Why don't you want to get married?

Why am I unwilling to get married? This is my situation.

First, I have failed too much and lost my enthusiasm

It would be a lie to say that I don’t want to get married. Looking at other people in pairs, I still feel a little envious and wish I could have someone with me.

When I went on a blind date in the past, I would take it seriously every time. I would add the girl on WeChat, try my best to find a topic to talk about, and invite her to dinner and watch a movie.

Every time I invest a lot of time and energy, the results fail, and now I start to doubt that I can still get married.

I failed so much that I started to be afraid. Now when it comes to arranging a blind date, I no longer have the same expectations as before. I am more afraid of failing again.

So, after basically adding WeChat, I sent a Hello, I don’t know what to talk about, and I don’t want to talk anymore.

Now I spend more time just wanting to make money, and I have no other interests.

Second, inner inferiority

When I just graduated, with a salary of 2,000, I always felt that 100,000 or 80,000 was just a small amount of money.

Now that I am older, I have lost my temper due to the friction of reality, I have lost the grand ambitions I once had, and there is no longer any light in my eyes. Looking at such a pitiful salary every day, I feel that it is difficult to support myself. How can I have the courage to get married?

Now even if I meet a girl I like, I don’t dare to pursue her boldly, for fear of being rejected and for fear of not being able to shoulder family responsibilities.

It’s better to be single and save money, just eat a steamed bun and a bowl of instant noodles, and you can get through it in one day.

I feel like I have accomplished nothing, my income is not high, I have no house or car, and I am not only disliked by others, but also disliked by myself.

3. Get used to single life

After being single for so many years, I have long been accustomed to living alone. Apart from going to work every day, I basically stay at home. I don't like to talk or communicate with others. It's nice to be alone and quiet.

Once you get married, you will face the woman talking non-stop every day. Sometimes it is scary to think about this kind of life.

I am used to a single life, and it is difficult to adapt to getting along with others, and I don’t know how to get along with girls. It's difficult to even communicate, let alone make girls happy with sweet words.

For my introverted personality. Chasing girls is much more difficult than taking exams.

There is a high probability that no one will want such an honest person. This kind of person is very boring and not the type that girls like, so it is good to be alone