What is the most selfish mother you have ever seen?

My mother-in-law, when my husband was admitted to a key high school in the city, her family's financial situation was still good, and my father-in-law worked in the county town, but she said she was afraid that my husband would not be able to provide for her if he went far away after studying. , I just secretly found someone to change my choice to a technical secondary school. After graduation, I worked in a county public institution, earning about 400 yuan a month at first. After that, every Chinese New Year, she felt her husband didn't give her any money, and kept saying that so-and-so had given his mother tens of thousands more, and she was ridiculed in all kinds of ways.

When we got married, she thought I was a sheep, so she didn’t give me a cent as a bride price or buy any furniture. We got married in a small dormitory of 30 square meters and two in my husband's workplace. On the day of the banquet, she came because she wanted to take away the gift money given by her relatives at home. At that time, the president received 10,000 yuan as a gift, but she took away 7,500 yuan. I was twenty-three years old at the time, innocent and ignorant, and my husband secretly gave it to her mother. I didn’t know until a few months later that I experienced the shrewdness of a middle-aged woman for the first time. After we got married, we bought a house, and we borrowed the down payment ourselves. We paid off the one-year mortgage for eight years without any help. I am a primary school teacher. After my daughter was born, she refused to go to school with me because she disliked her as a daughter. She cried and forced me to send her daughter away many times, but I refused to listen. It was really difficult to pay off the mortgage in those years. I often had to tear down one wall to pay for the other. In order to save money, we could not send our daughter to her hometown to take care of her. During this period of more than a year, she did not buy a bag of milk powder for us. I'm also very stubborn, so I only send them if there's no one to take care of them. But no matter how little money I have, I buy milk powder, diapers, and fat powder and send them to me. When I was less than two years old, I brought it back and took care of it myself. During the day, I sent it to a private kindergarten at a colleague’s house next to the school, and I took care of it myself at night. All of these, if she really didn't have it, I wouldn't fight for it, but my father-in-law has every retirement salary, so in such a difficult situation as an only son, a little help is not too much. But she has been teaming up with her two eldest sisters to ridicule us in various ways, and even refuses to interact with us. I asked my husband's aunt, her sister, to borrow 20,000 yuan for the down payment. She asked me every day if we wanted to default on the loan, but she never said a good word. During this period, we bought a machine to help dig grape ditches. My husband and I had to go to work, so we found someone from her village to help run the machine. She directly collected the money she earned from digging trenches near her home, and we paid the wages.

After a few years, she saved 80,000 yuan, and even looked down upon us, saying that we were incompetent and could not build a house for her to enjoy. Many people advised her not to build the house, even though she was in her 60s or 70s, she refused to listen and insisted on building it, yelling at us to get a loan. In the end, we gave her 60,000 yuan, which was too little. If it wasn't enough, her two daughters each spent about 100,000 yuan, and one day spent about 450,000 yuan, making them arrogant in front of the villagers.

My eldest daughter is now seventeen years old, and my youngest daughter is four years old. She married far away and came here for nearly twenty years. In the past twenty years, I have been in confinement twice, but she has never served me. She has never called me to ask about my pregnancy, let alone bought anything. Now she is old, sixty-seven years old. She has said many times that she has children and does not need anything from me, and her arrogance remains the same. I just hope she can keep her word.

Until now, she still believes that the house is her last bargaining chip, and if she wants her house, she must treat her well. In fact, after going through all this, my heart feels like death, and everything is external to me. I haven't seen her in person for several years. I just hope that everyone can settle down and leave everything to time.

I’ve been holding it in for too long, it’s messy!

I think my mother is the most selfish mother in the world. She is my biological mother. She has been hemiplegic for 5 years now. She said that she has received retribution and she feels very regretful.

This starts from the time when I was born. At that time, rural people’s mentality of favoring sons over daughters was very serious. They wanted to have as many sons as possible. It was also the era of family planning. When I was born, I was As a daughter, my mother looked disgusted, including her grandparents who favored sons over daughters. Dad should be better, after all, I have a life.

After the full moon, I was given rice cereal, and I was not breastfed. I was always hungry after a full meal, and he didn’t really comfort me when I cried. Basically, my father took care of me.

