Revealing the third part of Personality and Marriage: "Phoenix and Fei", the flowers bloom brilliantly and it is difficult to bear fruit (I)

Revealing one of "Personality and Marriage": Nicholas Tse will love Faye Wong till he dies.

The second revelation of "personality and love": the fate of Feng and Zhi

When it comes to Faye Wong, the first thing that comes to mind is that she is casual, casual, free-spirited, maverick, straightforward, free and easy, domineering, unusual and mysterious ... Everything about her seems to be isolated from the secular world, but she has been pushed to the clouds by the screams and fans in the secular world.

Like Nicholas Tse, Faye Wong's MBTI personality type is quite rare in the entertainment circle where the artist's ESFP, the artist's ISFP and the challenger's ESTP are dominant.

The first dimension: energy tendency-where do you pay attention to and where do you get energy?

Is Faye Wong I or E?

This is relatively easy to judge. No matter in concerts or other public occasions, Faye Wong is obviously not a person who is good at communication and interaction. At every concert, Faye Wong basically said two lukewarm "thank you", without any eye-catching dance or emotional interaction with fans at the top of his lungs. Of course, such a cold attitude does not affect the fans' love and enthusiasm for her at all.

Faye Wong's Sina's humble name is veggieg, but from the name alone, I never thought it was her, and this Weibo was quietly updated for a while before being picked out by fans. It is said that Faye Wong almost gave up this Weibo because of the soaring fans after the exposure, but was persuaded by his friends to come back.

Faye Wong said: "If I stop singing one day, I will resist all self-promotion activities, and I don't want others to remember me;" If I stop singing, I hope everyone will forget me. I really don't want them to remember me. I think love should be in my heart. "

She also said: "Everyone is lonely in spirit and soul, so people are lonely in essence. If the essential meaning is specific to the heart, it can also be said that the human heart is lonely. Every soul is lonely. You are most awake when you are lonely. No matter how close the relationship is, there are also places that cannot be communicated. Loneliness is not the kind that can be felt anytime and anywhere. I said that people basically can't communicate completely. I said that this kind of loneliness is not a very bleak feeling, but that people can't communicate completely in their hearts or essence. It is actually a wonderful thing to enjoy loneliness. "

-These two paragraphs are almost standard "Introvert Manifesto". Not wanting to be the center of attention, paying more attention to inner feelings and enjoying a person's loneliness are typical characteristics of introverted I.

Faye Wong's circle of friends is relatively fixed, with only a few closest friends.

She once said frankly: "I don't think my personality is not suitable for the entertainment circle. If I am not suitable, I won't do it now, but I don't deny that I have this side. For example, I am not very enthusiastic but very passive. " Some people like to communicate with others, express themselves and let others know more about themselves. That's not who I am. "

She also inadvertently revealed the secret close to her: "In fact, the reporter's questioning skills are very important. Some reporters will make me speak more and more unconsciously, just like chatting, and slowly say something I don't want to disclose. On the other hand, if the reporter wants to dig some privacy as soon as he comes up, then I will instinctively guard against it. "

There are not many friends, but they are closely related. They tend to be reserved and passive when communicating with people, and pay more attention to personal privacy (some "privacy" is nothing in the eyes of extroverts). These are also the outstanding characteristics of the introverted me.

To sum up, Faye Wong is me, and it is very me.

The second dimension: attention tendency-what are you paying attention to when you receive and perceive information from the world around you?

Is Faye Wong N or S?

Although intuitive people are rare among singers and actors, Faye Wong and Nicholas Tse are exceptions.

Like Nicholas Tse, Faye Wong can not only sing and act, but also write, compose and write lyrics.

Because n-type people are more inclined to innovate and create, generally speaking, s-type people (singers, actors, models, directors, etc. Engaged in performance work in the entertainment industry; A person who is engaged in creative work (composing music, writing lyrics, writing plays, designing, etc.). ) mostly n-type.

Judging from several lyrics written by Faye Wong herself, such as Wonderful, Stay, Love, Bao Yang, etc., her N tendency is quite obvious.

For example, the lyrics of Will Love:

The lyrics are full of metaphors and imagination, rich in associations and abstract leaps, showing a typical writing style of N-type people.

The following preface is typical:

Let's feel that the N-shaped Faye Wong, even if he prefaces the makeup book, will be carved so deeply.

Like Nicholas Tse, Faye Wong is used to talking about things in abstract and summative language.

