I am a person who is afraid of trouble.

I am indifferent by nature and afraid of trouble. I am afraid that I will trouble others, and I am afraid that others will trouble me. So in order to avoid trouble, learn to keep a polite distance from others, frame yourself in the circle, and also frame others outside the circle. As long as both sides can contact each other, it is considered to be the safest and safest way.

There are many such people.

I am also a person who is afraid of trouble. To be exact, I'm afraid I can trigger a tsunami in western Siberia by moving a hair. Of course it's a joke. I'm not that capable, but I'm afraid the trouble is well known, especially at school.

At that time, it was very common to help pick up the courier, bring food from the canteen and buy milk tea drinks. I'm particularly afraid of these things. If I take express delivery, I may need to make a detour, because express delivery has their fixed location; If you bring food, I'm afraid the food you bring is not to each other's taste; I am embarrassed to ask the other person for money when buying milk tea drinks, because after all, it is less than five yuan, but if I don't want it, it is also my parents' hard-earned money, and life is always in contradiction.

X, my best friend in my dormitory, was too lazy to run outside at school. He basically doesn't want to go out of the dormitory except for particularly important things, so he is the person who needs to bring food most in the dormitory. He brought trouble to many people, except me. I asked him why, and he said that because he had only bothered me to bring food a few times, he heard the impatience in my tone and decided not to bother me again.

If he really leaves me alone, then we have no follow-up. The fact is that we are in trouble in other ways, which has created a deep fetter.

"fetter" is a good word, I like it.

17 It was summer when I needed to rent a house. My friend ran several houses with me in the hot morning, which was very troublesome. He gave me serious advice and good advice. One thing I am ashamed of is that I disturbed him and felt rude. But it is precisely because of this that our relationship is getting better and better. At first, we just lived very close. He can cook and invite me to dinner from time to time. Later, because his roommate moved out, I moved in. Then it became Saturday and Sunday. I always have to cook more dishes so that we can eat together.

People are really interesting. Some people just want to drink with you, while others just want to dust off your cigarette butts. In my previous internship company, I had a colleague who knew that I liked cars and would discuss them with me. He would ask me to have a beer after work on Friday. It must be because of similar hobbies, or because we exchanged secrets when drinking together, and we always feel that getting along is a great thing. Another colleague will talk to me about her repressed things in the evening. Actually, I'm a little embarrassed because I'm not sure if I really trust each other. I asked him why he was willing to share these secrets with me, and he said because I was the one he thought was more transparent. He told me that we would go to dinner the next day, and I knew I could have another friend.

Without these strange troubles, how can we be a special fetter?