"Future daughter-in-law, I will train you as a husband!"

Text/Wanxi

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Recently, a mother who forced her son to do housework became popular!

Not only has she received likes from countless netizens, but she has also gained a lot of "daughter-in-laws".

What happened was that in a variety show on a certain satellite TV, a teenage boy complained bitterly and protested against his mother forcing him to do housework.

He had to wash dishes, mop the floor, pick vegetables, stew rice, cook porridge, and mix cold dishes. The boy said aggrievedly: "I'm just a teenager! Can you stop forcing me to do this?" Did you do housework?"

Unexpectedly, the mother refused with a smile: "No."

Next, the mother discussed why boys must do housework from an early age. .

When I saw this news, I couldn’t help but think of a funny short video I saw some time ago.

The content is as follows: A two or three-year-old boy is being guided by his mother to mop the floor and wash the toilet. The soundtrack was a string of laughter, and the caption was "Future daughter-in-law, my husband, I have already trained you."

At that time, I was laughing so hard that I was out of breath. Maybe I was just shooting this video. To make the audience laugh. But the video vaguely conveys the equal sharing of housework between men and women, which can make people smile.

Yeah! Our future mother-in-law has really made a lot of progress.

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I have seen very few mothers who take the initiative to ask their sons to do housework.

Including my mother.

When a country family gives birth to a child, neighbors like to ask: "Does it go around the field ridge? Or around the pot?"

In one sentence, the difference is clear and clear. After work, it seems that the girl will be pinned to the pot forever, doing all the washing and washing.

When I was a child, my mother would leave chores like washing the dishes and sweeping the floor to me, but my younger brother was carefree and never touched his fingers.

I protested and got angry, shouting angrily that it was unfair. But my mother smiled slightly and said, "If you don't know how to do housework, your husband's family will dislike you in the future and blame me."

I was filled with indignation at that time. When I grew up, I thought about it and saw my mother. limitations and narrowness. After all, she herself also grew up with the idea that "men are the masters outside and women are the masters at home".

Everywhere you look, there are almost women doing laundry and cooking, taking on all the housework on their shoulders.

This is a bad habit left over from thousands of years of feudal thought. It is obviously unreasonable, but it is deeply rooted in people's hearts.

When the background switches to an only-child family in the city, the indifference becomes more and more intense, eventually leading to the situation of "not being diligent about the four bodies and not being able to distinguish between the five grains".

In "Beijing Women's Illustrated Book", Chen Ke married a Beijing native, a man in his 30s who couldn't peel an apple. Chen Ke showed an incredulous look, and he said confidently: "My mother has always cut it for me!"

The implication is probably that my mother used to take care of me, but now it's you.

I guess most mothers-in-law have a similar mentality. Zhu Yuchen’s mother, who hit the screen not long ago, is the master of this kind of thinking.

"To marry a bride is to marry a new mother. You must work hard and bear no complaints just like I did to my son."

The question is why?

Who is not the little princess in the hands of their parents when they are at home? If getting married means becoming a nanny and a maid, then why should I get married?

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In fact, boys who can do housework are even more powerful in the marriage market.

As the mother said at the beginning, housework is not simple manual labor.

It can cultivate a man's sense of responsibility and create qualities such as self-reliance and diligence. In the long run, it is also a strong guarantee for a happy marriage and family happiness.

It is said that most failed marriages die because of insignificant trivial matters. Among these trivial matters, the distribution of housework is the hardest hit area that triggers wars.

Men who don’t know how to do housework, are unwilling to do housework, and don’t like to do housework can really ignite the anger in women’s hearts time and time again and burn the marriage to devastation.

Ordinary secular couples are not likely to encounter war or terminal illness.

What tests the relationship between husband and wife is actually the endless cooking, washing, and mopping of the floor.

Instead of having a big fight after getting married, why not instill in your son the idea that "everyone is responsible for sharing household chores" into his mind while he is still young?

For a woman, marrying a man who can do housework is one of the greatest blessings in marriage.

To tell you the truth, I chose Mr. Gao back then because he was a good cook and never regarded washing dishes and cooking as a woman's job.

He followed me home for the first time. After putting down the gifts, he rushed into the kitchen and helped my mother cut and stir-fry vegetables. He was so busy that he was sweating profusely.

The elders all praised him, and my aunt even expressed envy and hatred: "Other people's sons-in-law have never let me down."

I followed him home and saw my mother-in-law. Assisting my father-in-law to cook soup and rice. Mr. Gao and his younger brother were busy peeling garlic, wiping the table and putting dishes and chopsticks. None of them were slumped on the sofa waiting for the meal to be served.

This picture strengthened my determination, because my parents-in-law have already trained a qualified husband for me.

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The biggest problem for Chinese mothers-in-law is that they treat their own sons as emperors and other people's daughters as maids.

Under the influence of this mentality, most men have been trained to be hands-off shopkeepers, and naturally push the housework to their wives.

Unfortunately, times have changed. Marriage is not about making a living, but about making both husband and wife happy.

Therefore, mothers-in-law and future mothers-in-law, please be sure to treat your sons correctly.

Don’t think he is extremely handsome!

Don’t lament that he is unparalleled in the world!

Don’t think he deserves royal treatment!

The son you hold in high esteem is just A, B, B, D in the vast sea of ??people. When he grows up, he will still be tested by marriage and work hard for worldly things.

All the hardships you have endured for him will be repaid in full in life, including in study, life, and marriage.

Let your son do some housework appropriately. That will not only cultivate a husband for your daughter-in-law, but also create blessings for his life.