For example, about women and sexiness, she concluded: "I think sexiness is a kind of temperament of women. Every woman will be sexy, just at different times. Some women make people feel sexy at first sight. I think sexy makes people want to get close to her, both men and women. Sexy in women's eyes is different from sexy in men's eyes. It is a kind of temperament, which has little to do with clothes. I think women should be sexiest when they are loved. "

Regarding the past and the future, she thinks: "Every stage of my life will have different happiness and pain, and they are all intertwined. So there is no complete happiness and no complete pain. If I have to choose' which period in my life I want to return to most', I would rather go on like this. "

Regarding whether to "return to grass" after breaking up, she said: "I think what will happen after breaking up depends on the situation at that time every time. It is difficult to say yes or no in a nutshell. However, I am not the kind of person who says' Don't look for me again' after breaking up. Some people think that they are either lovers or enemies. I think whether I can become a friend depends on whether there is resentment in my heart. "

Faye Wong also likes to use metaphors.

For example, how to balance love and things? She replied: it is not difficult to do both, just like you can eat while watching TV.

When asked about filming, which place do you like best? She said: My favorite is the Peace Hotel. One day, very early, I got up to shoot on location. The Bund in the fog looks particularly beautiful, just like fate. We have never seen what the future is like.

In addition, because of the leap of thinking and rich associations, N-type people often speak unexpectedly, have a unique sense of humor, and often bring their own "brain teasers". This is particularly evident in Faye Wong.

For example, after marrying Li, she posted in Weibo: "Some people say that Faye Wong has no Hahan, no Hari, and finally she is from Xinjiang ~ Why not just call her a melon ..."

Reporter: Why do so many people ask Sister Kuan to take care of Tong Tong? Because she has a lot of meat.

Before the handshake meeting in Taiwan Province Province in 2002, the reporter asked her what preparations she would have for the handshake. I washed my hands.

The reporter asked her who was more jealous in Dou Wei? A: He likes old vinegar, and I like rice vinegar.

The reporter asked: Why can't I get a tan? What is the secret? A: The secret is not to bask in it!

Reporter: Do you usually take Tong Tong with you when you go out to work? A: Not necessarily. Look at her ... look at her schedule, haha.

At the Taiwan Province Fable 0 1 concert conference, the reporter asked her what shape it would be. A: I will never wear old ones.

The reporter asked, "Will Love" is different from previous albums. A: It's different from the cover to the title.

The reporter asked her about the custody of Tong Tong after the divorce. -a: whoever is sentenced to raise who.

The reporter asked Faye Wong why she endorsed shampoo after cutting her hair short. A: Don't you wash your hair with short hair?

Of course, she said a famous joke:

To sum up, Faye Wong is n.

The third dimension: decision-making tendency-how do you make judgments and decisions?

It has been thought that men are mostly introverted I and women are mostly extroverted E, but the survey shows that the dimension of "introverted I- extroverted E" has no obvious correlation with gender; Among the four dimensions of MBTI, only the dimension of "thinking T- emotion F" is related to gender.

According to the above explanations and examples, can you judge whether the dimension of "thinking T- emotion F" has anything to do with gender? Among men, T-type people are the majority or F-type? Are most women F-type or T-type?

The answer to this question is obvious: T-type people are the majority among men (2/3 of foreign survey data) and F-type people are the majority among women (2/3 of foreign survey data).

There is a famous book, Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus. Almost the whole book is about the differences between men and women in the dimension of "thinking about T- emotion F".

However, John Gray, the author of this book, ignores one point: in real life,13 men are all F-type "warm men" from Venus; Women have 1/3, which is a T-shaped "female man" from Mars.

Faye Wong is a rare typical T-shaped woman.

It is said that Faye Wong once went to a watch shop and met Yang Shoucheng (the boss of Nicholas Tse), a wealthy Hongkong businessman. Yang Shoucheng said that she would send Faye Wong a gift and let her pick it at will, but Faye Wong said ungrateful, "Who wants you to send it? I can't afford it myself? "

On one occasion, Faye Wong appeared on the program of ieee fellow, a famous producer in Taiwan Province Province. Perhaps it was because of the long wait during the filming that Faye Wong went out for a while. Wang Jun's fiery personality is "known far and near". He was very angry. When Faye Wong came back, she excitedly scolded her face to face and said rude words. The deafening sound is so loud that the whole studio can hear it. Other actresses will also cry because of this scene. Don't want to Faye Wong didn't shed a tear. After being scolded, she coldly asked the king, "Are you finished?" With that, he turned and left, and Wang, who was so angry that he stayed on the spot, was tearing his hair out.

The above two anecdotes fully embody the typical personality characteristics of T-type people in Faye Wong: rationality, objectivity, calmness and sureness, and more consideration is given to facts and opinions than to each other's emotions and attitudes.

For example, Yang Shoucheng said that I can afford it myself-this is indeed a fact; Ask Wang Jun, have you finished? -this is to confirm the facts.

