Be bullied, endure or fight back?

We have been taught since childhood:

If you don't bother your family, why can't he bully others and bully you? Don't compare with others. Our family has no power or influence.

Therefore, many people have learned patience since childhood, from the gradual upgrading of unsuitable shoes to being pulled by male students, being put on shoes by leaders, and even being abused by their husbands, they dare not say anything.

What are you afraid of?

Afraid of being laughed at, afraid of no one behind, afraid of being entangled for a long time is still a joke.

The helplessness of childhood continued into adulthood. I was bullied like a child and was at a loss. I can't even go home and cry because if my family finds out, I'll just have to wait for a beating, and no one will fight for myself.

But you've grown up. You are not the thin and helpless child who needs adult protection to live a good life.

Only you know how painful it is when you cut yourself. Whoever bullies you, you should bully him back and beat him severely if necessary. There's nothing left anyway. Who's afraid of who?