How to tell the person who urged you to get married?

Being urged to get married, I don't think it is necessary to make a comeback. I can communicate more. After all, people mean well. If there is, it means that you have no culture and no quality!

First of all, be nice to them.

You must have a very good attitude towards your parents, bearing in mind that they may be angry and anxious about you, and even strike the table and cry for you. You need to be fully prepared and keep a good attitude.

Second, maintain recognition of your own views.

Just like "playing ball", you should let them "play" first and then "play" back instead of "attacking" all the time. So the first thing you have to do is to recognize and understand their love and worry about you: "Mom, if I were you, I would be particularly worried that my children would not get married." I especially understand you. You must be under a lot of pressure "Mom will feel warm.

Third, analyze the demand.

The biggest reason why parents urge marriage is that you didn't solve it at the right time. Your request is that I should marry someone I like. In fact, the biggest difference between us and our parents is the time.

Fourth, think about what you want to say and good reasons.

About why I am not married, and even some topics about "life". You should let your parents know that you have plans and considerations for your life, and you are treating your life with a mature attitude of an adult. If you live like a child, ask your parents what friends to make, what clothes to wear, and discuss marriage with them, you will never listen.

You need to be fully prepared in language and behavior. The behavioral preparation is that from now on, you should be mature in everything you do, not just when you communicate with them whether you want to get married or not, which is unacceptable to parents. The times we live in are different from theirs. They change very fast, so we are faced with more uncertainties, so the pace is much slower. Look at that, and that. After a year of marriage, they divorced. You don't want me to divorce in the future, and you want me to be happy. If you want me to be happy, let me find my happiness slowly. I believe I can find the happiness I want. Besides, don't rush into emotional matters, wait patiently for fate!