Why did Lv Zhi, who was rich and beautiful, marry Liu Bang, the poor security captain at that time, as a stepmother?

If you want to ask which one is more bluffing, it should be Zhao Benshan. In fact, Zhao Benshan can only rank second, and the first is our famous Emperor Gaozu Liu Bang. Lv Zhi married Liu Bang because Lu Fu was fooled by Liu Bang!

In ancient times, marriage mainly depended on the words of matchmakers and the lives of parents. With his eloquence and self-packaging, Liu Bang was recognized by Lv Zhi's father and was able to marry and go home.

When Liu Bang was the curator of Surabaya Pavilion in Pei County, although he was a security captain, he was still an old bachelor, and he had not married a wife at the age of 40. Mainly because of his bad reputation, history books say that he is "good wine and lustful" and has no great promise. Even his father disdained to mention him.

What's more, Liu bang has been fooling around with a woman named Cao all the year round, and has also given birth to a son, which is called shameless by the villagers. It is estimated that no good family is willing to marry the girl to him.

How did Liu Bang solve his personal problems?

As it happens, Lv Gong, Liu Bang's future father-in-law, left his hometown to avoid the enemy, and just came to Pei County, knowing little about Liu Bang. As Lv Gong is a friend of the county magistrate, when he first came to Peixian County, everyone went to congratulate him.

At that time, it was stipulated that if the gift was less than 1000 yuan, you could only sit in the hall. Liu Bang lied: "Congratulations to Qian Qian." Walk through the door. Hearing this figure, Lv Gong was surprised and got up to meet him. Lv Gong is a fortune teller. She is looking for her daughter's in-laws. It may be because of the psychological effect of "congratulations to millions" that Lu Gongyue looks at Liu Bang more pleasing to the eye. The history book records "seeing the face of Gaozu, respecting it" and inviting him to sit down.

Liu bang was particularly bullish when he talked and laughed during the dinner. But also attracted the attention of Lv Gong. After the banquet, Liu Bang was left alone to talk about marriage. In this way, Liu got Lv Gong's daughter, the famous queen of Lv Zhi in the future.

Dating programs are very popular now, and everyone may have seen them. In dating programs, the female guests who are most popular with male guests are often beautiful and have a strong family background-to put it bluntly, rich families have money. In fashionable terms-"white".

Lv Zhi is such a rich and beautiful city. Lv Gong has a good relationship with the county magistrate of Pei County, and all the villagers in Pei County have a look. Although Lv Zhi is not really beautiful, in the eyes of those who have never seen the world, there is also the beauty of sinking fish and falling geese. As a result, a large number of suitors fell in love.

In fact, Liu Bang was named after he became emperor. Before that, his name was Liu Ji, and now it is almost the same as "Liu" (Ji means the smallest).

It is worth mentioning that Lv Zhi, who was unmarried at that time, was only in his twenties, while Liu Bang was already in his forties. He idled around all his life and only worked as a small security captain.

More importantly, he has an illegitimate child of unknown origin around him. Although Liu Bang is not entirely a ruffian rogue, he has been walking in the Jianghu for many years, and he is used to seeing romantic scenes and indulging in debauchery. Sometimes it is inevitable that he will be emotional for a while.

Once, I met a girl from Cao family, who was gentle, beautiful and considerate. After communicating with each other for a while, she was inseparable. Soon Cao Shi gave birth to a son for Liu Bang. After Cao Shisheng gave birth to a child, Liu Bang didn't take her home, but lived in her mother's house, and Liu Bang paid for her.

This matter is public outside. Lv Zhi, who didn't come in at first, didn't know it at that time, but he was also very happy. With or without illegitimate children and mistresses, everybody can see that Liu Bang is worthy of Lv Zhi. This is a very inappropriate marriage.

From any point of view, Liu Bang is not worthy of Lv Zhi ―― in terms of age, Liu Bang can already be Lv Zhi's father. This history is in Historical Records? Biography of Emperor Gaozu and Historical Records? It is recorded in the Chronicle of Lv Hou.

Then why is Bai willing to marry Liu Bang, the "security captain"? Still willing to be a stepmother? Let's go back to the historical record? The reason is not difficult to analyze.

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First of all, Liu Bang is good-looking. The so-called long eyes, long face, beautiful and bearded is a tall and handsome guy.

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Secondly, Liu bang's family is not bad. Although he is not a noble, he is also a scholar at the bottom. His brother is good at doing business, and he himself became the security captain of Qin, so he is a cadre. And "poor and white" can't stand it.

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Third, Liu Bangting is a hero and a man of the hour in Pei County. Even Sima Qian recorded many things that Liu Bang won the support of the local people.

For example, "the benevolent loves others, gives love and is open-minded." He is a generous, charitable and kind guy. In addition, Liu Bang's talent is also outstanding. Although he doesn't earn money, he has a glib tongue and probably dares to hit people with his sleeves rolled. He is a big brother and can be loved by everyone.

According to records, he used to eat at his sister-in-law's house, not alone, but with a large group of friends every time. He fled to Mangshan, and many people followed him. When the world opposed the Qin Dynasty, Cao Can and Xiao He also took him as their leader.

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Fourth, Liu Bang still has some mysteries.

For example, Wang Wei and Five Blessingg often lie drunk. It is strange that Five Blessingg and Wang Wei often see dragons. Gaozu kept drinking in every village, and the wine was several times. Surprisingly, at the age of 30, these two families often fold their coupons and abandon their responsibilities.

So, Lv Gong married a woman. Besides his own fortune telling, he saw Liu Bang's appearance and thought that Liu Bang was destined to have money (which may be true or mysterious), including some specific manifestations of Liu Bang.

(1) started shouting 10,000 yuan, and that's it. With this boldness of vision, even if you don't actually send a penny, the style is out.

