Inspirational story: how to work hard for high school education?

Inspirational story: how to work hard for high school education?

I write this experience not to show off, but to tell everyone who is at a low point in life through my experience: many of you are better than me in origin, education and economy. I can get through this low point, and so can you.

/kloc-I graduated from high school at the age of 0/9, but I didn't receive the admission notice from my favorite university because I didn't do well in the college entrance examination. So I listened to some enrollment information on the Internet and randomly reported it to a private university in Beijing. At that time, I really didn't know that most of these so-called private universities were selling dog meat, but in their propaganda, they were at the same level as Peking University and Tsinghua.

After coming to Beijing, I found that this school is far from what I expected. The contents of the lectures are all from the self-taught examination, and teachers are no exception (I didn't mean to denigrate them, please forgive me), because I later learned that many teachers in this school were recruited by fresh graduates, and many of them were junior colleges (at that time, some teachers taught us and took the self-taught examination with us). In addition, because this school is a private university, there are really few students in this school who are eager to learn. In my major, students in the dormitory do the most things at night, such as getting together to watch porn, or smoking and playing cards in the dormitory. One of them is even worse, and talking about two girlfriends from different places at the same time.

I don't want to live the same life as them, so I decided to drop out of school after careful consideration.

But my family didn't agree with this decision, so I fell out with my father on the phone? Perhaps many people don't know that the answer comes from a minority autonomous region in southern Sichuan, and their parents' occupation is business+farming (this way of doing business is to buy some agricultural products from other villagers occasionally and then find opportunities to resell them to foreign investors? This kind of business earns hard-earned money, which is particularly tiring. Moreover, the biggest feature of this area is poverty and traffic congestion (the biggest rescue problem in Wenchuan earthquake is traffic). Before An Su 19 years old, the farthest place An Su had been was 30 kilometers away from home.

And this school in Beijing, thousands of miles away, promised to assign jobs to students at that time, so when I dropped out of school, my father was very disapproving, because he felt that even if the school was worse, there was at least a job, which meant that the answer masters didn't have to be as tired as them all their lives. . . But what they don't know is that the promise of this school is just a lie. Finally, my father finally compromised with me and agreed to drop out of school. After getting my father's consent, I quickly went through the formalities of dropping out of school.

The decision to drop out of school made me feel guilty for my parents, because when I came to Beijing, I brought more than 10,000 yuan (more than 8,000 tuition fees+about 2,000 accommodation fees+living expenses), all of which were contributed by my parents, so my dropping out of school meant that this 10,000 yuan hit Shui Piao, and for the first time in my life, I realized how unbearable it was to owe my loved ones. So, the first thing I thought of after I dropped out of school was working. I want to earn this 10 thousand yuan with my own hands first.

Based on this idea, Anson found a small restaurant next to this school as a waiter, and the salary was 400 yuan/month (Anson was so happy at that time, I thought it was 400 yuan in January and 4,800 yuan a year? This was a lot of money for the master of answering questions at that time. After working as a waiter here, the unexpected embarrassment is that the teachers of this school often come to this small restaurant for dinner, so when I took the dishes to entertain the guests, I found that the guests were my English teacher and physical education teacher in this school. That kind of embarrassment is still unforgettable.

By the way, I forgot to tell you the time. The answer is that he was born in 1985. I came to Beijing in September, 2004 and stayed in this school for one semester. When he returned to school in March 2005, he decided to drop out of school. He spent 1 month with his family and officially dropped out of school in April 2005.

I thought everything was all right here, but one day more than a month later (the day before my birthday), the owner of this small restaurant declared bankruptcy and left everyone to fend for themselves. The next day, I was very confused and didn't know where to go. Finally, the chef in the back kitchen felt sorry for me and asked me to go with them. The next day they came to a place in Fangshan, and a dozen people slept on the ground that night. Who is in a room of more than 20 square meters, with no air conditioning and no fan? The next day, everyone went to Xidan shopping mall to play when they were free.

When we were playing in Xidan shopping mall, a friend of the chef (who is also a chef) called and said that their restaurant needed two people, so let's send two people. The chef then asked me to go to this restaurant with another fellow villager (not really a fellow villager, but we are from the same province). Many years later, I still remember this chef. I always call him Brother Wang. When everyone was in trouble together, he gave the only two job opportunities to two strangers. I haven't forgotten this kindness yet, but unfortunately I can't contact him now.

