Don't show off your wealth with them! What kind of relatives are not telling you?

Wood is beautiful in the forest. Will the wind destroy it? This is a simple philosophy. Unless you are a magical person, others can't catch up with you. In other words, even if someone doesn't like you, there is nothing they can do about you.

Otherwise, as long as you stand out in a group and dwarf the people around you, they will reject you for no reason and try their best to draw a line with you. If not, they will agree with you, because you are excellent and appear incompetent. This is an unacceptable fact.

This is common sense and human nature, but some people have to go against the trend. For example, if they make a little achievement, they will show off their wealth everywhere. It is wrong to show off your wealth, and it is even more wrong to show off your wealth with relatives, especially with the following four relatives. That's adding to your mistakes.

The first kind: relatives who love to take advantage of you, see you show off your wealth and ask you for money.

Relatives are poor and rich, poor relatives are neglected, and rich people naturally flock. Smart people will hide their talents and protect their wealth everywhere. Even though they are rich, they used to live in poverty and suddenly have a lot of money. Such people are prone to psychological imbalance, blinded by the wealth in front of them, and can't help doing some crazy and irrational things.

In reality, the most common way to show off wealth with money is to buy all kinds of property, squander it, and put on a domineering driving appearance everywhere. Even every move smells of money.

When the former relatives saw that the humble man had become a rich man, their first thought was jealousy, and then they thought about how to get something from him. The simplest and most direct way is to borrow money.

Borrowing money normally is an emergency, which is very human, but the jealousy caused by showing off wealth will turn sour when borrowing money, is it similar? Take advantage of the fire to rob? The meaning of.

In the past, robbing the rich and helping the poor was generally to fight local tyrants and divide the fields. Now, because of showing off wealth, it also attracts aggrieved relatives to think about it, which is not worth the candle.

After showing off your wealth, when you are faced with borrowing money, there are two possibilities: if you lend it, others may not be able to get it back, and it may lead to more trouble; If you don't borrow it, you will be jealous or even hated, and you may be retaliated in the future.

Therefore, showing off wealth is to give love an opportunity for relatives to take advantage of, and relatives often have ulterior motives.

The second type:

Gossip-loving relatives see you show off your wealth and spread rumors about you.

A young girl went to work in other places. After a few years, she earned money through her own efforts, went home to build a house and bought a new car. She thinks she will be proud when she comes home in gold.

I didn't expect her Excellence to attract those jealous remarks. Some relatives began to make all kinds of fabrications, saying that this girl was doing shady things outside, being kept by others, or being a girl in a hair salon. Such a rumor spread like a virus and soon drowned the girl.

Originally, building a house and buying a car was not to show off wealth, but to rely on real skills. But some people who love gossip will deliberately make it up, which shows how terrible people are and how hurtful they are to show off their wealth.

The third kind:

Tread low and worship high relatives, watching you show off your wealth and curry favor with you.

Since ancient times, people have deceived their superiors and deceived their subordinates, and relatives are no exception. When they see who is developed, they all scramble to climb friendship; When you see who is down and out, you will feel that knowing him is a matter of fall in price, and you will hide away like a plague.

When such relatives see someone showing off their wealth, they usually try their best to please them like a slave. However, as long as there is any trouble, the person who shows off his wealth will spread negative news, will he? Interesting? Hide.

Don't show off your wealth to others, especially such people? Wall grass? The same relatives reveal your wealth and bring trouble to themselves.

The fourth kind:

Relatives kidnapped by morality always want to get benefits when they see you show off your wealth.

Rich people know? Go to wealth and eliminate disasters? The truth is that some relatives who like to kidnap others morally will use this as a threat and push their luck, always trying to get some benefits from you.

He may not have a chance at ordinary times, but as long as he sees you showing off your wealth, he will discover the new world like Columbus and find his own goal. He won't stop until he gets something from you.

Showing off wealth is actually for those relatives who try to make a breakthrough, and you will be kidnapped by it morally and be in a dilemma.

Conclusion:

Don't show off your wealth when you succeed, because people are unpredictable. Afraid of thieves stealing, afraid of thieves thinking? That's the truth.