When men are in love, they often say that they are poor and have no money. What kind of psychology is this?

It is possible that this boy is revealing his financial situation to girls. First, he explained his poor economic ability. If girls can't accept it, this is a better and more direct way for girls to quickly understand the economic situation of boys. It is also possible that this boy doesn't want to spend money on girls, but wants to tell girls in advance and be sensible, because he is poor and has no money to buy gifts in the future. In fact, this is equivalent to a signal, telling girls that this person is unreliable and should be cautious.

But as a boy, shouldn't you be there all day? Poor, no money? Tell me about it. This will make girls feel insecure and make girls feel that this boy is not motivated. A responsible boy should know what he should do at what stage. Instead of using no money as an excuse all day and then continuing to do nothing. Life is cruel, as we all know, but an enterprising person, even if life is cruel, some people will continue to work hard and run, instead of choosing to escape, even under the pretext of lack of money.

The world is always saying that girls are materialistic and demanding, but boys ask themselves, how many people really work hard? Of course, there are unreasonable people who pursue material and vanity seriously, but if they can't satisfy each other, then we should separate as soon as possible to avoid the tragedy caused by the disagreement between the three views. It is better to let go early and give each other more time to pursue new love. Many girls are not material, and girls also want a stable living environment. Two people can work together and solve all difficulties together.

We need a partner, because we need to love and be loved, and we need to find someone who shares our interests, instead of finding a rich family to live a carefree life. Everyone has different lifestyles, different viewpoints and different pursuits. We can't judge others at will. What we can do is to manage ourselves, pursue the life we want and keep working hard.