrained and show themselves more freely. Self-appreciation is the philosophy of introverts. This has also led some introverts not to accept others' humor about themselves, and this kind of open humor makes them feel scared!

Step 2 cheer in the air

When everyone chooses to cheer and applaud, some people will express their praise silently alone! Really introverted people don't like to cheer loudly, but express their opinions to make others notice their emotions and make themselves uncomfortable.

3. Being alone is fun

Psychological research has found that introverts have more complicated thinking and tend to give simple things more meaning. For example, 10 people sit together and tell jokes, 9 people laugh, 1 people don't laugh. This man is an introvert. In his view, the details of jokes are given more meaning, and he should think more. In the end, he found that he thought too much, so he was often an introvert who laughed last.

4. Be sensitive to the pain of others

True introverts care about others' feelings. They often take the initiative to ask about the recent situation of people around them, not only close people, but also acquaintances. Talking about these experiences will make introverts feel pain.

Enjoy personal worship

Introverts don't like to participate in communication. For example, when you face five people and ask them a question, four people have a heated discussion, and the only one who knows the answer doesn't say a word. When you ask him alone, he will tell you the answer. He likes your worship of him. This person is actually an introvert.

What are the manifestations of introverts?

How to avoid introversion

In fact, as far as introverted personality itself is concerned, it should be regarded as both advantages and disadvantages. It should be neutral and should not be labeled as "hateful" or "bad". However, many introverts hate their introversion. They hate being withdrawn, unsociable, afraid to show themselves in public, and timid, as if all their troubles are due to introversion. As we all know, introverted personality is just a representation, and the essence behind it is their lack of self-confidence, lack of courage, poor communication, thin skin and so on, while introverted personality is only the externalized form of these problems, and its core is inferiority. Therefore, only introverts who lack self-confidence will have a negative attitude towards their introversion. In other words, their denial of their introverted personality is essentially a denial of themselves.

How to avoid introversion

These are the reasons why introverts can't find boyfriends, and what are the performances of introverts? Introverts naturally have introverted reasons. Introverts can't find a boyfriend because they are not good at communication and falling in love with others, so they can't find a boyfriend.