Later, my mother always wanted to have a son. Her thoughts were the same as those of my grandparents, raising children for old age. Daughters were raised for others. Because of family planning, my mother hid here and there when I was 3 years old and finally gave birth. I gave birth to my younger brother. When my younger brother was born, I completely lost my maternal love. Having a mother was the same as not having a mother.

I had to take care of my younger brother since I was five years old. I had to help the family’s cows and pigs cut food when I was six years old. I learned how to wash and cook when I was seven years old. The stove is very high and there are stools for cooking.

With my father’s insistence, I successfully went to elementary school, but I had to get up very early every day to make breakfast for the whole family, clean up the dishes and then go to school. When I came back from school, I had to go to the mountains to cut firewood and pigs. Cow food, cooking dinner, and often sleeping after finishing homework at night.

No matter what I do, my mother always dislikes me for not doing well or being perfect. She always scolds me, beats me and scolds me, and the scolding is very unpleasant. I am not even as good as a maid, so I have been doing this since I was a child. I really wanted to leave her and not see her.

I had good grades and was admitted to a key middle school in our county. My mother was very opposed to me going to school again, but my father still insisted on supporting me. My father and I were kicked out by my mother. My father set up a street stall in the town so that I could go to junior high school. I thought I could get rid of my mother's beatings.

Later, my father forgave my mother and she returned home. Even though I lived in school and went home every Sunday, I still had to be beaten and scolded by my mother. My brother is one grade younger than me, and his living expenses are all provided by his mother. He has 10 yuan of living expenses every Sunday. Since my mother was in charge of the money, my father could only give me five yuan for living expenses every week. He secretly gave me a little more rice, and I could also buy food with my meal ticket.

In this way, I managed to survive until I graduated from junior high school. The day I got my diploma, I ran away from home. I could really get rid of my mother.

But because my mother always thought that it was my father who sold me, she never realized how she had treated me since I was a child. She would not believe me even to death because she ran away from home, and They forced my father to come out and look for me. My father was working outside at a construction site and looking for me at the same time. He couldn't find me for more than half a year.

Later I wrote a letter home to my father, and my father found me. He asked me to go back and tell my mother clearly that he did not sell me. He had a hard time while I ran away from home for more than a year. My dad also cried. This was the first time I saw my dad shed tears.

I went back, and my mother had been waiting for me on the hillside for a long time. She apologized to me and prepared delicious food for me to eat (I won’t go into details, and I can’t talk about forgiveness. In short, she is my mother. , gave me life). Later, most of the money I earned from working was remitted to my family.

I got married from afar, and no one from my natal family attended, including my parents. Of course, my husband’s family didn’t give me any gifts or anything like that. I got married naked, and I made money from my business, which I give to my parents every year. Money can range from a few thousand to tens of thousands. But when my younger brother got married, my mother gave them a gift of 100,000 yuan, including the money I gave them from my previous job, and also gave it to my younger brother and his wife to do business. This means that the money I gave them, including the money earned by the elders, was all given to my younger brother. Not up to expectations. Actually I'm very unhappy.

Five years ago, my mother became hemiplegic. It was me who went back to take care of her and pay for her medical expenses. My brother was like a son-in-law who came to live with me. He was far away and could not go back. I was also married far away.

She has completely regretted it since then. Raising children to protect her in old age is empty talk, because her sister-in-law despises her mother as a burden, and her younger brother is afraid of her sister-in-law, so she has been unwilling to take her parents to her side. It was I who took the second elder to my side and took care of him for four years.

My parents returned to their hometown town last year. I still arranged the residence. I paid for renting a house and buying electrical appliances. My younger brother was only willing to pay monthly alimony. My younger brother and I paid for it every month. A person pays 1,500 yuan per month, and any medical expenses incurred in the future will be shared equally.

My younger brother usually doesn’t even want to talk to his mother on the phone. Sometimes he won’t chat with his mother when he goes home during the Chinese New Year because his mother talks too much and is unreasonable, so his younger brother is particularly disgusted. Her brother also said: If my parents must take care of themselves in old age, I will take care of my mother and he will take care of my father. There is no choice.

