When you meet someone who is joking seriously, should you explain patiently or ignore him?

When I meet someone who is particularly serious about joking, I will choose to explain TA patiently. Because I am such a person myself, I take things very seriously. I often meet some jokes that others casually tell. I will take them seriously and ask? Really? ? Sometimes people are unwilling to explain more, and sometimes people are willing to give me a detailed explanation. I cherish the patience of others, so if I meet someone who takes jokes seriously, I will patiently explain to TA.

Perhaps, what do many people say to people who are particularly serious about their work? Don't be too serious, it's boring to be too serious! ? But I actually think that being serious is good in itself. Do things seriously, although it takes a long time, but the effect must be better. Doing things seriously will not give people a perfunctory feeling. Doing things seriously is a kind of research spirit, which can be used in appropriate places, such as researchers, scientists and other jobs that require great concentration.

But it is undeniable that sometimes if we are too serious or focused on one thing, we will get the opposite result. ?

Tell an example of Japanese writer Yasunari Kawabata. Originally, for ordinary people, winning the Nobel Prize was a great honor and affirmation. However, since winning the Nobel Prize, Yasunari Kawabata has been tired of fame and fortune, and is often dragged by the government, the public, including TV advertisers, and so on in various names. Scholars are inevitably naive, unsociable, soft-hearted and will not shirk; I was so serious that I didn't know how to perfunctory, so I fell into a hectic routine and didn't know how to get rid of it, and finally committed suicide and ended my life.

It is a pity for Kawabata Yasunari to see such a tragedy. If he knows how to refuse and do things seriously, and does not let himself lose himself in a hurry, then this literary genius will bring us more excellent works.

Of course, winning the Nobel Prize is good enough for a writer. But if he doesn't participate in the trivial things that make him tired, he can still live quietly. With his rich wisdom in other aspects, maybe there will be more philosophical creations left in the world. It seems that being too serious is sometimes a burden. Sometimes it is a philosophy of life to be flexible in order not to be too tired physically and mentally.