Do you know that?/You know what? Episode 10: Mother Kong punishes three sisters and benefits a lot.

Bi Sheng is the head of the family. Because of his experience with Xiao Niang since childhood, he prefers his concubine, Lin Shushuang. Although he can't spoil his wife, he does have too much respect for Lin Shushuang. Even Lin Shushuang's son and daughter can be kept in her mother's room, which causes Moran to be competitive and cry and pretend to be unhappy.

Moran successfully shirked his responsibility by sneaking into the outer hall to spy on foreigners, which not only punished Ru Lanhe, but also gave the old lady the opportunity to ask Mother Kong to teach her granddaughter a lesson.

Although it is a punishment, it is also a learning experience. As the old lady said, Hua Lan didn't understand these arty things when she ate at the count's house.

Xu Linshuang knew this, of course, so she begged Yi Sheng to put China orchids. Mother Kong was fair and didn't refuse. On the one hand, because she is a girl from Fu Sheng, it is hard for God to refuse. On the other hand, I believe that mother Kong should also anticipate that there will be disputes one day, so there is no need to refuse in a hurry.

From the first day, Moran put on a high profile and showed himself positively. Unfortunately, Kong Gang did not buy it. After that, Moran sought performance everywhere, apparently eager to learn, but really had no chance to ask her sisters for advice.

The clever mother Kong didn't learn the lesson immediately either. Only after the contradiction between Moran and Rulan escalated, did she invite Mrs. Kong and Frost to learn the lesson one by one. The words she taught the girls and the methods of punishing people have far-reaching benefits in the family, both in ancient times and in modern times.

First, parents should have a bowl of water level. Although there are many one-child families now, there are still many families with many brothers and sisters. Parents should treat their children equally and treat their children equally, so that they will not have bad feelings towards their parents and brothers and sisters in their hearts. You know, no matter what, you are most afraid of keeping up with the joneses.

Second, people should be modest. Although Mammy Kong hasn't been to Sheng's home for a long time, she can see that Sheng Ai is very interested in the ointment and Chinese cymbidium. It's not just between brothers and sisters. When we get along with others, we don't need to be modest everywhere, once or twice, but we can't say this again and again. After a long time, disgust is inevitable.

Third, disaster comes from the mouth. Ru Lanyin is the first daughter of the first lady, and her temper is as straightforward as that of the first lady. Usually no one in the family dares to talk about her. This time, mother Kong told Rulan that she needed to think twice before she changed her temper, so that there would be fewer disasters in the home front of the day. This is actually a warning to each of us.

Fourth, a family is a whole, with one glory and one loss. Mother Kong told me that although there is nothing wrong with her, all her family members are family members, and those who are ashamed of others' mistakes are family members, and no one can escape.

And if we just punish the two sisters for letting her go, it will encourage others to look at the fire from the other side in the future, so that even the family can read their own jokes.

Five, people are expensive in self-knowledge. Lin Xiaoniang speaks when she knows that she shouldn't speak, and makes mistakes when she knows that there are mistakes, so that she is speechless, and even Shengji can't believe it. I also warned everyone to pay attention to the occasion, what should be said and what should not be said should be careful.

6. Knowing is better than not knowing. Although arranging flowers and ordering tea is not necessary for life, the old lady also mentioned that Hualan was scolded by her mother-in-law because she didn't understand these things. It's like you don't need to know a lot of etiquette now, but if you know Kung Fu tea, read history and master some special skills, people will definitely look at you with new eyes.

In fact, everyone in the Sheng family understands these principles, but the authorities are confused and the bystanders are clear, and no one has clearly pointed them out. Only outsiders and teachers like mother Kong, plus the mother in the palace, can anyone listen to them.