My parents will only come to me if they have any problems. Because I live far away, I always contact relatives and friends to help with the matter, and I pay for it.

Because of my mother’s problems, my brother and I basically have no contact. As for my mother, I actually feel very sorry for her now. She is hemiplegic and cannot take care of herself. She relies entirely on her father to take care of her. She is tortured by illness every day. I hope that I can take the place of her illness, but that does not mean that I have forgiven her. She, just because she is the mother who gave birth to me.

A friend around me talked about his mother, and he still can’t forgive her and has stopped contacting her. He said she must be the most selfish mother in the world. Although I have never met this friend’s mother, in his description, he said that she was the most selfish mother. Let me share his experience.

He grew up in a remote rural area in the northwest. He was the second eldest child in his family. According to him, dogs were disliked by humans. The boy was very naughty by nature and was beaten the most by his father at home. He was stubborn and stubborn. At the age of 16, he went out to make a living on his own. He worked at construction sites and set up stalls to sell goods. In the first few years of his travels, he would feel particularly homesick during the holidays and would go back to visit his parents with the money he earned. Who would have known that his parents were only warm for three minutes? It would start on the second day after returning home to visit relatives. From then on, his parents and his brothers and sisters-in-law would hide in other relatives' homes. No one would cook him hot meals. Sometimes his parents would be there soon. When he returned home when it got dark, he thought his parents were busy at first, so he helped clean up the yard and cooked for himself. In a remote rural area, there were only three small restaurants on one street, and he was a little embarrassed to go there. , always thinking about going back to my parents’ house to eat out, which would make the neighbors laugh.

As he grew older, he started a family and had children of his own. He especially wanted to take his wife and son to visit his parents, because he had to find friends to get married. , instead of asking the parents to contribute a penny, they even sent some to their parents behind the back of their daughter-in-law. They also thought that they would take their daughter-in-law and grandson home to visit their grandparents. The two old people would definitely be very happy. As a result, they called many times. I said I was going home to celebrate the New Year, but I didn’t prepare anything to eat when I walked in. I just boiled a pot of polenta, put in three or five steamed buns, and mixed a plate of shredded yellow radish. It was so shabby that my wife is now It sounds like her family doesn't like her. In the end, his daughter-in-law visited the family for more than a month and cooked for the whole family. Except for his help, no one else even entered the kitchen. He said that he cried just thinking about it.

The year before last, he was transferred to Xi'an for medical treatment, and he also visited his parents before he was hospitalized. Before May Day, his nephews and nephews who knew he was coming home all rushed to his parents' house. It seemed that They were all very enthusiastic, and as a result, everyone talked to him privately about borrowing money. Only then did he realize that his mother had never cared about him, but she would still publicize among relatives that he could make a lot of money, which made them all confused. She thought he was a wealthy person, so she organized a group to borrow money from him. After failing to meet the requirements, she just walked away. Her mother still wandered around before going home at night, because she was afraid to cook for him at home, which made his heart hurt even more deeply. Instead, he chose to return directly without saying hello to his parents.

I have finally taken good care of my body, and my mind has begun to become more Buddhist. Life must go on. Put yourself at the center of your life. If your body is in trouble, the only one who will be dragged down is your wife. With his son, others can't count on him. After being away from home for so many years, he always saw others talking about his mother's taste. He has never felt or tasted her mother's taste. It is also a big regret in life. Now he and his parents The relationship between you and him remains silent, because he feels that he has met the most selfish mother in the world.

The above are the past events of my friend. She is indeed a rather different kind of mother. Every time I think of these painful memories he mentioned, I will silently tell myself in my heart that I must do better. Strive to let your family and children experience the warmth of home, and always be a qualified and caring mother and daughter-in-law.

I have seen that there are two particularly selfish mothers in our village.

In terms of seniority, I have to call her grandma.

Women of their time were generally selfish, but some of the selfishness of most women was only directed at their daughters-in-law, and some were patriarchal, but the third grandmother in our village treated every one of her Children are vicious.

She had five children, three boys and two girls. She originally had three daughters, but the youngest was abandoned because she could not afford to raise her.

