Is it possible to get back together after a breakup?

Many people try to renew their relationship after breaking up because they are unwilling to accept it and because they still have some illusions in their hearts. Little do they know that the moment they let go, the relationship is no longer the past. Just like a mirror, the moment it is broken, it is full of ruins. Even if you try your best to repair it, the surface looks intact, but the cracks are already deep-rooted.

Some people say that the chance of getting back together after a breakup is 82%. Only a very small number of people can make it to the end, and the vast majority of people will break up again because of the reasons for the first breakup.

In fact, if you think about it, once you truly love, you will not break up easily. But if you make up your mind to let go, you will no longer find a reason to continue.

Sometimes girls will often break up to prove that boys care about them. In fact, they have never thought about giving up. They will have a tantrum, have a cold war, and reconcile again because of the sweet words of the other party. Just because the love for him has not dissipated, sometimes because he cares too much, he will break up to scare him. Such small fights can add spice to the relationship, but if you really make up your mind at the moment of breaking up, If you leave, then there may be no future.

Tangtang has been in love with the boy for three years, and they have broken up numerous times. Among them, he did not visit her on the agreed date, he did not buy her the gift she wanted, and he said one more word to the girl. Such little things. In fact, thinking about it later, it really wasn't enough, but at that moment, I decided that he didn't care enough about me, so he would lose his temper and act petty. It was just because he cared too much about the other person that he expected a response from the other person.

I think Tangtang really loves boys, so much so that she can accept it even though she knows that he still misses his ex. The moment we found out, Tangtang had broken up, but the days after the breakup were not much easier.

She would miss him unconsciously, the way he smiled slightly with the corners of his mouth raised, he always said that his smile was too showy; she would miss him saying good night every night in a magnetic voice; He will always have so many jokes and jokes to make himself laugh; he will remember his favorite taste and will appear in front of him the next day when he says he misses him. When we were together, we didn't know that we cared about him. When he left, we realized that we actually loved him to the core. Compared to the sadness in his heart when he left, it seemed that the presence of her in the other person's heart was not that important.

It was also from the time when they were separated that the boy finally realized that Tangtang had already entered his heart unknowingly, and his nostalgia for his ex had gradually faded away. Later, they reconciled, but Because each other finally realized their attachment to each other, and because they still couldn't bear to let go.

But this time Tangtang decided to really let go. He could accept his nostalgia for his ex, and he could accept him chatting with other girls, but he couldn't accept that he couldn't see a future with him, couldn't accept that he was content with the status quo, and thought about his future with her, but he never thought about it. Have worked hard. I urged him to work hard more than once, and he kept agreeing, but still stopped moving forward. Tangtang finally said goodbye to this relationship.

After the breakup, the boy tried to stay with her many times, but Tangtang never had the urge to reconcile with him. After the breakup, I also learned about his current situation. I still don’t have a fixed job and I still follow my own temper. I spend three days fishing and two days working online. In fact, I know in my heart that I am still attached to him, but I really can’t accept that he is no longer with me. A progressive look.

This time their story finally comes to an end.

Many people struggle with whether they can get back together after a breakup. In fact, there is far from a fixed answer to this question. As for Tangtang, she can accept that the other person has someone in his heart, but she can't accept that he doesn't work hard. Maybe for some people, it is absolutely unacceptable for people around them to have other people in their hearts.

According to the article, Lin Dan cheated on his wife, but his wife chose to forgive him. Many people wonder, maybe for them, giving their children a complete home is more important than having an affair. When you're wondering whether you can reconcile after a breakup, ask yourself if you can still accept the triggers that led to your breakup. If you can accept it, then please don't hold on to that fuse anymore, let go of the past, let go of the flaws in the relationship, and give each other the possibility of getting back together. If it's hard to accept, then don't force it. Together, you will eventually part ways for the same reason. At this time, all you have to do is let go of each other and give each other a reason to start over.

After a breakup, some get back together and some go their separate ways.

Different people tell different stories, and different people will have different endings when they face a breakup. I hope you follow your heart and get the love you want most.