What are rural women most afraid of laughing at each other?

Wen Yi, the first person in Shan Ye (signing author)

There is a saying in the countryside, "A bad dog is afraid of a stick, and a good woman is afraid of pestering A Lang."

A bad dog is afraid of a brute stick, which is an undisciplined clubbing method. Although there is no discipline, once the dog is broken, it is also painful. Beggars used to hold a wooden stick in their hands, which was called "dog stick", mainly to prevent vicious dogs from invading. Beggars used to eat a hundred meals, wear a hundred clothes and enter a hundred doors, and they all met a vicious dog and looked down on people. This evil dog is terrible. If it doesn't walk carefully, it will be bitten. So you have to take a "dog stick" to defend yourself. Clubs can also scare away evil dogs.

Good women are afraid of pestering lang, and the saying that "good cabbage is arched by pigs" is vulgar, but it makes no sense. Women are thin-skinned and can't stand the entanglement of men's sweet words. After a long time, it will be defeated and become an emotional prisoner of a thick-skinned man. Some men are thin-skinned and afraid to express their true feelings to the women they like, thus giving thick-skinned men an opportunity. Even if I don't like it anymore, I will "listen and listen and love for a long time."

Bad dogs are afraid of brute sticks, which means the relationship between people and dogs. Bad dogs should be educated with sticks. Don't like dogs too much, treat them as pets.

A good woman is afraid of pestering her husband, which is what people who have experienced tell young men. Ordinary young people are the seeds of love, but the inferiority complex of keeping pace with the times affects his self-confidence. Always envy excellent women. But I don't have the courage to pursue it in my heart

This is the case now. Some good girls, cold girls, are hard to chase, and there will be no result. Then many people will not try to keep chasing, and will give up easily. In their view, if you are gentle and virtuous, you can't catch up with them. I never thought about it. Those who promise you easily, except for the situation that they like each other, will the girls be all right? Maybe someone will chase her in the future, and she will abandon you and be with another one.

Good girls never give up. Even if you are rejected countless times, as long as you are brave and hard, she will see your love and persistence. If you don't give up on her, she will gradually get to know you, pay attention to you and like you, and you will naturally come together. Therefore, chasing girls and tracking beatings may not necessarily have results, but they will certainly be useful.

Iron bars can also be ground into needles. If you haven't tried, why did you run away? Love should be spoken out loud. When you meet the right person, try to get it. But give up on yourself and blindly look down on yourself.

There is no natural king in this world. If you want others to appreciate you, work hard, boy!