After I went to this restaurant with this fellow villager, his job was to do odd jobs, cut a lot of vegetables and prepare all kinds of ingredients every day, while my job was to wash dishes, pick vegetables, sweep the floor and take out the garbage? It was summer, and the whole city of Beijing was like a steamer, and we were all sealed in the kitchen. Whenever the chef cooks, the temperature is really indescribable. I'm so busy every day here that I don't even have time to drink water and catch my breath. Later, I also took on the job of cooking porridge and frying steamed bread for the whole kitchen staff. This job gave me the memory that my right wrist was burned once by rolling oil, and now the trace is clearly visible.

Answer: I have worked here for two months, and the salary given to me by the chef is 500 yuan/month, of which 250 yuan was deducted from his health certificate and 250 yuan was deducted from his salary for half a month when he left his job. I only got 500 yuan in salary in the last two months. In the past two months, I have suffered endless bullying, abuse, exclusion and all kinds of bullying. Every day when guests have difficulties, people at the front desk will complain about the kitchen, and people in the kitchen will always take it out on me as a handyman. My two months here were in May 2005? June.

After that, the host went to another restaurant, and the boss offered 600 yuan a monthly salary, but when he left, he deducted 100 yuan. The similarity between the two hotels is the basement. At that time, the accommodation of the master and others was: four people slept in two wide beds, and the whole room was less than 4 square meters. There is no air conditioner or fan, but it is in the basement, and it is not hot in summer. But at that time, there was only one pair of underwear, so I slept naked after washing and airing. When people laugh at me, my answer is that sleeping naked is more relaxing. But the truth is, I really couldn't afford a pair of underwear at that time.

The basement is characterized by damp and dark. As a southerner, I'm not used to it. Soon my hands were covered with spots and blisters. Of course, there are rats and cockroaches, not to mention.

The only comfort in this hotel is meeting a waiter who is very close to me. She has a very sad past and trusts me very much. At that time, we didn't really know each other, but we were brothers and sisters. Many nights after work, she and I walked to the overpass where Puhuangyu and Fangzhuang met, looked at the tall buildings next to them, and then giggled. Answer the Lord: At the lowest point of life, she and I were both human beings. Unfortunately, we lost touch with Ansa after she left this hotel, and now there is no news.

The answer is the same in this hotel.

In July 2005, Anson was really fed up with all kinds of bullying and oppression, so he planned to leave the industry completely at that time. At that time, there were no other desires and needs, just thinking about not being bullied every day, but obviously it is unlikely to change in this industry. And at that time, the master also felt that I could not be a dishwasher all my life.

So in August, I resigned and went back to a small town in Daxing District to rent a cabin of more than ten square meters (rent 50 yuan/month? You can imagine the remoteness of this place), after renting a house, the answer master bought the adult college entrance examination textbook for review, because at that time, the answer master wanted to go back to school through the adult college entrance examination and bid farewell to the career of dishwashers who were bullied every day.

This cabin is closed and there is no fan (air conditioning is a delusion). The heat peaked in August? Now I don't even know how I got to that small house like a steamer. . . So I reviewed for 2 months and signed up for the Beijing Adult College Entrance Examination in 5438+ 10. After the exam, my mind went blank and I didn't care too much about my grades. At that time, I just wanted to find a job and earn some money, because these two months of off-the-job review made my financial expenses tight? As a result, I borrowed 600 yuan from my classmates (I hardly earned any money in the hoped time, and I almost deducted all my money). The debt of 600 yuan I owed was the most I borrowed from others at that time. At that time, I was too stressed to sleep.

So, as soon as I finished the exam (about 1 1 month), I immediately went to Haidian and a friend in Xiyuan for the night (I really can't afford to rent a house, and neither can Xiyuan? At that time, it seemed to be a bungalow (a small single room of 350 yuan) in Xiyuan Fuyuanmen, and I had the cheek to spend the night with my classmates. At the same time, I began to step up my job search plan.

