The "transfer mother-in-law" is very popular. She sends red envelopes to her daughter-in-law whenever she disagrees with her. The chat record makes netizens cry, are you sad?

It must be bitter. A mother-in-law who will give you two thousand or three thousand for nothing, a mother-in-law who gives you red envelopes every month, who wouldn’t be bitter?

How bad is the relationship between you and your mother-in-law? Isn't it just a lack of money?

I didn’t give you any gift money when I married you. Once you bought a house and your mother-in-law didn’t give you any money. When you gave birth to a child, she gave you two hundred yuan when she saw that it was a daughter. Later, when you were in trouble, Your mother-in-law didn't lend a hand to help, but instead added insult to injury!

No problem in this world that can be solved with money is a problem, but there are some people who are not willing to use money to buy your happiness! 01

I am a mother of a child, and I also have a relationship with mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. When I got married, my mother-in-law did not like me and gave me 200,000 yuan as a gift. She took it away after the wedding. My husband is very poor and has no money to buy a house, decorate it, or get sick. The money we earn has to be given to my mother-in-law!

After I had my child, I thought my mother-in-law would feel sorry for me and would help me knowing that my family was not easy, but I thought too much and woke myself up!

That’s what my mother-in-law said. Isn’t that how everyone lives a happy life? I was poorer than you when I got married. I have never lived a poor life, and I cannot live a rich life, so people have to be poor. Only when you are poor can you know how to live in the future!

No, she was traveling, hot springs, and playing. Her son and I lived a hard life for six years, buying a house, raising children, and speaking our minds. I still hate her to this day. If she had reached out to her back then, By helping each other, we will have less toil and struggle, and our children will suffer less. How wonderful this mother-in-law is! 02

When I usually chat with the mothers downstairs, there is no mother-in-law who doesn’t complain about her mother-in-law. The hardships her mother-in-law endured back then seemed like a daughter-in-law had to suffer once, or it was unfair!

There are even fewer mothers-in-law who give money. Mother-in-laws hide their selfish motives, fearing that their daughter-in-law will divorce their son and take away their property in the future. The "daughter-in-law" who becomes the mother-in-law will have long forgotten her past. How much it hurts!

For example, the old lady upstairs in my house doesn’t give a penny to her daughter-in-law or her son. She saves all the money and says she will give it to them when she dies. First, she is afraid that her daughter-in-law will run away. Second, I'm afraid that they won't take care of me in the future, so I'm thinking, if your son becomes prosperous and your daughter-in-law becomes rich, will someone take a fancy to your three melons and two dates? If you don't help when people are in trouble, it's boring for you to show up when people are doing well. It's better to provide help in times of need than to add icing on the cake, understand? Summary:

In fact, the period of giving birth to and raising children is the most difficult period in a person’s life. When my son was born, I couldn’t go to work. My husband worked alone to earn money to support the family. He also had to buy a house and a car. There was a shortage of money everywhere. Money, children need milk powder, children need diapers, there are many ways to use money. If my mother-in-law had helped me at that time, things would have been different, even if she gave me a thousand yuan a month!

Later, my husband had a successful career and my children went to school. I also had my own job, a house, and a car. At this time, my mother-in-law was giving me a thousand dollars a month, which was of no value. I can eat, but you gave me a bowl of porridge. I'm sorry, I don't care about it anymore!