I went to see my sister when she was in confinement. My sister didn't call me at dinner, and I burst into tears when I walked into the kitchen. Why?

When I was a child, I liked fighting with my sister. The difference between them is less than a few years old. They just like to compare with each other and look at each other crossly. Many times, our conflicts are caused by wearing clothes. I like my sister's style. My mother thinks that we are not twins and we can't wear everything the same! I was jealous when my sister wore it to see relatives. My mother said I didn't look like my sister at all, so I quarreled with my sister over this trifle.

When I grew up, I found that my sister took care of me as my sister, and I became my sister. No matter how to deal with things or work, my sister is a very wise person. When we took part in the work, my sister and I were no different. When we are free, we will get together to discuss what we encounter in our work and life. My parents are at ease about me going out.

When people grow up, they face marriage. I watched all my friends get married, but I was in no hurry. I always feel that their marriage is not very happy, so I have no idea about marriage. My sister is different. She has positive views on love and marriage. Every time, she says I just look at things too rigidly. We have to experience marriage and love, just to see how to treat it.

My sister got married before me. It must be contradictory to watch my sister get married. After all, she is older than my sister. I am still like this. My parents will definitely talk about me, but if I know my sister, I will persuade my parents to relax and not be so absolute about everything. In fact, I also talked about a boyfriend, but I just felt that the way I got along with my boyfriend was not very harmonious. He is the kind of person who thinks nothing of me, but I often think of him.

My sister also advised my boyfriend not to continue since he had to pay again, but I couldn't bear to let go of my feelings for several years and keep wasting them like this. After watching my sister get married and have children, I am also very anxious. I want to hint at my boyfriend, but I haven't mentioned marriage yet. My boyfriend seems to be playing dumb, saying it's not the right time. I'm also worried when I hear that.

Thinking of my sister's confinement recently, it's good to go home and see her, and then look at her baby. After I bought a plane ticket home, I didn't go home directly, but went directly to my sister's house. I was embarrassed to see my sister's mother-in-law so enthusiastic when I entered the door. My sister may see that I am tired, so she let me have a rest. After a rest, the afternoon will arrive. I found that my sister didn't wake me up for dinner after lunch. My instinctive reaction is to go to the kitchen to see if there is any.

Just entering the kitchen, I saw my sister take the initiative to help me cook porridge. I said, what are you doing? How to cook in confinement? Sister said she couldn't go out to blow-dry her hair. Besides, I heard your boyfriend talk about you. Aren't you worried that you won't eat? I'll cook some porridge in case you just want to drink porridge! Besides, my mother-in-law didn't cook for you because we don't like leftovers. Seeing that you slept soundly, we didn't dare to disturb you, so we cooked porridge for you.

Hearing what my sister said, I shed tears. I don't know that when I was most sad, my sister told some cold jokes, so I had to put up with it. I drank porridge cooked by my sister. Sister said earnestly, don't get married just to get married. Go home if you feel wronged. If you want to get married, find someone who loves you, and don't cling to an unworthy love. Looking at my sister, I realized I was really embarrassed and didn't know anything.

Conclusion: You have a warm-hearted sister, and your sister is indeed more open-minded than you in marriage and love, so as my sister said, your own thoughts are very important. Do what you want and follow your heart. Don't just look like you're completing the task. Your boyfriend may be really immature! So you should feel whether you want to go on or not, and don't make yourself too tired.