She has lived this life until she is ninety years old. In the most impoverished era, when there was no food, drink, clothing or warmth, she was still a woman who made herself rich.

Her prosperity is to support herself by selling her children's meat. No matter how hard the family is, she cannot wrong herself.

She beat and scolded each of her children and made them work at a young age. At that time, in the production team, all the food was provided by the team. She would do a good job during the day, and then put the food in it at night. A child screamed and went out to steal something with a basket. If he couldn't steal anything, he would have to work without food.

Each of her children has their own tasks, just like the chickens, ducks and lambs she raises. They want to eat chickens and kill chickens, and they want to eat ducks and kill ducks...

She is my neighbor. There are many neighbors around my house. She is a person who dislikes poverty and loves the rich. In front of our house is the old grandma’s house where I grew up. There is a small square where the elderly, children and adults can go when they have nothing to do. Wherever she was playing, with adults sitting together and chatting, she was there to increase her presence, show off her wealth in various ways, and squeeze on people from poor families.

Because she is an elder and people are embarrassed to criticize her, the neighbors all hate her.

When I was a child, my family was very poor and there were no snacks at that time. The snacks my mother brought back from my grandma’s house were my snacks. My mother would not give them to me to eat. She kept the snacks in front of me. I put the noodles in the cabinet and told me not to eat them, but to save them for the next time I go to your grandma's house.

How could I resist this temptation? When my mother was not at home, I would cut a hole in the snack button and eat one or two at a time. When my mother went to get it again, I would just eat it. There was a little bit left, so I simply took it out and gave it to me to eat.

What impressed me most about the third grandma was her smooth white hair. The aunts and ladies around her called her White Fox.

She would often sit in a small square with a small spoon and a glass bottle of canned sour tart, and slurp it up, making the children around her swallow their saliva, but she never let them. child.

Later, our family built a new house and moved, and hers also went to her son's home to take care of her.

Although she was not good to each of her children, parents are your lifelong debt. The most popular saying at that time was that all parents are bad, so no matter how selfish the parents are, the children must It is the fate of children to support their parents until they die.

The third grandma died a few days ago, and she was mourning in the snowy weather. The aunts, aunts, uncles and uncles who were the neighbors where she came from are all itching to talk about it. Selfish people are disgusting when they are alive, and they are disgusting even after they die. Make the junior comfortable.

She has eaten everything she should eat, drank everything she should drink, and enjoyed all the blessings she should have. When she lives to such an old age, she does not wrong herself even if she wrongs her children, and she earns enough. , there will be no regrets in dying.

The most selfish mother,

First of all, in terms of mentality, she does not regard herself as a mother, but uses her reproductive organs as a tool to conduct a kind of fame and fortune transaction!

Just like a small handicraft workshop that pickles dirt, they collect and brew gutter oil, quickly sell it, and make a profit... This is the only way they look at childbirth

Childbirth is a matter of life. Market transactions have nothing to do with education and love!

She may give birth to ten children, but none of them can give her the love and relationship between mother and child!

Finished.