A week later, the interviewee applied for a job as a waiter in a Chengdu snack bar in the south gate of Peking University (which had already moved away). Salary 600 yuan/month. The boss says you have to work for at least three months, and I'm not going to recruit any more people because there are still three months before the Chinese New Year, so you can't leave your job for these three months. At that time, I replied that I was grateful to the Lord, but I just knelt down and kowtowed to thank him, because the boss said so at that time, meaning that I would have a stable job in the next three months.

The boss runs two restaurants. On the floor diagonally opposite the south gate of Peking University, the boss designated the first floor as Chengdu snack and the second floor as normal home cooking, and I worked in this Chengdu snack. Because Chengdu snacks are fast food, my work is very hard. For example, I have to get up at 6 o'clock in the morning to clean and sell breakfast (it is not easy to get up at 6 o'clock in winter), and I can only eat at 1 1 in the evening? Not to mention the accommodation conditions. At that time, two people slept in one bed (beds are typical student beds, bunk beds), and a room less than 10 square meters had five beds, sleeping 10 people.

At that time, the host here was very diligent (after all, although it was very hard here, it was much better than the first two restaurants), so the boss gradually changed the host and waiter to the kitchen, and was responsible for the side dishes of the shabu-shabu (a small hot pot, similar to Xiabu Xiabu) of Chengdu snacks at that time (serving various ingredients to customers according to their orders). The advantage of this job is that it is relatively easy, so the host will read books whenever he has time. The love of three brothers. Chengdu snacks? A friend who eats has seen a person sitting beside reading, so it's probably me.

One day in June, 1 1, the cashier at the front desk of this hotel received a phone call saying that ta was a teacher of Renmin University. I'm calling to tell me that I have been admitted to Renmin University? After the little girl put the phone down, the news that I was admitted to Renmin University spread all over the hotel. I guess everyone didn't expect that a waiter in this hotel was admitted to Renmin University (but I didn't know it was adult education, not authentic full-time education), so everyone was surprised? Maybe in their eyes, waiters in small restaurants should be expected to be waiters. This time is 165438+2005 10 month.

In February 2006, I left the hotel (because I had to report to the National People's Congress). When the boss settled my salary, he said that I should be deducted from 10, but I didn't deduct it for the sake of my hard work. Let me study hard and get ahead, and don't come back as a waiter. . . I was particularly moved at that time, which was almost the first time I met the warmth of life; Later, the proprietress told me that Renmin University was good, so we should cherish this opportunity and stop being such a poor waiter in the future. I promised to come back and see them when I have time, but I haven't seen them since 2006. This hotel has been closed for a long time. Eight years later, I know nothing about them.

I came to study at the National People's University in 2006. 2006? Almost full-time study in 2007. I cherish this dream-like opportunity too much.

The place I rented at that time was the semi-basement of Xiaonanzhuang, the west gate of the National People's Congress, and the bed near Shangdi South Exit near Beijing Sport University. The prices are 120 yuan/month respectively. There are 4 beds in the room less than 10 square meter, and 8 people have slept.

This period of time is the last youth in my life. At that time, my enthusiasm for learning was very high. What I often do is to get up around 4 am, ride a second-hand bicycle bought in Xiyuan Vegetable Market around 60 yuan, go to the National People's Congress, and then start studying. At that time, I was eating in the west gate canteen of the National People's Congress. Now I remember eating a cabbage+a rice, and then adding a bowl of clear soup (thank you so much for the free soup in the Ximen canteen of the National People's Congress, which didn't make me starve to death).

The NPC in 2006? In 2007, I met my short first love and a descendant of a great sage in Ming Dynasty (he is a descendant of Fang Xiaoru? Fang Xiaoru was killed by Judy, and the only ethnic group escaped on a business trip. Later, the ethnic group went south incognito, which was the ancestor of this friend. At that time, the Great Sage joined the search group and rented a house with me, so he became friends.

From June 5438 to October 2007, this friend introduced me to a job? A small e-commerce network editor, I always remember his kindness, because he brought me into the Internet. At that time, my job in this company was to work six days a week with a monthly salary of 1000 yuan.

I worked in this website until March 2008, during which I was active in a BBS community, so I was hired by HR of an Internet company in this community and gave me a salary of 2500 yuan/month (I was overjoyed at that time, and my salary increased by 2.5 times), but I left my job after March because I didn't like the personnel struggle here. During the Wenchuan earthquake in May 2008, I went home twice (I experienced a 6.3-magnitude earthquake when I went home, and I realized that death was so close for the first time).

