Is it possible that relatives don't say much ugly things?

I think this is a joke. Since relatives can say this to your face, it must be a sign that they love you. Sometimes, their own words will not be euphemistic, nor will they beat around the bush, but will come straight to the point. On the contrary, it can set off the ugliness and few words spoken by relatives, which should be understood in reverse. He should be synonymous with beauty and cheerful personality. If your relatives say you are ugly and don't talk much behind your back, it's not a joke and you are suspected of looking down on you.