At first I thought I could get rid of the divorce, but now I'm not doing well. What should I do if I want to remarry my ex-wife?

This topic is too general. I don't know whether the topic is modest or true. Because this topic already contains two very selfish ideas.

At first I thought I could get rid of the divorce. Then the man took the initiative and was willing to file for divorce.

Now you have a bad life and want to remarry your ex-wife. Is it too late for a man to miss the sweet happiness when his life is not smooth, and then feel the kindness of his ex-wife? And is it like a child? At first, when he felt depressed, he wanted to run away. If he can't get along outside, he wants to come back. This is the child's coquetry to his mother, not the husband's attitude towards his family and wife.

I think if you hold this attitude, your wife is probably tired. What she wants is a husband. In any case, she will not be selfless. She wants a child as old as her or even older than her. Or you already have children of your own. Obviously, this child was raised by your ex-wife.

How much responsibility have you done as a husband? Now I want to return, but I still have selfish thoughts, and it is a kind of gain rather than a pay.

Your attitude and thoughts have been decided, even if your wife accepts you, it is doomed to be a tragedy. Because you still don't understand the meaning of marriage. Marriage Although equality between men and women is a common responsibility, men should bear the main responsibility for marriage. A man should love his wife and pay love and responsibility to his family, instead of blindly asking the other person to be nice to you.

What should you do? Of course, it is not hopeless. No matter what you have experienced before, whether you are unfaithful to me or out of character, since you are determined to return to your family, you should show your sincerity. I naturally hope you don't act like a child. When you are tired, you will feel that your ex-wife is so headstrong. You'd better consider how much value you have in the early stage and how much value you have for your children, so that you can give full play to your energy to treat your ex-wife and children and really provoke family responsibilities as a man, otherwise you will be recognized by your ex-wife.

Even if not, at least as a man, you have a clear conscience about your family and children!