A man who belittles his wife everywhere.

There is a man in the office with a soft personality. It's hard to get angry at ordinary times, and he doesn't get angry when others talk to him, but there is one problem that makes people particularly disgusted: he often speaks ill of his wife everywhere

Why do you say "everywhere"?

It is ok to chat with your close friends. In our office, it is very inappropriate to say it in public. Once I went to another group on business, and I even heard him speak ill of his wife.

It seems normal that women sit together and talk, husbands say, children say, parents-in-law say, and sister-in-law say, talking too much is annoying.

It is unbearable for a man to speak ill of his wife everywhere.

Some people say that men belittle their wives in front of other women in order to gain sympathy and prepare for cheating. I wonder what is the psychology and purpose of this man who speaks ill of his wife everywhere and doesn't want to divorce? Have you ever wondered what others will think when they hear it?

It's common to exalt oneself and belittle others, but his wife is a family after all. Even if there are contradictions and conflicts, it is gender-neutral, and it is too low-level to talk about it everywhere. Really meet some people with ulterior motives, can you fan the flames and do something? It's really noisy. It makes your family restless and hurts your feelings. Others take advantage of jokes, and close people quickly retaliate. Is it interesting? Even if you really can't live together and don't want to live together, you should save face for each other when you divorce!

Besides, there are several women sitting in the office.

Listening to this man speak ill of his wife, a female colleague said that this man is the most typical "little man".

This man will scold his wife "material" after shopping and think about spending money on dressing up all day; When a wife takes care of her children and is busy dressing up, she will dislike her. She will judge her "narrow-mindedness" after caring about him and asking when he will go home. She will criticize her on all kinds of small family matters. She will compete with her for small things such as dressing and eating for her children, and she will be better to her family. He suspected that she would subsidize the family. ...

The funniest thing is that he always looks at his wife's income all day, and she spends money. He said he lost his family and his wife saved money. He said he didn't know what his wife wanted to do. There are expenses at home, and his wife asked him for money. He said he didn't know where all his wife's money went.

Finally, my colleagues and I finally came to the conclusion that this person has his own money and can spend it by himself. His wife's money should be at home, and the expenses at home should be paid by her, but you can't spend his money, you must give him money. Only when his money is in his hand can he feel at ease, and he'd better give him his wife's money. ...

Such a man, finding a wife, is to let this woman live for him.

What a ridiculous idea. Do you have a throne in your family?

We are usually very busy at work, especially in Grade Three. We have less time at home and have to work on Saturday and Sunday.

If you think about it, it's not easy for his wife to take care of the children alone. He can't accompany his wife and children, and he doesn't have much time to do housework. He does this occasionally and does not despise this or that. We two women, listening to what he said about his wife, think this man is really disgusting.

How painful it should be for his wife to live with him!