400 jokes about salary payment

Let me tell you how I did it in the first place and see if there is anything I can learn from it. Just married, I asked him to put my salary here, but he insisted that he couldn't do it. I can feel his uncertainty about the future and fear of losing money. I'm not angry, it's normal for him to have concerns, because such concerns are hidden in his heart, but I think if my marriage fails in the end, it will be the biggest setback in my life, and trust is the most basic thing in my family. Since he doesn't trust me now, I'll give him my trust. I said, then put my money in your place. Together, the family is living, and you are responsible for family expenses and financial management. He is in a daze. He doesn't accept my salary card, but my card is in the cupboard with his, so he can use it himself. After a while, I said that I had to prepare some cash at home, and sometimes it was too late to run to the bank with the money. When the matter is handed over to him, he will take out the money in the card as spare money. I put the money in my card in place, and I also put the money in his card in place through the internet. He accepted this fixed exchange in Cary. After two or three years, I said that I saw a wealth management product now. Do you think it is worth doing? We discussed and passed many products. In this process, I showed my knowledge, views and opinions on financial management, which was recognized by him. Then I opened a wealth management account on my card and asked him for permission to transfer tens of thousands of dollars from his card to do wealth management. Ma, I got stuck in his psychological bottom line. Later, the transaction amount became larger and larger. For convenience, all the cards are mine, and I am responsible for all the expenses at home. However, for abnormal family expenses, no matter what I do, I will greet him first and explain what I want to do with the money. I will do it only if he agrees, and I will never do it if he doesn't agree. Having said that, I feel that even if I buy insurance outside, I will only buy it if I have trust, and two people have just lived together, and this trust has not yet been established. If you want to take him all at this time, there will definitely be resistance. Even if he is willing to pay, in fact, you should whisper in your heart. If you want to gain his trust, everything will come naturally. So how do you gain his trust? You showed your ability, your bottom line, your loyalty to this family and your patience. Also, don't stop him from spending money If he makes money, he can spend it. If he spends money, he can make money again, so that he can live comfortably. If he doesn't feel constrained, he will be less dissatisfied and vigilant.