The world agrees that we should respect the elderly and love the elderly, but there are exceptions in everything. There are some elderly people who are disrespectful, rely on their elders, and are selfish and disgusting. There once was a colleague in the unit who spoke of her mother with no affection for mother and child, and her words were filled with helplessness and even sadness. Her mother has been widowed for many years, has a perverse personality, is stingy, and is demanding. Her mother gave birth to two children, her and her brother. As the eldest daughter, this colleague has been extremely sensible since she was a child. It can be said that she has helped her mother with housework as long as she can remember. However, her mother has never gone to school and has a paranoid patriarchal mentality. Her mother had doted on her son since he was a child. As a result, this colleague's brother grew up to be an uneducated, lazy, and idle gangster. After graduating from college, my colleague not only got a job with a stable income, but also got married soon. Not long after her marriage, she brought her mother from the countryside to live with her. The arrival of her mother broke her peaceful life. Seeing that her daughter lived in a building and had no worries about clothing and food, the old lady thought of her son who was still in the country, and asked her daughter to take him with her. The colleague followed the mother's instructions and took the younger brother over, and asked someone to find a temporary job for the younger brother. But her brother is a man who can't bear hardships, and has no talent for anything he does. Although I changed jobs many times, I never persisted. Later, he simply stayed at his sister's house to wait for food and drinks. As time went by, the lover of the colleague had an opinion. Seeing that the brother-in-law was doing nothing all day, he took out his anger on the colleague, so the couple continued to quarrel. Later, the colleague’s mother asked her to buy a taxi for her younger brother. The colleague gritted her teeth and not only paid for her younger brother to learn a driver’s license, but also bought her a car and applied for a business license. This was a huge sum at the time. Small expenses. Who knows, my colleague's brother got into a car accident not long after he drove a taxi. Not only did he not make any money, he also lost a lot of money. The lover of her colleague said to her: I married you, not your family. After putting these words aside, my colleague's lover never came home again, and the two got divorced not long after. When the colleague's mother saw it, not only did she not feel guilty at all, but she even got worse. She directly controlled her daughter's financial resources. Whenever her daughter received her salary, she asked for the money and deposited it in the bank, saying that it was for the marriage of her colleague's brother. For my wife. Not long after, her brother found a girlfriend. This girl was also the kind of mixed-race girl who lived day by day. As a result, my colleague felt miserable. It was really difficult for her to support four people with her own salary. In desperation, after get off work, she worked part-time and set up a street vendor to earn some money for subsidies. Home use. After a while, her brother's girlfriend got pregnant, and her colleague's mother yelled at her colleague to handle her brother's marriage, saying that she wanted to have a grandchild sooner. You need a house to get married, so the old lady asked her colleagues to free up the house for her son to get married. As for colleagues, they can rent a house outside first. Although her colleagues were very angry about the dove occupying the magpie's nest, they had no choice but to find a place and move out. But the old lady did not wait until her son got married. In the community where the old lady lived, there were many crabapple trees planted for people to watch. In the mature season, the trees were all red and very beautiful. When the old lady saw that there was an advantage, she got up early that day to pick them. Fruit, because of her greed, she climbed up the tree to pick the round and big fruit on the top of the tree. As a result, she accidentally fell from the tree and hit her head on the curb stone. She died without being rescued. After his mother died, this colleague of mine also resigned and went to the mainland to develop, and never came back.

The most selfish mothers I have ever seen are like this. There are two:

1. One of my classmates. When she was in junior high school, her father was working away from home, and she was at home with her mother and sister. Her mother, unwilling to be left alone, hooked up with an old bachelor in his forties in the village. One night, her mother went to a neighbor's house to play cards. The old bachelor came to their house and slept with her. Later, when she became pregnant, the old bachelor threatened her mother and asked her to marry her daughter to him and give birth to the child, otherwise So she went out to publicize her scandal, and finally, as a teenager, she married that old bachelor in his forties while pregnant...

2. A relative of mine married a married woman. She had an affair, and in order to make their relationship last longer, she planned to give her daughter to her lover's son. The bloody thing was that her lover's son had a wife and a son at the time. Later, after the divorce, he married her daughter. The girl didn't know these things at first because she had been working outside. When she was less than 20 years old, she got involved in this matter ignorantly. Later, she learned about the complicated situation and started arguing with her mother. She even said that it was because she broke up other people's families and became someone else's mistress that she was in a relationship with her father-in-law...

So far, these two mothers are the most selfish I have ever seen. people!

The word mother cannot be measured by the word selfishness at any time. Mother is always selfless. The so-called tiger does not eat its seeds can better explain the correctness of this point of view. Including all things in the world, as long as the word mother is included, he is selfless, including people and all animals, even plants.

This question must be raised for human beings, and human mothers are even more selfless and great.

Unless the mother is forced to do something seemingly selfish when she is unable to protect herself. For example, if a couple divorces and they are unable to raise their children, they have no choice but to abandon them. In this case, can the mother be said to be selfish? Therefore, we cannot only see the sad side of children losing maternal love, but we must also see the helpless side of mothers. So I think maternal love is selfless and great at all times. It is wrong to say that there are selfish mothers in the world. Thank you all for reading.

