A man with two feet on both sides

women love sex because of love, and men love their parents because of sex.

Don't mind being rude. He will stay with you only because he thinks you are in harmony with XING. There may be a few percent of love, but not too much. Such a man is better off staying away unless you are confident to master him.

if he really broke up with that girl and stayed with you, but you are not in the same city as him, do you think you will trust him not to stay with that girl again or play with other people? I met him in the United States, when we both just arrived in the United States, and I just broke up with my ex-boyfriend who talked for four years. He also had a girlfriend in China at that time, I know, and the girl had met his parents, gentle and virtuous, and never gave up. I agreed when he chased me, and he promised to break up with her. We've been together almost every day for the first three months. He didn't have sex with that girl before, but I'm not a virgin anymore. But after we got together, we got along very well from the first time, and both of us couldn't stop. Because my former boyfriend dotes on me very much, I have a bad temper, and I will break up if I am not satisfied at all, and I will break up almost easily in the first three months when I am with him. He is a man who cares about self-esteem and is male chauvinist. Gradually, I feel that he is not so warm, and I also find that he is still in contact with that girl. The first time they found contact, I said goodbye, he came back to beg me, and called her to say goodbye in front of me. After that, when we were together, I was still prone to attack, and occasionally broke up for 2-3 days and ignored each other, but every time he couldn't stand it, he came back to me and made love with me. A year later, he continued to study, and I went back to China. Before returning to China, he broke up with me. I was sad and cried and begged him. He said that we would not get along like this, saying that we would not contact each other within two months from the day I returned to China. If we still love each other very much after two months, we would never be separated again. I went back to China last August, but my love for him gradually deepened. I try my best to change myself, don't make trouble with him, and try my best to be gentle. In fact, there are many people chasing me, but I really don't like anyone. As long as I fall in love with someone, I don't want to talk to anyone. Two months later, he took the initiative to contact me, saying that he still loved me and wanted to be with me. I was so happy that I accepted it happily. He asked me to visit him, so I immediately applied for a visa and went to the United States to visit him. I stayed there for 1 days, but we both stayed in the hotel, and we couldn't stop each other together. That aspect was flawless. But he won't bring me to any friends we used to know together, and he will have a feeling of hiding. But I have never said it. I have gradually become very good, and even he thinks that I have changed a lot and become very gentle. I went to see him again in March this year and stayed for 1 days. Because he went to work in another city in the United States, he lived alone, so I stayed at his house. He went to work during the day. When I was looking for a nail clipper at home, I saw a diary that the girl gave him. I couldn't help but open it. I knew that they had never broken contact. Only in the first two months when I was with him, he ignored her and she was very sad. They kept in touch. When I was separated from him, he would video with her, cry and tell her that she was a very important person. She will also say that her mother sends her text messages almost every day. I was heartbroken when I saw it. I also learned that she went to the United States after I returned to China in August, visited him and stayed together for two weeks. I didn't make it clear to him. I stayed with him for the last few days. When I got on the plane and returned to China, I wrote him an email. I broke up with him in tears. He later told me that he was really moved and knew my feelings for him. He promised to break up with her and stay with me forever. Later, he told me that he broke up with her, but it angered her. She quit her job and bought a plane ticket to look for him in the United States. Now they live together, but he contacts me every day and tells me that he is also in pain. He loves me and can't leave her because she is really sensible and obedient, and she quit her good job for him. He feels guilty. He will say, if only he had known me first. There wouldn't be so many troubles later. He swore that even if they lived together, they would never have sex, because he was completely uninterested in her and said he didn't want to touch her. He also sent me that kind of explicit short message expressing "want" every day, which made me believe that they didn't have sex. He pesters me every day and secretly sends me messages. I don't contact him, saying that he is cut off and deletes his WeChat. He sends a private message and keeps begging me not to leave him. He is afraid that I will find someone else, that I will be with others, and that I will have sex with others. He also told me to wait for him for a few months, and she broke up with her after her visa in the United States expired, with various vows. The text messages sent every day are so enthusiastic that I really can't stand it. I don't want to delete him and don't contact him. I'm going to study in the United States again in August. Although I'm not in the same city as him, he said he would pick me up and marry me, and he must break up with her. She never knew I existed. I really love him. What should I do?