What can be done in the workplace to avoid being excluded from the team?

Where there are people, there are rivers and lakes, where there are rivers and lakes, there is struggle, where there is struggle, there is left, middle and right, and there is bound to be reform. Moderately benign competition and competition is an important magic weapon and weapon for a team to grow continuously. But if it goes too far, the whole team will know how to fight and crush each other, and the team will not be far from the end.

Personally, many people are wondering whether it is better to remain neutral in the workplace struggle. It's better to choose the dominant side. On this issue, you must first understand the following points in order to become a talented person! Instead of easily choosing to take sides or be independent!

First of all, you have to know how much you weigh!

Many people talk about independence or reform from the beginning, which sounds like a joke! Because you have to evaluate your own strength first!

The second vice president and the third vice president of the company fought in the fairy, each playing his own game. You're the janitor. Which team do you choose to stand on?

If you choose to take sides, you will definitely "die" faster!

Because, first of all, you are not insured. Second, you have offended the "big shot".

Therefore, if you are not important at all, it is wrong to choose which side is independent or backward! Your best way is to play and do whatever others tell you! You play with them. He told you to call the second child, you called the second child, he told you to call the third child, you called the third child, and everything was obeyed! Because you are a wage earner, why bother?

Besides, you are not entitled to know a lot of inside information. Can you be sure if it is a second child? Is the third better?

Second, choose to stand on the right!

If you have the strength, and you are the object of all parties, you can't run independently, so I definitely suggest you choose the right side!

And many times, the right side is not necessarily the strongest side.

It's time to test your sense of responsibility. You should have your own value judgment. I believe that 99% of adults will have their own mature and correct values.

At this time, don't give in to external forces, and don't just look at benefits and money, so you choose the side that doesn't conform to your values.

As long as you stick to it correctly, your result will not be bad sooner or later!

For a simple example, people in the company drag you to steal raw materials. Do you think you will go or not? If you go, many people may have a good relationship with you. The most intuitive thing is that you are rich. If you don't go, those people will isolate you or even suppress you, and you won't have any extra money.

What shall we do? I believe that 90% people will choose not to go with the flow, because this kind of thing, although eating meat now, will be beaten sooner or later.

So, about taking sides, sometimes it's easy to choose the right team!

Third, can you be independent?

Why, there are only two choices, either independence or isolation. It's none of your business for others to eat meat and get beaten, and others don't care about you.

Or do you want to be a team and become a vassal? Others eat meat, you drink soup, others are beaten, and you suffer?

Is there any other choice? Yes!

Why don't you form your own school? Doesn't it smell good?

Fourth, the highest wisdom! -play an active role!

Why do you watch people in your team fight with each other? Why are you always worried about choosing independence or reform? Why do you want to be alone? These things will make people fall into constant disputes and worries.

And you have higher wisdom! That's for the good of the group, for the good of the team! Can play a positive role! For example, can we create greater benefits according to our own reality so that everyone can have meat to eat? In case of an argument?

Can't we turn our enemies into friends, unite as one, and have a higher goal?

Can you even sacrifice your own interests for a better tomorrow for everyone?

If you have this awareness, will you still consider whether you stand for reform or independence? I won't! Because, you have a higher pattern and a bigger mind!

Why do we have to compare the benefits? Can't you give more than others?

Can you really despise and hate those people who don't consider everyone's interests, fairness and justice, but just want to engage in gangs, cut corners and take the wrong door?

If everyone despises those people, I believe there will be fewer and fewer such people.

Sadly, many people can't despise others when they see them eating meat. I even doubt that my insistence is wrong.