After returning home, it was autumn when I returned to Beijing again. At this time, I don't live in the same bed anymore, but this one at the south entrance of Shangdi is called? Shucun? I rented a small single room of about 6 square meters (the rent is 200 yuan, not to mention the conditions. Imagine according to this rent), and then I was cheated by pyramid schemes to Pingxiang, Jiangxi (it's true, don't get me wrong, it's not that Pingxiang, Jiangxi is bad, please don't think too much). At that time, I thought my life was over, but fortunately I escaped (when I escaped, I didn't have enough money to buy a train ticket in Beijing, so I went to Shanghai from Pingxiang, Jiangxi. Alas, pyramid schemes killed people.

After returning to Beijing, I found a job as a senior network editor with a monthly salary of 2600 yuan +0 1 in June 2008.

The company to which this job belongs was later merged into a large financial group (doing futures), so I was lucky enough to be an employee of this group until I left in July 20 10. In the meantime, I worked hard. Because I like the Internet and my job is the Internet, I spend almost all my time in the company except sleeping time. Arrived at the company before 7: 00 in the morning, which is exaggerated (the security guard is depressed)? During my two years working in this company, I spent the rest of my time writing things and writing various business, Internet and IT reviews (in fact, I wrote blindly at that time, just for fun), but I didn't expect to be famous (in this small circle).

July 2065438 1 After leaving this financial group, I took a break for more than ten days and went to an IT website. Because I have written a lot in the past two years, the boss who came to this website appreciated me very much and directly asked me to be the content director (and later the operation director) of the website. During my six months here, I formed a team for him, including two returnees. I chose to leave here in February of 20 1 1 year. At this time, I also applied for adult education in Peking University.

After coming out of this website, I plan to do something by myself. This time it is 20 1 1, and I am 26 years old.

The most direct reason why I decided to do something by myself was that I wasted more than 10 thousand yuan from my parents when I dropped out of school. At that time, my parents and I bought a house in my hometown in full, and I borrowed 30 thousand yuan from my relatives at that time, so I immediately felt that I had a faster way to live, so I thought of starting my own business (now I think about it, I really felt very brave at that time).

So the registered company, the registered capital of the registered company is the money that people advance, plus the service fee of 6,000 yuan from the other party, I used an overdraft credit card (because I bought a house with my family in my hometown county, I lost tens of thousands of yuan I had accumulated, so this 6,000 yuan can only be overdrawn with my credit card. However, after the company was registered, I found a bigger problem? I can't afford to start a company (such as renting an office or buying a computer)? What I do is to work for a friend, and he gave me a salary of 5000 yuan/month. I earned 1W5 by working in March, and then I went back to do my own thing.

So I rented an office here at the * * Bridge where the Fifth Ring Road and the Sixth Ring Road meet in Beijing, and the rent was 3,200 yuan/month. After paying the rent for March and the intermediary for one month, 1W5 is gone. At this time, my heart was burning, but after I calmed down, I told myself that I must have income in the next two months (because the rent of this house was paid one month in advance), otherwise I would die. After that, the first month passed while I was busy dealing with all kinds of company affairs, and there was only one month left? At this time, an old colleague of mine who left the financial group brought me a small business, a small job with more than 10 thousand yuan. I was so grateful that I thought she was Guanyin Bodhisattva. This is the end of 20 1 1.

From 20 12, I planned to run the company well, but at first I could only break even (there were no contacts, no resources and no stable customers at that time). Fortunately, I got a good customer at the end of 20 12, which ensured the company's income. At the beginning of 20 13, the company was not bad, during which I took out tens of thousands of dollars and took my colleagues to Hainan. After that, I planned to do some other projects, and this idea was finally stillborn. The impact of this impulse is that the company is also full of twists and turns, and then it starts from 20 14, which is now.

At present, there are two companies (ashamed, they didn't make a lot of money) who bought a small house in Tongzhou and made a good girlfriend (they are going to buy a big house with 70-year property rights at present). At the same time, they plan to study for an MBA on 20 15 and plan to publish 1? Two books (related to the work field), I plan to take my parents around the country next year.

