A joke about an ex-girlfriend attending a wedding.

When the movie Ex 3 was released, many people saw their own shadows in the movie. Bits and pieces of my predecessor, right and wrong, came to my mind instantly. In most people's lives, the predecessor is a special existence.

Because you have fallen in love, he is more than just a friend in your heart; It is also because they loved each other, and both of them left their own traces and tastes in each other's hearts. The lover is not full, above AUO, perhaps the best portrayal of his predecessor.

Now that two people have broken up, it proves that they are not so suitable for each other, or that they are not so in love. If the end of a relationship is a relief for both of us, it is the right choice.

There is no need to cling to the past. If you had the obsession of not giving up on each other, the love between two people would not have come to an end. If it is over, please wave goodbye to each other and say goodbye politely.

The entanglement after breaking up is meaningless, so is love, so is not love, the ending is history, and nothing can be changed. One person's entanglement will become two people's troubles, and one person's persistence may also ruin two people's lives.

For all lovers, if you still love each other, don't say let go easily. If one person has definitely chosen to give up, then there is no need for another person to stay, pester or be unwilling.

Emotional twists and turns are for you to meet a more suitable person in the future, and the ex who has broken up is obviously not the right person. Love is "choose a city to die and meet a bald man". Before that bald man appeared, everyone was wrong.

When Ran Yan fell in love with Li Sen, she had just separated from her ex-boyfriend. When it comes to the reason why the two broke up, it's actually not because of anything big, just some trivial things. Ran Yan felt that her predecessor was not considerate, romantic, financially weak and had a social background, but these were not the main reasons why she chose to break up.

On one occasion, Ran Yan found such a short message on her predecessor's mobile phone: Thinking of you is my whole daily life. Later, his predecessor also admitted that he sent the message to his ex-girlfriend. Despite his predecessor's repeated apologies and promises to Ran Yan, Ran Yan still didn't believe him, so he chose to break up in anger.

Ran Yan thought her ex's spirit "Wandering" was enough to make her forget him, but after breaking up, she still missed her ex.

A friend told Ran Yan that the quickest way to get rid of the pain of one relationship is to throw yourself into another. Therefore, Yanran chose Li Sen, hoping that her new feelings could heal the damage caused by her predecessor.

Compared with his predecessor, Li Sen has done better in every place, and he will prepare all kinds of surprises for Ran Yan. When two people go shopping, Li Sen will not hesitate to buy anything that Ran Yan has seen twice.

Ran Yan will feel happy at some point, always feeling that Li Sen is missing something she can't say. However, after two people fell in love for half a year, Li Sen proposed to Ran Yan. At that moment, Ran Yan only felt surprised, surprised and moved, but did not feel the taste of happiness.

However, Ran Yan really can't find a reason to reject Li Sen. She agreed to his proposal, but she didn't care about the wedding at all.

Yanran once asked himself, "What do I want? Isn't Li Sen good enough? " It was not until Ran Yan compared Li Sen with her predecessor again that she discovered what was missing from Li Sen.

Besides, Ran Yan felt the same way about her predecessor. Li Sen is better than his predecessor, but Li Sen will never be his predecessor. Although Ran Yan and her predecessor have broken up, her predecessor has never left her heart since the day they broke up.

After breaking up, Ran Yan blacklisted his predecessor's WeChat. She doesn't want anything to do with her ex. After "releasing" her predecessor from the blacklist, she couldn't help looking through her predecessor's circle of friends. Unexpectedly, the contents of her circle of friends are all thoughts and apologies for her.

The ex sends photos of them almost every day, as if they never broke up. Yanran really wants to call her ex and tell him that she still has feelings for him and that she has never forgotten him. But what about Li Sen? She has promised to be Li Sen's wife, and Li Sen is happily preparing for the wedding. Will she personally ruin her marriage with Li Sen?

After careful consideration, Ran Yan decided to hold a wedding with Li Sen as usual. In order to make herself give up, she also sent a wedding time and place in a circle of friends. Actually, she just sent it to her predecessor.

On the wedding day, Yanran stayed up all night the night before. Her friends said that she was too excited about getting married. She only knew about it because she had unfinished business with her ex. She didn't love Li Sen, but was moved by his kindness at most. They say there is no turning back arrow before opening the bow. Water under the bridge. Ran Yan has no way out.