(2) In the face of Xiao He's input, he continued to sit grandly, without any obscene appearance.

Liu bang rushed to the county seat, found Ruff's residence and went straight in. Xiao He has arrived, and is helping Luf to receive a wedding present. When he saw Liu Banglai, he deliberately said loudly that if the wedding gift was less than 1000 yuan, he would sit under the hall.

Without saying anything, Liu Bang handed in his business card, and then wrote tens of thousands of dollars in the gift book for people to send in. After receiving Liu Bang's business card and "bad check", Luff hurried out to meet him. He saw that Liu Bang was tall, dignified, happier and more polite. During the dinner, he specially invited Liu Bang to sit in the first place.

Liu Bang didn't export, sitting in the first place, drinking with Luf, Xiao He and others.

Probably in this process, Liu Bang said a lot and showed extraordinary tolerance, so he was appreciated by Lv Gong.

To put it simply, Liu Bang is a hero. He is brave and resourceful, and different people have different opinions. He is handsome and handsome in front of township cadres. Such a man is excellent, but others are blinded by the stain of his idleness, while Lv Gong can recognize heroes.

Now, when people talk about emperors, the first thing that comes to mind is a vicious woman. Indeed, this woman decided to kill Han Xin and encouraged her husband to kill Peng Yue and other heroes. What is even more cruel is that Mrs. Qi was made a servant and called her son. Liu Ying, the emperor of the dynasty, came to see her masterpiece, which made Liu Ying so scared that she no longer cared about state affairs.

If we further subdivide Lv Hou's life, we will find that from the moment when Lv Zhi's father Lv Gong betrothed her to Liu Bang, who was fifteen years older than her, to the moment when she became a queen, Lv Zhi showed hard work, endured humiliation, dragged her children, supported her parents, and supported her family alone when Liu Bang was away all the year round!

It can be said that before Lv Zhi became the empress dowager, his bones showed good forbearance, the duty of a good woman, and the persistence of never giving up. If Lv Zhi married a contented man instead of Liu Bang, he wouldn't have too much property or too much ambition. When Lv Zhi lived in the form of a man living outside and a woman living at home all his life, he was absolutely entitled to the sacred title of a good wife and mother!

Why do you say that? We can follow this main line to find the answer!

Mainly from two aspects:

First of all, Lv Zhi chose to accept Liu Bang's illegitimate son and stepmother. From this point, it reflects Lv Zhi's kindness as a woman!

It is said that Lv Zhi met an embarrassing problem when she got married: a girl of fifteen or sixteen married a middle-aged man who was more than ten years older than her, not to mention the age gap. What is even more incredible is that this man is still a second-hand goods. Moreover, although the curator of "second-hand goods" is not officially married, he has an illegitimate son.

Faced with such a situation, Lv Zhi chose to accept it. There is no record in the history books that Lv Zhi was distressed by this, nor did he talk to Liu Bang about the condition that "I have no children born to other women". What's more, it is clearly recorded that before Liu Bang made his fortune, Lv Zhi didn't make any harsh moves on Liu Bang's illegitimate child Liu Fei, which is not easy for a girl whose husband grew up.

Second, Lv Zhi's contribution to the Chu-Han War was to be a hostage of Liu Bang for two years and four months. I heard that Liu Bang abandoned his own children on the way to escape, and witnessed Liu Bang's ridicule of Xiang Yu's desire to cook his father! As a hostage, she has no resentment, but is filial to Liu Bangjing. Liu Bang's father was given a pension.

Now think about it. If Lv Zhi marries a favorite villager, she will diligently manage the housework, have children, work at sunrise and rest at sunset. There won't be too many ups and downs in life, life will be quiet and calm, and the evil in human nature will not be awakened. Although she will not leave a world-famous achievement, she will not leave a lasting stigma!

They were both old and buried, not insulted by the Red Eyebrow Army, as happened after Lv Zhi's death.

This grave robbery is completely recorded in the Book of the Later Han Dynasty? In Biography of Liu Pengzi, the Red Eyebrow Army at that time was a peasant uprising army. Like robbers, they ransacked property everywhere and plundered it at will.

At that time, the capital was robbed and set on fire by rebels. One day, they came to the southern suburbs, fought fiercely with the Resistance Army, and finally occupied many cities. But at this moment, heavy snow began to fall in the sky, and many soldiers froze to death. They came to the mausoleum with hatred and carried out crazy excavation.

When they were digging, they saw the body of Lv Zhi, the queen of Emperor Gaozu, lying in a coffin decorated with jade and jewels. There are many jewels in it, and the body hasn't rotted yet, as if it weren't dead. So the rebels went crazy. One by one, they raped Lv Zhi's body.

Although this is recorded in the history books, it is really scary, but the fact is not necessarily true. When Lv Zhi died, she was about 60 years old, so she was an old woman.

She is the empress of Emperor Gaozu Liu Bang, with a history of almost 200 years from the end of the Western Han Dynasty. According to her age, she is an old woman in her twenties. The body has rotted, how can it still look like it just died? This behavior of the rebels has lost its waywardness and is completely immoral.

Perhaps, everything is destiny takes a hand!

Lv Zhi is a rich second generation young lady, pampered. And Liu Bang is a local strongman, a famous gangster, a gangster with all intentions and ambitions. The ancients said that men are not bad and women don't love them.

Lv Zhi liked Liu Bang's bohemian personality, and he bravely proposed to Lv Gong, who was rich and powerful. Explain that Liu Bang is an independent and innovative man who is not influenced by the secular world. A gangster on the surface, but with a strong aura in his heart, is an untapped treasure. When the time is right, this man will make a difference!

If you love, you won't regret it, but you will live vigorously, no matter right or wrong! History will give the best answer!