Wang Fei is really cool, direct, outspoken, and does not give people "face", and is even more famous in the entertainment circle. Search online for "Faye Wong suffocated" and you will see many such reports:

The record company asked Faye Wong to smile more when doing publicity. Fei: Why are you laughing for no reason? How silly!

On a variety show in Taiwan Province province, the host praised her as an international superstar. F: Stop blowing.

The reporter asked some places about the album "Will Love". Fei: You don't have to understand.

A Japanese reporter asked her if she was interested in the Japanese record market. Fei: Not interested!

The reporter asked to talk about her daughter. F: What is my daughter going to say?

A Hong Kong hair stylist criticized Tong Tong's hairstyle. The reporter asked Faye Wong what he thought. F: So what? He said that it is not beautiful if it is not beautiful.

When I went to Japan for publicity, I was highly treated by the Japanese side. The reporter asked me if I was proud. Fei: I am only nervous and afraid now. I can't tell you how I feel until I'm scared.

Reporter: What do you think is the best thing in life? Fei: My life is not over yet. Why are you asking me this question now? I will tell you before I die!

Faye Wong went to Taiwan Province Province for publicity, and the fans shouted Faye Wong's name until they lost their voices. Faye Wong was dumbfounded by the fans' distressed face: "Are you voluntary or is someone forcing you?"

In 2004, ten thousand people in Taiwan Province signed "Love". Tao Zi asked Fei to greet the fans ... Faye Wong said, "Did everyone who came to the scene buy the album?"

The reporter chased Faye Wong and asked him if he had finished the divorce. Faye Wong slipped her sunglasses down her nose and stared at the reporter for 2 seconds. He said coldly, "What does it have to do with you?"

In 2000, I was on the Tao Zi program, and the flower arrangement was broken by Tao Zi. Faye Wong said, "The flowers you chose don't look good. How can I insert them beautifully? "

After winning the prize, Faye Wong took the stage to speak: "I can sing, I know, so I fully affirmed the affirmation of the judges."

At the 15 Taiwan Golden Melody Awards Ceremony, Tao Zi said, "Thank you to Faye Wong who is filming" 2046 "for taking the time to receive the award." Who knows that Faye Wong said innocently, "It's over" ... The whole audience laughed (what a shame), and Tao Zi sweated, "I still won't interview you."

To sum up, Faye Wong is a rare T-shaped woman from Mars.

The fourth dimension: organizational tendency-how do you organize and design your life?

Is Faye Wong J or P?

Relatively speaking, Faye Wong is more P. When it comes to Faye Wong, the first thing people think of is casualness, casualness and free will. Faye Wong himself admitted: "I don't like being an idol, because being an idol is very tiring. Most people will think that idols are role models, and I am just a person who does things by feeling. I can't be an example. I just want to make myself comfortable and not hurt others. "

When Yang Lan interviewed her, Faye Wong said that she seldom arranged and made plans in advance, whether it was her singing career or what to say at each concert.

Faye Wong claims that music creation is a way for her to express herself, and her attitude towards life is more casual. She also commented on herself: "I am a lazy person by nature, others can do it, and I don't have to work." Isn't that lazy? " I say I'm lazy because I don't have much ambition for my career. I prefer playing to working. "

Casual, casual, everything goes with the flow, like a relaxed and free lifestyle, do not like to plan in advance, and tend to improvise when things happen. These are typical characteristics of P-type people.

Because he doesn't like planning and preparation, Faye Wong often has "spontaneous answers" and "spontaneous forgetting of words" when attending public activities.

1995, Faye Wong and Jacky Cheung won the Golden Horse Award. Faye Wong suddenly forgot the formula and stood on the stage thinking. Jacky Cheung wanted to help her with her original words, but she said, "No, I'll think about it"-it was said into the microphone ... So the audience was silent, waiting for her to think about the words ... but she still couldn't remember, so she smiled and said directly, "I can't remember, let's present the prizes."

At the press conference of Hero, the reporter asked: Are you impressed by the color in the movie? Fei: I forgot (audience laughs) ... no ... the red one is ... (I'm beginning to wonder what the red one is) What is the red one?

The reporter asked her how she brewed it when she cried. F: How to brew it? I forgot, it's brewing anyway, haha.

1999 was asked by reporters about the new album. F: What else can we do? This is not like the last album.

The reporter asked: Who is "you" in "You are happy, so I am happy"? Fei: Generally speaking, you love whoever you love.

In addition, Faye Wong has always been known as "changeable" in both singing and modeling. I like to have all kinds of choices and experiences, and I like to change with my heart. These are also the characteristics of type P people.

To sum up, Faye Wong is P. ..

Therefore, Faye Wong is an INTP scholar.

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