The number of single young people is increasing rapidly, a generation that denies love! Will you only sleep with one person after marriage?

If you ask a hundred people, "Do you dare to promise to only sleep with the other person after marriage?", a hundred people will promise to only sleep with the other person after marriage, but this society does not seem to be So, because we always see extramarital affairs, or you are having an extramarital affair.

Why?

Because adults always think differently, this is the biggest label for adults.

It is precisely because of this bad social phenomenon that some sensitive people are afraid of getting married. They think marriage is hell. Although two people are happy together, But that's just an illusion of hell! The background of marriage is desolate, and betrayal or sweetness grows on this desolation. If you only sleep with the other person after marriage, it seems a bit unbelievable in modern society!

There is a sudden increase in the number of single young people who talk about pressure, career, and future. In fact, these are all excuses. The truest thoughts in their hearts cannot be expressed, and this idea is that they can stay with each other after marriage. ? Everyone says it can, but why is society so chaotic?

I remember there was such a sentence in an article. The author said this. He said:

“The prerequisite for marriage is not a house, a car, money and power; You can accept being cheated on! If you can’t accept it, your marriage will be ruined for you!”

I have always believed in this sentence, and I thought I would believe it for the rest of my life, but then I wavered! Now...

Young people cannot talk about these things. After all, there is no standard solution to extramarital affairs. You are passive, even if you block the two of them. You still can't do anything in the room. You have to spend money to do it. Of course you have money, but what if you don't have money? If you don't take action, you can't swallow this breath, and in the face of the rumors from the outside world, the world suddenly turns into hell.

You can only get a divorce, and then a family becomes fragmented. In the fragmented family, there is also a child growing up in a single-parent environment. The dream is shattered in an instant.

This was a very negative thought I had before. I also realized that the way I thought about the problem was too absolute. Not all lovers would have extramarital affairs. I went to the crowd with fantasy and temptation. I wanted to find a girl who looked kind, but then I gave up. I didn't want to take the risk. This was something that could ruin my life.

The biggest shortcoming of human beings is that it is difficult to admit anything. Therefore, if you ask 10,000 people, 10,000 people will tell you with confidence that they will only love and sleep with one person after marriage. . What a big joke.

Of course, not all people will have extramarital affairs. This society is full of money, power and sex. There are still a very few people who live for "faith", but when it comes to the two "faith" When I read the words, young people would laugh, as if faith was something to be ridiculed, which was strange.

I slowly shook these negative thoughts. After all, I didn’t just jump out of a rock. I have parents who, like most people’s parents, push for marriage. , to give birth to a baby, their way of looking at the problem is very simple, just like borrowing seeds from the donkeys of the production team in the 1980s, can they give birth? Just give birth!

I have to compromise with this dreamy society because I really can’t find a better way out.

I have never found the one who belongs to me. I can’t even imagine that one day I will get married, have children, and become a father, but I know that I will experience all of this, although I can't imagine it.