Are remarried people happy (those divorced and remarried couples)

Jordan chan once said: Once I get married, I will never divorce. No matter what happens, I will try my best to solve it, so that the marriage can last. Even if the other party is having an affair, I will only put things on the table and try to solve them, not divorce on impulse.

But not everyone can do this. Many people, when they get married, will be full of infinite longing for marriage, but only after they get married will they find that all kinds of trivial things will follow. At this time, quarrels will also occur frequently. When they often quarrel, both of them have no patience with each other. At this time, marriage is prone to some cracks.

After cracks appear, many people may divorce on impulse. After the divorce, they found that leaving each other affected their lives and began to remarry.

In the process of remarriage, some people think clearly, and some people are just impulsive, which leads to two different endings.

So, are those couples who remarry after divorce happy after marriage? The experiences of three experienced people inspire you.

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@ Ms. Zhou: Unhappy after remarriage.

I was able to divorce my ex-husband because he was too lazy. In a general family, the man is in charge and the woman is in charge. However, in our family, it seems that I am in charge. He can't make money by himself, nor can he take care of his family at the same time.

I have to work during the day and help my child with his homework at night, but he seems innocent. To tell the truth, seeing him like that and his marriage, I really didn't want to continue for a day, so I divorced him.

But after the divorce, children always like to ask me where my father went, where did my father go, and why didn't mom and dad live with us? After asking for a long time, I feel very sorry for the child.

I can't involve my children because of the affection between my parents. In addition, my ex-husband kept begging me to remarry, and I promised for a while.

But I didn't expect that after remarriage, life would be the same as before.

He still hasn't taken the responsibility that a man should take. In this marriage, I still try to be perfect as before. So, I regret it.

I want to advise those sisters who want to remarry, you should know that you live for yourself in this life, not for others, or even for children. At least this person can change. If he can be the same as before, he would rather live alone.

@ Ms. Li: After remarriage, I am still very lonely.

In marriage, the ex-husband has a hobby of playing games, and once he sees the games, he can't care about anything. I am helping to take care of everything at home.

People say that after you get married, your quality of life will be by going up one flight of stairs. However, I feel more tired after getting married. He doesn't know how to share the housework at all, let alone understand you.

It seems that this family has always been mine. In this case, I am really tired.

So, I asked him for a divorce, but after the divorce, he seemed to be a different person, waiting for me at my door every day, and sending me some love breakfast, which made him particularly diligent.

In this case, I am a little soft-hearted. I thought maybe he had changed, so I wanted to give him another chance, so we remarried.

But after remarriage, life is as dull as ever. Maybe, men are like this. Once lost, they know its preciousness, but when they get it, they don't cherish it.

Some feelings, missed. Don't look back if you miss it. When you look back, it's not what you felt at first.

@ Ms. Bai: After remarriage, I am very happy.

Why are we divorced? It is because after getting married to a certain extent, it is very dull. When they got home, they had nothing to say, and each played with his mobile phone. There are no surprises in their usual life. Life seems to see the head at a glance.

I don't know when we went from talking about everything to having nothing to say At that time, the two of us divorced very tacitly.

However, after the divorce, the two of us actually became friends and would discuss things with each other. In this way, it lasted for a month, and I felt that my impression of each other in each other's minds had reached a new level.

So, the two of us remarried. After this remarriage, I can feel very different. He has changed. Before, he was an honest and wooden man, but after remarriage, he became very romantic and knew how to give me some special surprises on some special days.

He used to be a shopkeeper of cutting, but after remarriage, he knows how to be considerate and care about me, and I am very satisfied.

After this crisis, I found that our relationship is getting better and better.

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From the experience of divorce and remarriage of these three couples, we can learn one thing: marriage is not a child's play, so we must be cautious. If you choose one person, you choose your whole life.

So in this process, you should look at various factors to see if the problems that once existed between you have changed.

If the original problem still exists, even if we reunite, we will not be happy.

In fact, being together between people is a process of getting to know each other and running in with each other.

As long as there is love in each other's hearts, we can certainly overcome many obstacles.

Divorce and remarriage are, in the final analysis, only a choice in life. If you make a good choice, it will affect your life. If you make a bad choice, it will ruin your life. Therefore, no matter what you choose, it must be a well-thought-out ending, at least you won't regret it later.

Today's topic:

Are divorced and remarried couples around you happy?

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