How should parents correct their children's indecent behavior in public?

Many parents will have a little worry, that is, children are usually very good and sensible at home, but once they go out to public places, they are like wild horses that have lost their reins. If other children play together, they will run around and scream and make noise, and adults can't stand it at all. On the one hand, there are hidden dangers in children's safety, on the other hand, it is impolite for children to make such a noise, which also affects others and makes parents very embarrassed.

In public, children are impolite and make indecent behaviors. These things will worry parents. There is something wrong with the way parents handle it.

When children are fooling around in public, parents can't ignore them or stop them rudely. In fact, many parents don't know how to handle this kind of thing. So how should parents educate their children fooling around in public? Parents should mainly do the following. In fact, children are not as disobedient as they thought.

(1) Prevention in advance is the key.

First of all, why do children fool around in public? In fact, it is caused by the child's nature. Children in a novel environment, everything is different. So the children were so excited that they couldn't help but start exploring around because of their strong curiosity. Faced with this situation, parents need to take precautions for their children in advance. For example, tell children where we are going and what to do, and then tell them what not to do. As long as you reach an agreement with your child in advance, your child's behavior will converge a lot.

(2) Distract children's attention.

Children often pester their parents to buy something or play something in the mall. If parents don't satisfy their children, they will cry. At this time, parents will feel embarrassed. However, there is no way to take the child, only to satisfy him or deal with it roughly. In fact, these methods are all inappropriate. Parents can divert their children's attention in time, for example, tell him that your favorite cartoon is about to start, let's go back and watch it, or tell him an interesting little story. This will stop the child from crying and make the child forget his original intention.

(3) Leave the scene immediately.

When children cry in public, parents should first tell themselves to calm down and then leave the scene quickly with their children. The worst behavior is yelling at children on the spot. This not only can't control the children well, but also can make others see jokes. Leaving a crowded place so that children have no capital to cry is not only convenient for education, but also avoids the embarrassment of others.

(4) Be patient and reason with your child.

In fact, children are also reasonable. It's not that they know nothing. If a child loses his temper in public, then parents should first think about the reasons why the child loses his temper. If the children's reasonable requirements are really not met, parents can have a good talk with their children and think about it again. If it is the child's fault, parents can tell their children their own difficulties, and I believe that children will understand their parents.

Children's education needs to find suitable methods. Children are often not unreasonable and lose their temper for no reason. When parents discipline their children in public, the most important thing to pay attention to is not their own face, but to make themselves calm enough. Find the right way to communicate with children, and children will understand their parents. Under such gentle and reasonable education, children will grow into a calm and educated good child.