My boyfriend is a straight man of steel, and he jokes about my sadness every time. How can I tell him that I don't like it?

If your boyfriend is a straight man, then I think in daily life, he may not care too much about what he said or how the other person feels. This is really a troublesome thing. After all, two people must consider each other's feelings when they live together. If one party does not consider the feelings of the other party, then words in daily life may become the most aggressive weapon.

First of all, I think you can sit down and talk it over. You can tell him clearly that don't joke about those sad things, which will hurt him a lot. You have to tell him that these things are against you and you don't want to talk about them. Whether in daily life, he said these words or made fun of you, it is a kind of harm to you. In his mind, he may think that these are not great things, and he won't care, so he won't feel your true intentions through what you hide at this time, so I think it will be more useful for you to tell him directly than to hide it.

I think don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you. If such a thing happens, you can also take out his sad thing as a joke, but only once. You should also make him feel sad. When she feels this feeling, I believe he won't do this to you again.

Life is a matter for two people. I think everything should be put out. After all, your boyfriend is straight, and it is even more necessary for you to put this matter out. So when this happens, don't hide your inner feelings, just tell him.