In rural areas, I often see uncles and aunts chatting together. What are they talking about?

Nowadays, the content of chats in rural areas basically does not talk about the shortcomings of Dong’s parents and Li’s family. Unlike in the past, it was only about the village, and few people in the village had any other knowledge. Things in the village were important events. Now many people go out to work and have more knowledge. There are more things on mobile phones and TV. Regarding things in the village, It's not interesting to talk.

Once these words are introduced into this person's ears through other people's mouth, it will be ignored by generous and easy-going people, but they will not be accepted by more serious people. It can be as simple as facing right and wrong as it is, or as serious as using your hands and feet.

In short, in rural areas, small and medium-sized groups of people are together, and short conversations between the host family and the Li family will lead to conflicts if you are not careful. Remember the words of the ancients: Sit quietly and think about your own mistakes, and don’t talk about others’ faults in small talk.

So-and-so makes a lot of money, so-and-so can’t afford to eat, so-and-so’s wife gives birth to a baby boy, and so-and-so’s girl gives birth to a girl. Neighbors add fuel to the fire. This kind of person is the most annoying and annoying to everyone.

As the saying goes: distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors, and close neighbors are not as good as the opposite door. Rural people do have good neighborly relations, which is why they live in groups of three to five, with the boss in the east and the boy in the house short. But there are good and bad aspects to this phenomenon. It would be good to get together to talk about social development, rural development, and exchange planting experiences, but it is not good to chat about other people's family scandals. Sometimes there are often quarrels between husband and wife, or rumors. It's still not good to do things that hurt other people's reputations.

Of course, there are also some talkative women in the village who are not very good. They gather together just to speak ill of others or sow discord. Everyone has the ability to judge. I believe that after a long time, few people will be willing to chat with such people. It’s okay to say it once in a while, but it’s boring to say it all the time. Therefore, when people in rural areas gather in small groups, they don't always talk about the shortcomings of the boss and the Li family.

Sometimes I also chat, but of course it’s not about the Li parents and Wang family’s gossip! What I talk about most recently is the decoration team, tile purchase, house decoration and furniture purchase. You can get a lot of useful information through chatting. "Learn from each other's strengths and offset your weaknesses, and you can avoid many detours."