You don’t pay a penny for your children’s marriage, you don’t pay a penny for your children to buy a house, but you ask for money from your children when you buy a house yourself. All weddings and funerals of relatives at home are paid for by the children. The children should pay for the nanny you use, the children should pay for decoration, and the children should pay for medical treatment. I saved all my money.

The most selfish mother I have ever seen is a mother who favors sons over daughters.

When I was young in rural areas, many families favored boys over girls, treating boys like treasures and treating girls like livestock. Siya was one of my best friends in elementary school.

Si Ya is the fourth of six children in their family. She has an older sister and two older brothers, and a younger brother and a younger sister. Siya's eldest sister got married when she was 17 or 18, and her two brothers, one works in the production team and the other is studying in middle school.

Siya’s father is a production team leader and comes home very late every day. In addition to working in the production team, her mother also secretly went to the mountains to dig medicinal materials to make money. Therefore, all the work at home, including washing and cooking, feeding pigs and chickens, taking care of younger siblings, etc., are all done by Si Ya alone. Although Si Ya was only ten years old at that time, her labor intensity was far beyond that of an adult.

In this way, Siya often did not have enough to eat or clothing to keep warm. Because her mother prefers boys, Si Ya never has new clothes to wear. Her clothes and schoolbags are always used by her brother. The so-called study is just a name, because she always has to take leave to work at home for half of a semester. So, after barely finishing the third grade, I simply stopped studying.

When Si Ya was fourteen, someone proposed marriage to his eldest brother and said that they wanted to exchange marriages. That is to say, she is exchanged for the other party's sister, and then the brothers from both families marry wives. Si Ya didn't want to and cried every day. Her mother beat her every day, very hard. They often locked her in a room, locked the door, and beat her with tree sticks.

At that time, we often heard Siya’s screams. Once, my mother couldn't bear it anymore and went to persuade her mother. Her mother said with a livid face, "Sister-in-law, you don't know that we rural people are not like you city people. A girl who studies can find a good husband's family. We have been like this for our whole lives. Girls are also doing hard work in their parents' family, and in their husband's family. It’s also a grinding game. If you don’t beat him, he will be beaten...”

Later Siya married his sister-in-law’s brother, a strong man in his twenties. This strong man is not good to Si Ya. He likes to beat his wife after drinking too much. Once Siya couldn't bear the beating anymore and ran back to her parents' home. She didn't even have a drink of water, so her mother sent her back with curses. After that, the frequency and severity of Siya's beatings naturally became more severe!

After two years of this kind of life, Siya was finally tortured crazy and was naturally driven back to her parents' home. At first, the family barely had enough food for Siya, but as time went by, Siya's sister-in-law got annoyed and said that Siya was a "spoiler" and was at odds with her own child.

Therefore, Siya’s mother married her to a man in his forties and gave all the money in exchange for the bride price to her eldest grandson.

Although Si Ya did not get beaten during her days at this house, she still had neither enough food nor clothing to keep warm. First, they went into debt for the bride price, and second, there was no decent labor force at home. My father-in-law and mother-in-law are old, my husband has a disabled leg, and my four daughters are crazy... It shows how difficult life is!

But even so, Siya's mother never showed any concern for her daughter. One summer there was a flood, and Si Ya's house was washed away. Siya took the child back to her parents' house to stay for a few days, just in time for her mother to build a house for her little brother. The mother asked Siya to go to work, and Siya helped to demolish the house, but the collapsed beam knocked her unconscious...

Siya was carried back to her parents' home, and she had no money for medical treatment. He died of illness just like that. Some people say that Siya suddenly understood a few days before she died, and she cried and told her husband to take care of the children and never set foot on the threshold of her natal family again...

It is said that after Siya's mother got older, no one take care of. The daughters did not return to their parents' home, and the sons did not care about her. She seemed to be suffering from heartache. She often had nightmares. She dreamed of Siya lying on the mound and crying out in pain...and then she would roll around in pain and talk nonsense. She was so painful that she died!

People say that even hens know how to love their children, but mothers like Si Ya’s mother do not know how to love their children. Or you only know how to love boys but not girls. This kind of selfishness is not ordinary selfishness, but selfishness that has lost its humanity!