What should I do if I marry a man who is kind to everyone but cold to me?

You are not personally experienced, and you can't think of others at all. The hardest thing in this world is empathy. Others prefer to believe what they think rather than what others tell them.

Cousin has been depressed recently and has lived in her family for quite some time. It seems that she is not going back to her husband's house.

My aunt asked me to accompany her and enlighten her.

My cousin and I share a bed and often brush D to make her laugh. She always pretends to sleep, doesn't laugh, ignores me and doesn't talk to me.

I think how bitter my cousin's heart is, so she has no interest in jokes at all.

Finally, one night, she suddenly popped out: "What happens when a woman gets divorced? Will it be better or worse? "

I suddenly froze. I didn't expect my cousin to get a divorce.

I quickly persuaded her to say, "Sister, don't be impulsive. We have something to communicate. "

"What can communicate? If we had communicated, we wouldn't have come this far. " My cousin replied lightly.

I don't know how to answer, thinking that my cousin must have suffered a lot in her husband's family, otherwise she wouldn't be so desperate. When she married love, everyone thought my cousin's wife was very kind. How did this happen when she got married?

My cousin said casually, "He is like the first two and the last two. At first, it looked good to my parents, but after I got married, I found out that this kind of good was a disguise. He is very kind to my parents, but he just wants to marry me home early and let my parents pay less bride price.

Later, his purpose was achieved, and his true colors were gradually exposed. His kindness is only for his family and his relatives, but he won't give it to me. "

I can't help but sigh: "Ah? So wonderful? "

My cousin went on to say, "Since he set foot in his house, he has never understood me or explained it to his parents. At first, I didn't understand many things. Let them forgive me more. " On the contrary, I was asked by my mother-in-law to get up at six o'clock to make breakfast from the second day I entered the house, because my father-in-law had dinner with him.

My mother-in-law stopped doing housework and began to cut it for my shopkeeper. If I didn't want to do it, she hit me, saying that my daughter-in-law didn't come to her husband's house to enjoy herself, so she wouldn't marry if she enjoyed herself.

Do you know that?/You know what? Do you know that?/You know what? What's more, when I was pregnant for a week, I didn't know and had no experience at that time. I thought my period was coming, and I felt sick and didn't want to wash the dishes. My mother-in-law would rather sit in the living room and watch TV than help.

During that time, my elder sister-in-law also went back to her family. Two people were talking and laughing about me, thinking I didn't hear them. I was a little angry at that time, and I couldn't bear it. I ran straight to the living room and talked to them. I didn't expect them to scold me together as soon as they got together. Maybe the tire is flat, and the baby just ran away.

Not only do they have no remorse, but they also tell others that I am useless, I can't even raise a child, and I have a bad temper.

My husband didn't say anything comforting to me, but listened to his mother and sister. If a man can give me a little love and support, I won't lose my first child.

It's not like I haven't talked to him. Let him talk to his mother. Don't make me do everything. I need a rest. I have to work during the day, and I will be very tired. But he wouldn't say anything, and told me that his mother was actually fine, so I shouldn't worry too much. Housework won't kill me. It doesn't matter if I do more.

You see, a man who doesn't love you will never speak for you and will never stand in your position. "

Cousin said a lot and shed tears as she spoke. I just know, originally, she married for half a year, so bitter.

Everyone thinks that she is very happy, and they say that she has married a good husband, who is considerate, careful and polite. However, in fact, only my cousin knows that such a good-looking man who is secretly indifferent to his wife is the most hypocritical.

If I had seen through this, I wouldn't have ended up like this. It is better than anyone to choose a man who is only good to himself and indifferent to the people around him. Only men who are indifferent to their wives are happier.

In his mind, he didn't realize that the relationship between husband and wife is the core of a family. Since you are married, you should give priority to a small family, and the center of this small family is yourself and your wife, not your parents and other brothers and sisters.

This phenomenon still exists in a large number in society, especially in rural areas, where several brothers and sisters live together without boundaries, and any family member will dictate your marriage, interfere excessively and talk behind your back.

But men will not come out to stop this behavior, nor will they tell them: this is my own wife. Please respect her. She is not a nanny and has no obligation to do all the housework. Everyone should do it together.

But if a man can share a little love with his wife, he won't cold her heart.

I told my cousin that marriage is bound to stumble, and divorce may not be the fundamental measure to solve the problem. The most important thing is to communicate with my cousin There is really no way to communicate, so live for yourself, do housework if you want, let go if you don't want, work hard, move out and live independently when you make money.

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