Self-analysis of infj personality

0 1. Complex and contradictory, even feel that they have a dual personality.

Kindness and gloom, sunshine indifference, rationality and sensibility, self-confidence and inferiority, feeling is a contradictory synthesis, which is actually the case. For example, watching movies or reporting, it is easy to be moved to tears because of the plot. Because of my strong empathy, it is easy to bring myself into the plot, and I may be unconsciously affected by emotions, sadness, anger, or even for a long time. But in reality, I often see that some people's pain is indifferent, and there is no waves in their hearts, which is just symbolic and really pitiful.

02. Serious social phobia

Wang Xuwen's social phobia doesn't mean that you can't socialize well, but that you hate socializing. Although I'm not very good at socializing, I think people who make new friends at least won't make people think I'm annoying. I can understand each other if I want to. Because I have strong empathy, I understand each other more easily than ordinary people, but I don't want to, I'm unhappy, I don't want to.

I think most social networks are meaningless and a burden. I have a few ordinary friends. If you want to say something, if you are tired, don't say anything. It is easy to understand each other. Therefore, I will not take the initiative to make new friends. Spend this time on what I want to do, and even keep in touch with so-called new friends.

03. idealist

I have a world of my own in my mind. I like fantasy. My mind is full of ideas, good and bad, which can't be realized in reality. Thinking about these things is the most relaxing time of the day. I am also very emotional. You can cry when you watch war discipline movies or even African big cat discipline movies.

Always urged to get married by family, friends and colleagues. Just find a suitable marriage. Without love, there will be affection after a long time. But as an infi personality, I really can't do it. I can't imagine what kind of hell it is to live with a life that I don't like or suit me in the future. If I don't agree, I may not want to be with him all day. Marriage and even children should be attachments to feelings. A marriage without feelings may be just torture for me.

04. Pessimists like philosophical thinking.

I'm beginning to feel that the world is meaningless, and the continuation of mankind is meaningless. Finally, I must return to nothingness. In particular, some people urge marriage, because I have no social responsibility to get married and have children, saying that human beings will die like me. I think that a single human being, the whole human being and the whole world are meaningless. I am just a tool in human group cognition, and even the whole human race is just a tool. Thousands of years ago, human beings survived.

So far, there is no essential difference between scientific and technological progress and life improvement. What's the point of fighting between countries, races and even playing with each other? I think human beings are cancers on the earth and should disappear as soon as possible. Sometimes, I feel very painful because I think of these things, because I can't find the meaning of life.

05. About loneliness

The loneliness here is not alone, so I am lonely, not to mention whether I have a boyfriend. I can't find anyone who really understands me. Of course, I have two or three friends who can say anything, but the loneliness of not telling others will not decrease, and some emotions can only be felt by themselves. After all, there are some things that I can't understand even if I tell others, and many emotions can't be empathetic.

A friend once said that I was Zhang Fei in appearance and Lin Daiyu in heart, and that I looked careless, but I was very sensitive in heart. Of course, sometimes I think loneliness is not a bad thing. To put it comfortably, watching TV alone at home is not lonely. It's really sad to sit pale among people who don't speculate.

06. Hate to disturb others

I think this is also a manifestation of society's fear of poisoned patients. As long as I can do things that don't bother others, some things may bother others for five minutes, and I may have to do it for a day, and then I am willing to do it myself without bothering others. I hate people who owe others a favor. Similarly, I don't like being disturbed. If I can help, if I need to trouble others, because I won't refuse others, I may not say anything and help find others, but my heart is still very uncomfortable.

07. Like an outsider in this world.

I wonder if other people with infj personality are so miserable. At least I always feel out of place with the people around me. Maybe people around you don't have a strong sense of alienation. It's just my disguise, pretending to be gregarious and smiling at anyone. Only I know it's just an illusion. I feel tired every day. I always feel like I'm standing on a street. The people next to me kept turning into light and shadow, skipping me. Didn't notice me. It seems that only I am still in this world.

08. Some characteristics, habits and strange ideas.

I like to do all kinds of things by myself. I am stubborn and in a daze. I like to observe other people's movements and expressions. I am very punctual. I hate unpunctual people. I feel comfortable and dressed. People who are sincere and hypocritical will have a rational nausea and a plan. They usually look stupid and sweet, and their bottom line is very low. But once they touch their bottom line, they will be crazy and ruthless (once they make a decision, they will never look back).

Mental age may be about to be buried, but you think you are a child, with severe face blindness and no desire for power, but the competition is fierce. They are timid people, versatile people with friends, and single-minded. Even if you hate a person, you won't use any bad heart, at most, you just ignore him and eliminate this person from your life.