What a man left behind when he divorced: Your suspicious heart ended your ten-year marriage.

The most important thing between husband and wife is trust, and you can't impose your insecurity on each other.

No one can tolerate each other's suspicion, and the contradiction between husband and wife often begins with lack of trust.

A woman's innuendo may ruin a family, so be sure to carry it clearly.

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Wang Ying grew up in a broken family. Her parents divorced at an early age and have been growing up with her mother.

The trauma caused by divorce is hard to heal. Wang Ying saw her mother cry for this failed marriage since she was a child.

Women who grow up like this are insecure and always unconsciously insinuate their parents' feelings about their marriage. Wang Ying is a lucky girl. She met her husband, Bird, who really loved her.

Bird has a good job and a good income. After they got married, Bird asked Wang Ying to quit her job and stay at home as a housewife.

Originally, Bird loved his wife dearly and treated her well, but she planted the seeds of contradiction for their marriage.

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After Wang Ying quit her job and went home, her life centered on her family. Because of her natural insecurity, she is sensitive and suspicious and has a strong desire for control.

In the first few years of marriage, because the child was still young, she was as busy as a child and didn't control Bird as she is now.

Now that the children have grown up and started school, life in Wang Ying suddenly becomes empty. The life of a housewife is always boring and monotonous. Wang Ying suddenly began to panic. She is always worried that her parents' tragedy will happen to her.

So he strengthened his control over Bird. Wang Ying asked Bird to go home after work every day. If he needs to work overtime, he must report in advance and let his colleagues prove it.

In order to control Bird, Wang Ying made a lot of efforts to her colleagues around Bird. In her own words, she buried her eyes.

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Bird once had dinner with a client, and he explained the reason to Wang Ying in advance. At that time, Bird and his clients drank a lot of wine for the success of the cooperation, and finally he got drunk and was unconscious.

It was a female colleague of Bird Company who sent him home. At that time, Bird station was unstable. It was always the female colleague who helped him send him to the downstairs of the community, and was just seen by Wang Ying who went downstairs to take out the garbage.

Wang Ying's face became ugly at that time, and the female colleague got a genial smile that she handed Bird into Wang Ying's hands.

From then on, Wang Ying began to be suspicious and always felt that Zhang Yuanhe's female colleague was having an affair. She waits downstairs for Bird to get off work every day, which makes Bird's colleagues laugh at him.

Bird advised Wang Ying not to come to the company again. Wang Ying immediately jumped up and said that Bird dared not let her pick him up from work because she was guilty. I'm even more suspicious. I'll go to Bird Company and make a scene.

The female colleague is an unmarried woman, and her reputation of innocence is framed by her. The female colleague ran to the leader to complain.

After the clarification of the leaders, it was proved that there was no proper relationship between them, but the Bird incident had a bad influence on the company, and the leaders dismissed it for just reasons.

Bird couldn't stand it and chose a divorce. When she divorced, she left a message for Wang Ying: Your doubts hurt me and ended our ten-year marriage.

Nothing in the world is difficult for one who sets his mind to it. Because of insecurity, Wang Ying passed this bad factor on to her husband. All day, there are shadows of snakes and bows.

She doesn't even trust a man who has slept with her for ten years, and what she has done is a taboo in marriage. What men hate most is that women are suspicious and out of thin air.

Women's distrust of themselves often makes men lose face. Such a relationship between husband and wife, like a bow that collapses too tightly, may break at any time.

When two people come together, it is not only love, but also mutual trust. Don't do stupid things impulsively because of your own doubts and ruin a family.