As an uneducated person (I think many people's reality is much better than mine), I want to answer the landlord's question, that is: self-study (hard work) may not change your destiny, but if you don't learn by yourself, you may not even have a chance to change your destiny.

You are only 24 years old, and you can strive for better things in the future through your present efforts; /kloc-started to work as a dishwasher at the age of 0/9. I didn't think I would become a CEO and a professional in this field? Expert? But when I tried to pursue an unknown life, these things came quietly. Similarly, now you don't know how to change your destiny by self-learning skills (in fact, I don't know either), so what you have to do now is to seize this opportunity first.

As for what you said you should teach yourself, my suggestion is:

1) What you are interested in;

2) There is a clear demand in this era (for example, if you want to do math research, I think it is ok).

The first point allows you to do something that is not boring and can be done in this field; Second, what you can do has the value recognized by the current society.

So you have to answer the question of what you should learn. For example, I think it would be better to learn a practical skill on the basis of your interest.

One of my personal suggestions:

1, career direction choice

I don't know what caused your high school education. If it's because your academic performance is not very good (please forgive me for being blunt), then I think you can choose some professional skills with pure skills for self-study now. Although these things don't look so tall, they can at least make you full.

If you have a certain computer foundation, then Photoshop, graphic design and other work are passable professional skills. Whether you are a graphic designer in a general company or an artist in a roadside printing shop, such a job can at least make you full (but it may lose face, such as an advertising shop on the street);

If you like some life skills, then I also think you can try to consider some vertical skills learning. For example, if you are willing to be a chef, you can start from the basics and work hard step by step to become a chef in a five-star hotel. This kind of life is also a kind of enrichment (but don't bully waiters, handyman, etc. )? )

I think you can try other fields, such as computer maintenance.

2. Be sure to combine your own interests, conditions and starting point.

I don't support SEO and website building advocated by some netizens. I came from the grassroots of the Internet, and I think it is not easy for you to gain a foothold and enrich in society.

I don't recommend opening a Taobao shop (it's too difficult to do), of course, if you have a unique advantage, it's another matter.

No matter what field you work in, I suggest that you must combine your current characteristics. For example, if you are completely uninterested in computers and have never touched them, it is not realistic to do computer-related work. For example, if you have no linguistic knowledge, it is unrealistic for you to do simultaneous interpretation.

3. English and education.

If your time permits, I suggest you get a degree while studying. At present, there are many ways to get a degree, such as online correspondence, adult education and self-study higher education. So if you have enough time, I actually suggest that you get a degree while working.

Education is fair and reasonable, but many people think it is useless and many people value it. For me, my opinion is that if you have enough time and experience, you'd better get one. Not to tell others that you have a high degree, but to give yourself an explanation.

In addition, in a city like Beijing, if you want to apply for a work residence permit, it is closely related to academic qualifications. Therefore, there is still some way to get a degree. After all, one is better than none.

In terms of academic qualifications, I have been there before, and few people know the sadness in this respect. In my past job, I actually had many opportunities to go to big companies like Baidu and Tencent, but all of them ended because I dropped out of school without a complete degree? So what?

In English, many netizens also suggest that you learn English. My opinion is that English is very important, but if your job has nothing to do with English, you can study in your spare time. The urgent task at present is to learn something directly related to your eating and survival. Although English is important, it can't be something that affects your survival.

4. Make full use of all kinds of resources around you.

My own experience tells me that a clear head is better than a brute force. Looking back on my own experience now, work and entrepreneurship are all one person. If someone gave me advice in many places, it is estimated that today's results will be different.

For example, if you want to study, there are actually many convenient resources on the Internet. I think these network resources in Netease Cloud Classroom are quite good. Other aspects, such as contacts, can help you. You should use them as much as possible.

Don't forget your innovative spirit.

Never forget why you started.

In this process, we should also ensure our own mentality, not easily influenced by the outside world or others, have our own beliefs in life, and don't be discouraged and give up because of temporary failure; Don't be arrogant and overestimate yourself because of your temporary success. Always keep the mentality of starting and pursue the goals that have not yet been achieved.

6. In the process of pursuing, working harder may decide that you are different from others.

Postscript:

I really don't write my own experience to show off. I just want to tell you through this story that many of you have a better starting point than me in terms of education and background. I can come over, so can you.

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