Shortly after I got married, my in-laws asked me to take out the "money at the bottom of the box" and get married and borrow money. Should I?

"The daughter-in-law insists on Qian Qian and marries her husband's family!" If the in-laws are reasonable, there will be such a strange conclusion. Honest officials can break housework, and it is best to follow your own heart and not ask others about these family problems. Next, "Four Brothers Have Laws" will talk about the property of money and debt at the bottom of the closet according to the law, hoping to help you solve this problem.

First, who will bear the debt of marriage? If the man lives with his parents before and after marriage, the debts arising from the marriage belong to the family and should be repaid with the income of family members. If the daughter-in-law's deposit belongs to her personal property, other family members can't force her to pay off her debts with her personal property, but her married income is obliged to pay off her debts. If it is clear that the debt is borne by the man personally before marriage, or if the family members reach an agreement after marriage, the parents have no obligation to repay. If the man brings personal debts into the small family after marriage, the new wife is unwilling to pay off the debts with her own private money, and the man can't help it.

Second, who is the "box of money" brought by the woman? According to traditional customs, the dowry belongs to the woman's personal property and can be recovered after divorce. This statement has some truth, but it is not completely correct, because we should not consider the issue too one-sidedly, but also comprehensively analyze the bride price and other situations. When getting married, parents usually prepare some dowry for their daughter to take to the man's house, in order to make her live better in the future or try to win her position in the man's house as much as possible, so the dowry should be a gift from the woman's parents. If it is clear whether the recipient of this gift is the woman or the husband and wife, it will be better to distinguish ownership. The key point is that in most cases, the two sides are not clear about the donee when giving out of affection, which needs to be judged according to the specific situation:

1. Judging from the time of donation: According to the fourth item of Article 17 of the Marriage Law, the property inherited or donated by husband and wife during the marriage relationship belongs to both husband and wife, unless otherwise agreed in the will or the gift contract. In other words, the dowry obtained after marriage registration belongs to the joint property of husband and wife, unless the woman's parents clearly indicate that the dowry is only given to the woman. If the woman's "pocket money" is deposited in her personal account before marriage registration, it should be considered as a gift from her parents.

2. Judging from the property: if the dowry is some daily household items such as refrigerators and washing machines, it should be considered that such items belong to the joint property of husband and wife. For some personal items such as rings, necklaces and clothes, due to their personal particularity, the daily necessities provided for one party as stipulated in Article 18 of the Marriage Law belong to personal property. If the woman's "pocket money" is explicitly given to her by her parents, it should be considered as a gift from the individual.

3. From the point of view of price registration: for real estate, vehicles and other large amounts of property that usually need to be publicized. As a woman's parents, it is inevitable to hope that her daughter will have a good life. Therefore, a large number of properties such as real estate and vehicles are given away, which inevitably means giving away your daughter. However, if the names of both parties are registered at the time of property right registration or registered in the name of the man for some reason, it shall be recognized as the joint property of husband and wife and regarded as a gift from the parents of the woman to both parties.

Third, you can't force your daughter-in-law to pay her debts! As can be seen from the above provisions, the "closet money" brought by the daughter-in-law should be regarded as a personal gift from the parents, which does not belong to the joint property of husband and wife. In-laws want their daughters-in-law to pay their family debts. They should persuade them and negotiate with emotion, but they should not be forced. Besides, in this era of "a daughter-in-law is hard to find", I still want my daughter-in-law to pay her debts. What do you want? If the daughter-in-law runs away, it will be even more annoying!

Off-topic: Seeing this situation, some netizens will say that the man's parents should die! What the author wants to say is, if we are parents, how will we feel when we see that other boys of the same age are married and our son is still single? Now, in some areas, it is high fragrance to get a daughter-in-law at a high price!