Why didn't the blind date succeed?

The blind date introduced by parents is difficult to succeed, mainly because the parents and elders speak you too well, but the blind date is far from successful, so if it fails, you can look at the following five suggestions.

1: learn to be coquettish.

Your success rate has increased by 80%. If you are satisfied with that person. Your coquetry will arouse men's desire for protection. The feeling of being needed will make you feel valuable. (although sometimes I don't realize it myself)

2. The speaker is unintentional, but the listener is intentional. This is why chatting is good at ordinary times, and why it suddenly gets cold.

It is possible that your words hurt each other and you don't know it yet. Let me give you an example: for example, two people go out to eat. The blind date girl finished eating. The man expressed his concern and asked, "Do you want more rice?" At this time, the blind date girl didn't say anything on the surface. But I am not happy. What's the matter? You said I was begging? (The above is just an example of 1. Many of them are not concerned or just joking, but the other party cares. )

3. Don't be too melodramatic.

You may not find the topic when you start chatting. Some blind date men may only ask about your job. School. If you ever thought it was checking your account. Then there is a sense of disgust. Then you have less chance.

Analysis: In fact, blind date means mutual understanding and understanding. Audit or not. You calm down.

The man began to ask the blind date for photos. This makes the blind date girl very unhappy.

Analysis: Give photos if you want (some people may say, who is he? He wants me. I give it? The advantage of giving photos is that you can do it. If you can't do it, forget it. No one is wasting time. Because it costs money to go out and meet. For some people, they don't want to spend unnecessary money to support other people's wives.

5. Boys don't like you. There's usually only one reason. The appearance does not meet his requirements.

According to different men. The requirements are different. There are high and low. Can't pass the first level. Men don't understand your inner self at all. Be quiet. You have a good heart.

Analysis: blind date has no emotional foundation, and it doesn't feel when you start meeting. I don't want to talk about it at all, and I don't want to meet again. But suppose you are classmates. There was no emotional foundation at first. But we must meet every day. Over time. It is possible to have feelings. This is the difference between blind date and playing with friends.