What is the experience of having a stingy boyfriend with low emotional intelligence?

If you want to spend your whole life together, you must make up your mind not to accept his gifts for the rest of your life. This is an experience, and I happen to have such a friend and met such a boyfriend. Let's talk about it below.

Cher, the boyfriend she is looking for is very glamorous. She earns more than 10,000 yuan a month in Shenzhen, and gets dividends at the end of the year. She is in charge of the company, and she has a lot of face when she speaks. But those of us who are close to her found that after she fell in love with such friends, she often borrowed money from us and dressed completely differently. It can be said that she talked about such a high-quality boyfriend, but she still felt worse than before, so we talked.

When Cher told me, she said that her boyfriend likes her to dress up, and she likes her to dress him up, so she often buys things for that man, and that man readily accepts it, but he didn't say what to give Cher. Of course, we didn't ask her whose money she used because we all agreed that it was the man's money.

At a later party, Cher brought the man over and talked about the consumption between boyfriend and girlfriend. The man proudly said that it was Cher's clothes, Cher's own money and Cher's watch. After a long pause, our sisters still felt a little embarrassed and began to order. Of course, we don't really want him to invite us. After all, we are the majority, but-he finished eating and mentioned AA to us. The food on that table is about 200 yuan. To tell the truth, it is not as expensive as the shoes that Cher bought for him. Take the initiative to mention AA and let us pay the bill instead of paying the bill. That's another matter.

Later, Cher broke up with him, and he kept everything he bought for him. Of course, he didn't give Cher any money, even if there was no equivalent gift. I don't think this should be considered a low situation. I think this is a brain problem, dig into the bones.