Husband doesn’t want to do housework? What "techniques" have women learned to make men obedient to you?

Husband doesn’t want to do housework? What "techniques" have women learned to make men obedient to you? 1. Language skills: Make men think they have the right to make decisions

When many women require men to do housework, they often use a commanding tone, making people feel that they "have to do it". Let men do housework and have good speaking skills. For example: If you want him to dry the clothes, you can say this: Husband, I am going to cook now, can you dry the clothes? Or are you going to cook? After dinner, when you want him to take out the trash, you can say this: Honey, do you want to wash the dishes or take out the trash? Many men are unwilling to dry their clothes, take out the trash, or cook and wash the dishes, but when faced with optional questions, they can't help but make decisions. Maybe what he chose was a very simple housework, but at least it achieved our first step goal. 2. Give praise and rewards immediately, and it’s okay to be sweeter

In the past, I heard a man’s complaint: My wife suddenly worked overtime temporarily on Sunday, and the man took the children to play. Later, he thought he would be praised by his wife, but instead of praising him, his wife scolded her. Because he did not apply mosquito repellent to the child, the child's feet were bitten several times. From now on, this man no longer wants to take care of the child alone. If the child has any problems, he will ask his mother.

In fact, men are sometimes like a child who has not grown up and needs praise and rewards from adults. When a man does housework, if he doesn't do well, don't complain, blame, or say bad words; if he does a very good job, then you must praise him, thank him, and give him some rewards immediately. As long as your husband does the housework, even if he just dumps the garbage, you should be good at observing and praise him for the good job. As time goes by, he will naturally be willing to do housework. 3. Do housework together to create a warm atmosphere and promote relationships

In my mind, my family has always had such an interface: my father cooks and stir-fries in the kitchen, and my mother does chores, picks vegetables, and washes dishes. , peeling onions, the two of them chatted and laughed, the aroma of the vegetables filled the house, which was indeed heartwarming. Therefore, when two people do housework together, they don't have to talk about unhappy topics. Instead, they talk about happy things that the other party is interested in. This will make the man feel that doing housework is very happy.