When they arrived at the hotel, all their relatives and friends were here. Before the wedding, Yanran went to the bathroom. Unexpectedly, she met her ex at the corner of the bathroom.

Ran Yan saw her ex's eyes were red. She must have just cried. The moment I saw my predecessor, Yanran's tears also fell. If it weren't for Ran Yan's stubbornness and the pride of his predecessor, maybe they wouldn't have come this far at all.

Yanran was dragged to a corner of the bathroom by her predecessor, hugged Yanran and even offered to take her away. Ran Yan talked about her concern and unforgettable experience with her ex, but there was no way to start their love again.

After they kissed goodbye, they said "goodbye" for the last time, which means "I will never see you again". Ran Yan didn't know that everything she and her predecessor said in the bathroom was heard by Li Sen.

Li Sen originally just wanted to go to the bathroom to urge Ran Yan to tell her that the auspicious time was coming, but she heard a "shocking" big secret. Even if Li Sen loves Ran Yan again, she won't marry her.

Ran Yan was confused by his predecessor before he got married. Can he expect Ran Yan to be single-minded and heartless after marriage? In order to save his dignity and face, Li Sen thought of a "best policy".

Ran Yan returned to the banquet hall again after finishing makeup in the bathroom, and found a bride on the stage. The bride Ran Yan looked familiar, but then she remembered that she was Li Sen's ex-girlfriend, and the dress she was wearing happened to be the one she was going to toast later.

Ran Yan didn't know what had happened. At this time, Li Sen picked up the receiver and announced to everyone, "Ran Yan, the bride changed. Don't blame me, because you are too dirty. " Ran Yan soon understood what had happened. When her parents tried to argue on the stage, they were stopped by Ran Yan.

I don't know why, instead of feeling angry, unwilling or even unwilling to quarrel, Ran Yan felt relieved. Originally don't have to marry Li Sen, for RanYan is a relief.

As for whether there will be more stories between her and her predecessor, she never thought about it herself, and Yanran didn't want to make the previous mistakes again. Li Sen is just her medicine for healing, and she doesn't want her predecessor to be her medicine.

Although this marriage was regarded as a joke, Ran Yan felt that it was a huge wake-up call for her later life. Feelings cannot be accommodated, and marriage cannot be accommodated.

After ending a relationship, don't start a new relationship in a short time, at least give yourself some time to sum up calmly. Although the relationship has come to an end, have the parties ever thought about the reasons for breaking up? Is it really inappropriate for two people to be together? Or on impulse, on impulse?

I think: if it is really inappropriate, separation is correct, and emotional indecision is far less appropriate than cutting the gordian knot. If two people still love each other, but they are forced to break up in a hurry, and then they can't save face, the other party will regret it one day. Like Ran Yan, she still loves her predecessor, but because she agreed to Li Sen's proposal, she put herself in a dilemma.

In the face of Ran Yan's "change of heart", it is normal for Li Sen to be angry and unwilling, but it is irrational to rush to find an ex-girlfriend to get married.

If the ex-girlfriend is playing this play with him, what will she do after "getting married"? Will her ex-partner dislike her because of this? If Li Sen's wedding with his ex-girlfriend is serious, has the root cause of their breakup been solved? Does his ex-girlfriend still love him? Does Li Sen promise to be responsible for his ex-girlfriend?

Li Sen's approach is just to look Japanese and keep his face as much as possible. But reasonable people know fairly well, and Li Sen's approach is too naive. How can a wedding be so hasty? Hasty results, mostly lose-lose.

If Li Sen's parents can convince their son on the spot, I believe Ran Yan will see a completely different scene. Every adult needs to pay for his actions, and so does Li Sen.

Yanran left the wedding reception with her parents. As for how Li Sen will handle his relationship with his ex-girlfriend, let them decide for themselves whether Li Sen will let his ex-girlfriend become his wife.

Emotional things are often wrong step by step. From the beginning of this relationship, Ran Yan was wrong, so everything she later had with Li Sen was wrong. Ran Yan's fault not only affected himself, but also affected Li Sen's life.

If Ran Yan can realize her own problems, it will be of great benefit to her later life. I also hope that Li Sen will not make the same mistake in major marital affairs.

Before starting a new relationship, the parties should ask themselves, have you ever had feelings for your ex? Have you completely forgotten your predecessor? Does your predecessor still have a place in your heart?

With the answers to these questions, you naturally know whether it is the best time to start a new relationship.